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for Kathryn Trapp
Aaron Runion
July 7, 2010
I had the pleasure of working for Kathy for two seperate community agencies in Jacksonville. I am proud to not only call her a boss, but a true friend. She helped me grow professionally and personally, always reminding me to see the good in everyone, no matter how frustrated you may get at times. Her kind spirit lives on in our hearts and minds forever and will be shared with others who didn't know her. Rest in peace, I know you are in heaven now.
Monica Longe
June 30, 2010
I lived across the street from Kathy when we were very small, and I am so sad to hear this. My prayers to her family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember that Kathy was never afraid of anything and was always up for an adventure! From camping in our backyards and swimming, I smile thinking about those times. I cried when she moved away, and we lost touch. Nonetheless, her bravery continues to inspire me.
Michele Maltese
June 28, 2010
This makes my heart ache. Kathy made my heart smile. I will hold her there, close to my heart - forever. She was one of my closest friends in high school. Seems like we were always having fun.
I picture Kathy, Theresa, me and a few others driving down Telegraph acting like teenagers and blaring some of the best grooves ever played on Detroit radio stations. We were coming of age, growing into our adult lives and were at each others side through it all. Like most teenagers, Kathy loved music. Michael Jackson, Prince, The Time, Vanity 6 and so on. Kathy always had a way of bringing the lyrics to life. I cherish a couple of videos which capture a car filled with music and teenage friends including Kathy dancing in her seat. She was a true and loyal friend to many and she was the most fun to be around in any situation. She loved her family as a unit and she loved each of them very deeply. She was a responsible teenager, a deep thinker, a creative and poetic personality. I was proud to call her my friend.
As life goes, we grew as far apart as the miles between us and the years kept accumulating. It has been 22 years, but always thought I would see her again... guess it will be a while longer. I hope she knows how much I have missed her and will continue to. God Bless You and your family that you left behind - my dear, sweet friend. This is... "when doves cry."
June 28, 2010
I’ve found that more often than not, when our loved ones pass away we tend to characterize them as “saints” or something similar. However, in regard to Kathy Trapp, this has not, is not, and could not ever be the case. Kathy was always so incredibly patient, kind, understanding, courageous, passionate, generous, positive, and loving. Outside of the social work that she dedicated her professional life to there were 3 things that meant the most to her in the world: Deb, Lauren, and the babies (dogs and cats). Kathy once told me that she knew true love only because she knew Deb. Over the years I learned more about Lauren and their relationship. She loved that girl as if she were her biological daughter and was SO proud to call her just that, ‘my daughter’. I decided to share those memories to remind Deb and Lauren how much they meant to Kathy. There is nothing that can be said to ease the pain, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Deb, Lauren and all her siblings and other family members. Kathy will be forever missed, yet NEVER forgotten.
Janet Gray
June 26, 2010
To have had that special person, Kathy Trapp as a sister, partner, and friend must have been a great joy. Her spirit will never be truly gone. May you find comfort in memories of good and special times in the weeks and years to come.
Dan's Mom
Maria Lessnau
June 26, 2010
Dear Deb, Lauren, Sally, Julie, Danny, Mary & Carolyn,
I am so truly sorry for your loss. Kathy and I had been lifelong friends,since childhood. We shared so many life experiences in our formative years that kept a strong bond between us for over thirty years. Though we did not see each other often we always knew that we could count on each other whenever needed. Kathy I loved you like a sister. You were one of the best friends anyone could hope for. My heart breaks to think that the world is without you. I know you are in a better place. Please kiss your parents and brother from me. I love you and you willl always be in my heart. Your loving friend, Maria
ps we had seasons in the sun!!!
N Robinson
June 25, 2010
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Kathy. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Mary Krawczyk
June 25, 2010
Kathy was a very sweet person. I enjoyed her beautiful spirit for the brief time that I knew her and I will cherish my memories of her. My thoughts and prayers and with her family and loved ones who miss her dearly.
Anna & Kendrick Nelson
June 25, 2010
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Suzanne Roberts
June 24, 2010
Dearest Deb, Lauren and Family,
Kathy was such a courageous and brave woman who battled breast cancer with the utmost dignity and strength. She was simply amazing and was my beautiful friend for the past 11 years. I am so honored to have shared a small part of Kathy's world. Her life was like a beacon...always shining towards the pathway of light and happiness. Offering love and guidance to everyone she touched. As a professional, Kathy was " Top Drawer". She was the best. Top of her class, as well as her profession. Always moving towards greatness with every step. Her many acheivements were significant, but nothing was more important to Kathy than her family and babies. They were the heartbeat and soul of her life. In friendship, Kathy was true...always caring, compassionate and above all...always there for those she loved...Her laughter and smile will be in my heart forever.
This song is for you Kathy...
