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Benjamin Davis Obituary
11/02/1954 - 04/27/2023
Benjamin H. Davis of Toledo, Ohio, passed away April 27, 2023, after a 5 month battle with pancreatic cancer. Ben was born November 2, 1954, in Toledo, Ohio, to Benjamin A. and Carole Davis. He grew up in Temperance, Michigan and graduated from Bedford High School in 1972. Ben's commitment to excellence was stellar. He measured his success according to the standards he set for himself. He set the bar high. Everything he did personally and professionally was done to perfection.
Ben spent his entire career at BP Refinery in highly regarded leadership positions. His accomplishments and expertise were recognized by his peers and executives. He received many awards throughout his career which spanned over 4 decades. Ben became a member of Bayview Yacht Club in 1974. He had a passion for boating. His love for the water, lakes and oceans alike, were embedded early in life. He shared this passion with all his family and many friends. He was a skilled Captain and navigator.
Ben is survived by his loving wife, Patti Vassallo; father, Benjamin A. Davis; children, Alexandria K. Davis, Benjamin R. Davis, Elizabeth A. Davis; stepchildren, Andrea Vassallo, Joey (Melissa) Vassallo, Anthony (Emily) Vassallo; grandchildren, Maizie, Preston, Spencer, Dane, Lily, Benjamin T., Davis, Ivy, Andrew, Joelie, Kaitlyn, Savanna, Braden, Lola, Vincenzo, and Juliana; siblings, Pamela (Craig) Black, Michael (Lori) Davis, Sue Ellen Lewark. He was preceded in death by his mother, Carole Davis; and grandson, Weston Vassallo.
A Celebration of Life for Ben will be held at Bayview Yacht Club, 3902 N. Summit St., Toledo, Ohio 43611, on June 11, 2023, at 2pm. Please bring your stories and memories to share as we gather together in celebration and remembrance of Ben.
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Sponsored by Cremation Society of Toledo.
Melanie Perry
June 8, 2023
Thanks for the great times and great memories. Wishing you peace. Hugs and smiles
Jolene Wagner
June 5, 2023
Jolene
June 5, 2023
As I help Patti with your Celebration, I find one great picture after another of our adventures together, one great silly story pops into my head, and the funny catch phrases from the many stories you would tell. I will always miss you, Benjamin! Peace my friend!
Deb Batdorf
May 28, 2023
I was saddened to read about Ben´s passing! Sincere condolences to his family.
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Norma Fletcher
May 18, 2023
My sympathy to the family of Ben Davis. I worked many years with Ben at the BP Refinery. You could always hear Ben over others, he had a big voice that would carry even though he was not a big man. May he rest in peace and may the family be comforted by our Lord.
Jack Romp
May 9, 2023
My wife Sharon and I retired to Indiana. Scattered around the state are Ben Davis auto dealerships. Indianapolis has a high school named Ben Davis which is a power every year in basketball. Plus there was a NBA retired basketball player named Ben Davis. I always thought it would be neat if I could get a hat from the dealerships or from the high school and somehow get it to Ben the next time I would be in Toledo. And then you hear he left us. What a great guy Ben was. His knowledge of the refinery was great. He was a lot of fun to be with and he would always help you if you asked for it. He deserved a longer retirement. Jack Romp
Stacey Spencer-Lynch
May 9, 2023
Sending sincere condolences.
Jim Kilmer
May 9, 2023
I got to know Ben after he hired in at the refinery. Fun, smart and always willing to jump in and help with anything that was happening. He will be missed. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Ashely Dickey
May 9, 2023
Sending many warm wishes to the family. Ben was a great person, and the stories of the adventures I heard were enlightening. He was funny, smart and caring and will be missed. RIP <3
Dave & Mary Murphy
May 7, 2023
Ben was such a wonderful person to be around. After hiring in together @bp we spent a good amount of time together. We all knew he was going places & wished him the best. When we did meet up it was like we never lost touch. Loved him dearly!
Dad
May 7, 2023
VERY MUCH MISSING FROM MANY LIVES, ESPECIALLY MINE !!!!! Dad
Leonarda Rando
May 6, 2023
Sweet Ben knew ya for almost 2 years but will remember you forever make sure you are jamming to 80s metal up above us may you rest in much luv + sweet peace XOXO
TL
May 4, 2023
May your memories give you peace and comfort of your loved one. Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for the loss of your loved one. May GOD be with you all during this difficult time. 1 Thessalonians 4:14 For if we have faith that Jesus died and rose again, so too God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in death through Jesus.
Dave and Debbie Wagner
May 3, 2023
So saddened to hear the news of Big Ben! A man full of life, funny, leader, mentor, and friend with a contagious work ethic, always wanting to do the right thing. Our loss is heaven's gain. RIP beloved brother!
Paul Hrezik
May 2, 2023
A refinery keystone for sure!! Always there there to step in and lead when needed, share his wealth of knowledge or just a funny story. Rest in Peace brother - you´ve earned it!
Jon D Parker
May 2, 2023
My Friend, My Mentor, My Teacher, you are and will always be greatly missed. No one could ever thank you enough for everything you gave to us all in care, wisdom, integrity, honesty and friendship. I love you brother, rest in peace.
Steven and Precious Brownlee
May 2, 2023
Sending our sincere condolences.
Sue Ellen
May 1, 2023
My brother Ben, Beany to me. I will never let go of the last adventure we shared. The goodness in you overwhelmed my heart. Love You
bill shingledecker
May 1, 2023
I am saddened beyond words. Rest well.
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