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Joseph Haines Obituary
He is survived by his parents, LeRoy E. and Mary Ann (Furcolo) Haines of Westerly; his brother, Robert L. Haines of Westerly; and Joseph's girlfriend, Christy Ring.
Mr. Haines was born in Westerly on Nov. 5, 1965. He was a machine operator at the Bradford Dyeing Association for many years. He was an avid bowler at Cleats/Alley Katz Sports Bar of Westerly, a NASCAR fan and a member of the Westerly Lodge of Elks #678.
A graveside service will be held on Thursday, Oct. 18, at 11 a.m. at St. Sebastian Cemetery, Westerly. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m. at Rushlow-Iacoi Funeral Home, 64 Friendship St., Westerly.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Haines
Courtny Stanton
November 12, 2007
This is an essay I wrote for school on somebody who inspired me most.His name was Josoph Roy Haines. He was born November 5th 1964 and died October 13th 2007. He was the best dad i ever had! 3 thing i loved best about him was he was very fun, outgoing and nice.When i got home every day after school and i needed help with homework ,the computer or anything joe was there to help me with any thing i needed. also it was the night of my bithday (i fell asleep) and joe put shaving cream on my face.joe was also a very outgoing person he was very sociable and got along with everyone. everyone loved him!! We coudnt go any where without having to stop to talk with someone he knew. I will always keep him in my heart. i loved him alot. i just wish i could have showed him that. I never got the chance to tell him thank you for making me and my family so happy. I know that even though i cant see him that he is right there sitting next to me,my mom and my brothers.
dakota stanton
November 12, 2007
We will all miss you Joe. You and all the fun times together we will miss. I am truely sorry Bob,Lee Roy, Maryanne for your loss.
Damien Fish
November 12, 2007
Joe,I wanted to say Thank You for being a great stepdad and always being there and doing great things with us.I Love You.
Courtny Stanton
November 12, 2007
I had to write this essay for school on someone that inspired me.His name was Joseph R. Haines born Nov.5 1964 Died Oct.13 2007.He was the best dad I ever had.Three things I loved most about him was he was very fun,outgoing and always nice.Shaving cream all over my face,launching rockets at Crandal Field,ice cream on friday nights.He always helped me with my homework,the computer or anything I needed he was there.I will always keep him in my heart. I realize I didn`t get the chance to say Thank You for making my family happy again I was`nt sure that was possible again.I know I can`t see him but I know he is right next to me,mom,and my brothers.Even though I can`t tell him how much I love him he knows. He will be missed by us always.
Love, Courtny
james cimalore
November 11, 2007
We will never forget!
Growing up as kids pertending to be like KISS.The fun times we had wrestling & boxing,football threw
the neighborhoods.Undefeated in the
80s as THE HEART FOUNDATION.Going to concerts & hanging out at the beach.I won't forget the fish bat.
Drag racing,mudding in MUDWEISER,
bowling on the BUD TEAM & vollyball
Having a bud ice,cooking & barbacue
playing cards & playing pool.
MINNESOTA VIKINGS & NASCAR were
just some of his favorite things to watch.WE all going to miss not
growing old with you.
From the first days we met at the
pond being one of the crew to all
the fun times we all shared with
you.Words we lived by Bucket's
unbelievable,holyfield not hollyfield.I will never forget.
You will be sadly missed & never
forgotten.I will miss my tag team partner,your old friend ( cima )
My deepest sympthay to LEEROY,
MARYANN & BOBBY .......
My last entry, God Bless......
Mark Haines
November 9, 2007
Joe,
I can only wish that we grew up closer. I will always hold the memories close to my heart of the GREAT times we have had when we were kids. You are greatly missed from all the Haines' on the West Coast!
Scott Cheatham
October 24, 2007
Joe was a great person to know, always having such a positive vibe. My dad has always had such great things to say about him. I knew Joe through his friendship and remember having such great time with him playing pool and boating. He will be missed by many. My condolences to all.