I can see clearly now the rain is gone
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind,
It's going to be a bright, sun shiny day.
Dearest Kathy, look straight ahead now lady , nothing but blue skies today and always for you my friend.
Dear Deb, Lauren and Family, We love you very much and we wish you peace and comfort during your time of loss. We are here for you and treasure your friendship.
Much love always,
Fr. Jim Arsenault
June 24, 2010
Kathy ............ will be missed by all. My love and prayers are with Her Family and Friends. Fr. Jim Arsenault , Richmond, VA
Suzanne Roberts
June 24, 2010
Dearest Deb, Lauren and Family,
Kathy was simply an amazing and courageous woman that was my beautiful friend for the past 11 years. I am so very honored to have had such a bright light in my life. I will treasure her memory always. Kathy left her mark on this world. Her legacy of love, laughter and life will live on in every person she touched. Kathy was a dedicated, compassionate and true professional, always making a difference in the many remarkable successes that she accomplished in her professional career. As a true friend, Kathy was the best.Very thoughful, caring and always there... Even when distance came between our friendship, Kathy always made the time to reach out and talk. I am so very proud to be called her friend.
This song is for Kathy....
I can see clearly now the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way,
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind.It's gonna be a bright sunshiny day.
Dearest Kathy….Look straight ahead, nothing but blue skies for you today and always.
Dear Deb, Lauren and Family, Please know that we love you very much and our thoughts and prayers are with you. We treasure your friendship and If there is anything that you need, or that we can do for you. please let us know. We are here for you today and always.
Judy Payne
June 24, 2010
Deb & Lauren, I am so sorry for your loss. My memories of Kathy will be of her face lighting up when she had a fish on the line. If there are tarpon in heaven, I am sure she is fighting one now. Love & prayers.
Mary Ann Davenport
June 24, 2010
I had the privilege to work with Kathy when we both worked at the White Foundation and again during this past year when she was with CHS. Her smiling heart, sense of humor, and generous nature made tough projects and at times long hours seem almost fun, she was always willing to pitch in to ensure a job was not only done, but done well. She was a wonderful friend, tremendous clinician, and a thoughtful leader. She truly cared about those with whom she worked, those she supervised, and especially, those she served. She had such a positive impact on those around her as well as all the programs and services she implemented and managed. She loved her work, her friends, her puppies, and most of all, she loved her family. We were so fortunate to have Kathy be part of our lives, part of our community. She was loved by many and I know her presence here will be missed.
Kathy Nevis
June 24, 2010
I knew Kathy many years ago. She put joy in my life for a short time and I continue to carry that joy with me today. Knowing her made me a better person. My condolences to her family and many friends.
Joyce Crompton
June 24, 2010
My heart dropped when I read of her passing. We worked together at the White Foundation. She was always a joy to work with. I was blessed to have Kathy as part of my life. God Bless you all.
June 24, 2010
Deb & Lauren, my sincerest condolences. This is a great loss to many who knew and loved her. She was a good friend to me when I was in need and I hope I touched her life somehow. A sweeter more giving person you will not find on this earth. My prayers are with you and her family. Norma Jean Lee (Jacksonville, FL)
Amy Horne
June 24, 2010
To Kathy's family: It was a pleasure for Eric and I to have gotten to know Kathy and although we haven't seen her in many years, I know that she brought sunshine into the room when she entered. She was a very special person to Deb and Lauren and I'm very sorry for their loss. My thoughts and prayers are with this family as they grieve. Please let us know if there is anything additional you may need.
Bobby & Nancy Butler
June 24, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Kathy's family. If there is anything we can do please let us know.
June 24, 2010
I knew Kathy first as a student at UNF and then as a professional colleague. Her ready smile, delightful wit, gracious and loving nature, and quiet courage were gifts she shared with all who had the privilege to know her. I will long remember her. Minor Chamblin
Kenny & Dee Dobson
June 24, 2010
Our neighbor Kathy will be missed by us. It was our pleasure to see her smiling face. We know you will always remember the joy she gave to all of her loved ones and friends.
Sincerely,
Kenny and Dee Dobson
Paul Russ
June 24, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
I didn't Know Kathy for very long. But when I read this. It made me think of her and everthing that she did, when caring for the children and being with the staff at Childrens Home Society. My prayers and sympathy will be with you and your family in this time of need.
TAMMY FLOYD
June 24, 2010
I was blessed to have been a friend of Kathy's for the last 12 years. I have an abundance of wonderful memories of great times together with her and Deb and her family. I have never known anyone with more determination and a will to live as she had. Her fight with cancer was the hardest fight she ever had. I'm very sorry for all of us left behind for we will be the ones sad and will miss her dearly, but for her I am thankful that her fight is over and she is at peace with God. That makes me feel good. My thoughts are with the family.
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