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Stephen Grey Obituary

Grey, Stephen
SARATOGA SPRINGS - Stephen "Steve" M. Grey, 64, of Saratoga Springs, N.Y. (formerly of Clifton Park and Mechanicville), beloved husband of Janet L. O'Hara Grey, entered eternal rest on Saturday, March 15, 2025, in Sarasota, Fla.
Steve was born in Mechanicville, N.Y., to William Edward and Marjorie Martin Grey, on June 21, 1960. He graduated from Mechanicville High School in 1978, and went on to earn a Bachelor of Science degree in Business from SUNY Oswego, where he was also a member of ZXZ fraternity. He continued his education, postgraduate, to earn his CLU (Chartered Life Underwriter) and ChFC (Chartered Financial Consultant) designations. Steve joined his father's business that was started in 1959, and together they were Grey Insurance & Financial Services. In the height of his career, he was recognized as one of the Top 100 Agents with New York Life Insurance Company whom he contracted with for over 42 years as a Registered Financial Planner. He was widely recognized in his field and received countless honors and awards for his consistent success and professional integrity. Steve worked closely with his many clients and considered them family as he helped them create their own financial legacies. He was one of the lucky ones; he loved what he did and never considered it work. Away from work, Steve was an integral part of his community and contributed to many causes not only financially but also with his time. For over a decade, he served on the Finance Committee of St. Edward the Confessor Roman Catholic Church in Clifton Park, N.Y. He also served many years on the Juniper Hill Board in Bolton Landing, N.Y. In addition, he was a loving and enthusiastic supporter of his wife's many causes – they were truly a team.
Steve loved being outside and especially near any body of water but particularly his beloved Lake George. He loved to camp, hike, and canoe and was an avid skier but he could also sit on a beach for hours on end. If he were lucky enough to be doing any of the above with his children, family or friends he was at his happiest. He cherished his family and friendships – many literally lifelong - above all else and was an all-around lover of life. His smile – and dance moves – would light up a room.
Steve is survived by his best friend and wife of 36 years, Janet O'Hara Grey; daughter, Emily Rose (Tor Tremblay) of Brooklyn, N.Y.; and son, Ian Brennan (fiancée, Lane Rawlings), of New York, N.Y.; his siblings, William II (Patricia) of Mechanicville, N.Y., Mark (Marianne) of Ambler, Pa., twin, Daniel, who was literally his other half, (Catherine), of Stillwater, N.Y., and Erin Maggi (Gary) of Lake George, N.Y. He was also survived by many – MANY - cousins, nieces and nephews, whom he cherished and adored.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Apr. 19, 2025.

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Adrienne Camfield

May 10, 2025

So sorry about his passing. I used to ride the bus with his brother Danny when I was a little girl. I found this by accident following a Mechanicville page.

Dan Robens

April 22, 2025

My sincerest condolences to Steve's family and friends. I'm very sorry to hear of his passing. Although it's been quite some time since I've seen Steve, I will always remember him as kind, friendly and fun. I would usually run into Steve at a social gathering or around the holidays in one of our hometown establishments to raise a festive glass. May his memory live on and bless those closest to him.

Linda & Steve aquino

April 21, 2025

Janet and family, we were so saddened to hear of Steve´s passing. He was one of the friendliest faces at Juniper, always with a smile and a hello. Our prayers are with you and your whole family. Linda&Steve Aquino, 23 Juniper Hill, Lake George

Hannah (Gould)

April 20, 2025

Erin and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Erin it's been many years since we saw each other. We went to Spencer Business Inst. together, and several trips to the Union Inn. I hope you will hold each other close and share your happy memories. Sending love and prayers.

edward kurzynski

April 19, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Art & Marcelle

April 19, 2025

Janet - we are so sorry to hear of Stephen´s passing. Our prayers go to you and your family at this difficult time. May he rest in peace

Patricia Kahn

April 16, 2025

Dear Janet, Emily and Ian. The Kahn family is so very sorry to learn of the passing of your husband and father. Way too young. May your memories of Stephen be a blessing and always being a smile to your faces. Condolences. Pat and Katie Kahn

Susan Brownell

April 12, 2025

Janet ... So very very sorry for your loss. Steve was such a wonderful guy. Was thinking about my memories of him ... Have to say my favorite memory is of Steve and Jude Ryan. Laughing together and telling stories. I'm sure they are together now laughing together and sharing memories.

Wishing you and your family peace

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