LeRoy Haines
October 20, 2007
We want to thank everyone.We knew that joe had a lot of good friends.These messages just prove it,We have read them over and over.Joe will be missed by all of us. But he will never leave our hearts or thoughts. Thanks again Lee, Maryann and Bob
Dawna Stryker
October 19, 2007
Joe - you were someone who always made me laugh or knew just the right buttons to push. You are going to be missed so much. We had a lot of fun times hanging out with everyone that I wouldn't trade for anything! Just remember we will meet again someday. You will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
kevin terranova
October 18, 2007
My deepest sympathy to your family for your loss!!! I knew & partied with joe for many years. He always treated everyone the same. He will be missed by all who knew him.
DON&LU WINCHESTER
October 18, 2007
condolences to the family for their tragic loss.he will be missed at our racing parties.our prayers for his family . love to all.
gary maloney
October 17, 2007
joe,
what can i say you were to young to pass so early in life,but we have always believed that things happened for a reason.I will never forget the great times you,bucket,myself and paul have shared.the laughs and the memories will last forever.you will be sadly missed.but i do know that you will be watching over us and i do mean all of us...
my deepest sympathy to the haines family
Terri & JD Ketterman
October 17, 2007
Wonderful Memories Bro.
We will never forget your tips on grilling, your signature shirts, your unique methods and ability to make friends, your trailer etiquette and the innumerable great times & laughs. Racing at Loudon will never be the same.
We'll miss you. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family, friends and you.
Save us a seat.
gary maloney
October 17, 2007
joe,
what can i say.you will be sadly missed.I remember all the great times we had,you me and bucket(scott).your memory will be with us forever and i know that you will be watching from above.I will miss you.
Tim and Karen Danells
October 17, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to the family of a great friend, we will miss you Joe, the nascar races will never be the same with out you, but your laugh, your stories and our memories of you will be treasured in our hearts forever. We'll miss you Joe Oceans Of Love, Tim and Karen Danells
melissa morenzoni
October 17, 2007
P.S. I almost forgot Joe, whenever we are at the Lasalette Shrine, I will hear "MALISSAA" blownin' the wind. Love you, Melissa.M.
melissa morenzoni
October 17, 2007
Joe,
You never did replace our BATMAN house, your secret will go on in Nashville forever. Keep dancing, remember those crazy nights at Roxies, and the barefoot races across the Westerly High football fields with Bucket. Know that all is good now, we love you and will miss you. Lots of things we never got a chance to say, but you know. We will miss you,we love you. Our deepest sympathy to Joe's family. You will never be forgotten, you are at peace now. Love always, Scott, Melissa, Luke, Austin, and Michael Morenzoni- (Tennessee)
Missy (Singer) Malbaurn Ashley Stryker
October 17, 2007
Our condolences to Joe's family we have many great memories of Joe.
Paul,Maryanne,Hunter Obermann
October 16, 2007
Joe what can we say but, you meant so much to me and Paul,and Hunter. You were not just our friend you were our FAMILY. We are going to miss you so much, there will not be a day that we will not think of you. Miss you and love you always.
Harold and Crissy Chatwin and Mason
October 16, 2007
Sorry for your loss,me and my girlfriend just met Joe in New Hampshire, July of this year.We enjoyed the weekend greatly and are deeply saddened for your loss.
May Dumsar
October 16, 2007
Mr and Mrs Hanes and Bobby, I am so sorry to hear of Joey, passing. I grew up with Bobby and Joey. I was shocked when I heard the news. Please except my deepest sympathy. Love you all, May (Farrar) Dumsar
May Dumsar
October 16, 2007
Mr and Mrs Hanes and Bobby, I am so sorry to hear of Joey, passing. I grew up with Bobby and Joey. I was shocked when I heard the news. Please except my deepest sympathy. Love you all, May (Farrar) Dumsar
Dave Pacheco, Jr
October 16, 2007
To the Haines family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Tim Cheatham
October 16, 2007
Joe will always be a brother to me, a brother lost way too soon. To my other brother Bobby, and to Lee and Mary Ann, my deepest sympathies, and let us all remember the great times and fun Joe brought to us every day, days that will be forever treasured.
