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Thomas Vernon Stalker

1940 - 2022

Thomas Vernon Stalker obituary, 1940-2022, Stockport, NY

BORN

1940

DIED

2022

FUNERAL HOME

Sacco-McDonald & Valenti-Richards Funeral Home

700 Town Hall Dr

Hudson, New York

Thomas Stalker Obituary

Stalker, Thomas Vernon STOCKPORT Thomas Vernon Stalker, 81 of Stockport, died peacefully at his home on Saturday, October 15, 2022. Born on December 12, 1940, in Port Chester, N.Y., he was the son of the late Walter P. and Alice Winifred Stalker. Tom was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He served proudly in the U.S. Army from 1957-1960 and received a certificate of recognition from the Secretary of Defense for his service during the Cold War. He was a member of A.B.A.T.E. and the V.F.W. He loved riding his Harley and throwing biker parties at his house. Tom retired after a long career from Metro North as a crane operator. He will be greatly missed by his loving wife, Elizabeth "Betty" Kosa Stalker; daughter and her husband, Theresa and Donald Tutt; brothers, George, John and James Stalker; his sister, June Stalker; as well as his grandchildren, Cristy Tutt, and Willow Levine. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his son, Thomas E. Stalker; brother, Norman "Pete" Stalker; and his sister, Lenore Coons. Calling hours will be from 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. on Wednesday, October 19, at the Sacco Funeral Home, 700 Town Hall Dr., Hudson. Funeral services will follow at 12 p.m. with Pastor Karen Squires officiating. Burial will be in the Cedar Park Cemetery in Hudson. Family and friends are invited to gather at the Whitestone Cafe in Ghent following the services.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Oct. 18, 2022.

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Sacco-McDonald & Valenti-Richards Funeral Home

700 Town Hall Dr, Hudson, NY 12534

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12:00 p.m.

Sacco-McDonald & Valenti-Richards Funeral Home

700 Town Hall Dr, Hudson, NY 12534

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