Don & Mary Allen
October 16, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to the family. Time and distance makes it hard to offer a shoulder to cry on. But the warmth of a fond memory is cherished forever.
Jody Root
October 16, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family.Remeber all the good times we had when we grew up in the same neighborhood. Bless you all.
Jody (Farrar) Root.
Josh Bousquet
October 16, 2007
I only knew Joe for a few short years,in that time hes brought me into his circle when I really had none of my own.I'll miss him dearly for the rest of my life
Carla Routhier
October 15, 2007
I am so sad to hear of the news. I knew Joe many years ago (& for many years) in our youth (we are still young, yes?). My deepest sympathies to his family and friends. God sure took a good guy. warmest wishes. I am sorry to not be able to say goodbye in person.
christy courtny dakota damien
October 15, 2007
joe, you will always be my everything , courtny, dakota, damien,and myself, will forever love and miss you, thank you for some of the best memories of our lives we love you always
Angie Holland
October 15, 2007
Lee and Mary Ann, I'm so sorry for your loss. Joe will be missed by so many. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mark Bishop
October 15, 2007
Joe, even though we never really talked, it was a blast playin poker with you that night... and bowling on the lanes next to you the past few months. You'll be missed.
Geneva Farrar
October 15, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Hanes family. Bobby and Joey grew up with my kids. God Bless you all,
Your old neighbor,
Mrs Geneva Farrar, Lakeland Florida
Garry Algiere
October 15, 2007
Will miss seein you walk up High Street,,never forget the good times in the Camaro ,, Will miss you Joe
amy lanphear
October 15, 2007
"FAT CHICKS RULE"
THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS AND SO MANY MEMORIES OF YOU THAT MY CHILDREN, JASON, AND I WILL MISS. YOU HAD A HEART OF GOLD AND WAS ALWAYS LETTING PEOPLE INTO YOUR HEART AND HOME, YOU WILL BE LOVED AND MISSED FOREVER. YOUR HUMOR OF ALL IS ONE THING THAT WILL BE IN MY HEART. LOVE YOU JOEY!! LOVE, AMY, JAY, MEGAN, AND CHELSEA
Tonya Ketchum
October 15, 2007
Lots of good memories...you will never be forgotten...we'll have a blast when we all meet on the other side of those gates!
Tracy Hindle Sposato
October 15, 2007
Leroy, Mary Ann And Bobby
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Joey. I will remember all the good times we had together.You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love
Jackie Pierce
October 15, 2007
Although I only met you a couple of times, you welcomed me into your home and circle of friends as if I had always belonged there. I remember you told me "any friend of Jan's is a friend of mine". Indeed you meant that. You will remain in my thoughts forever of Rhode Island and one of the best vacations I've ever had. I am so saddened by your passing and I know you will be truly missed.
Jackie
Sean
October 15, 2007
"$5.00 THAT A WHOLE LOT A MONEY."
You and all those one liners are going to be missed by plenty.
You were way to young, and to good of a guy and We dont know how to say Good-bye. So I'm going to say like I always did, Ill see you later, because one day we will all be back together.
Love Ya Man
Jim Cimalore
October 14, 2007
Reflecting on those days at the pond from the camareo to the
el camino to those summer nights
of our youth.
We lost a member of our version
of the heart foundation.
Those who knew him best will all
share in a lost.
Leaving us way to early in life.
God Bless,
CIMA
james blackwood iii
October 14, 2007
will never forget you and all the good
times.
your friend squiddy
Jan Croddy
October 14, 2007
My secound brother from another mother.
Love you always, Jan and Tim
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