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Connie Oates Obituary
Connie Jean (Rafferty)
On August 14, 2016, Connie Jean (Rafferty) Oates, transitioned from this life into her eternal home with Jesus Christ. Born November 3, 1958, to the parents of Gerald L. and Jo-Anna (Grant) Rafferty in Toledo, Ohio. She graduated from Whitney High School, retired from Medical College of Ohio and was the owner and operator of Shamrock Janitorial Unlimited LLC.
She leaves to cherish her memory, her devoted husband of 37 years, Deacon Larry Oates; one daughter, Sara Graff (John); two grandchildren, Jordyn and David, of Northwood, OH; niece and nephew that she helped raise, Dee Thorn and Brandon Stein; four sisters, Lynn Rafferty, Lisa Rafferty, Jerri Lee Rafferty, Renee (Marvin) Goetting, all of Toledo Ohio; one brother, Gerald Louis Raffety Jr. (Sam) of MI; four sister-in-laws, Barbara Hollowell (Leon) of Toledo, OH, Minister Lorice Oates-Griffin (Charles) of Augusta, GA, Mary Baisden and Gloria Oates of Americus, GA and special niece, Tatia Hollis. She was preceded in death by both parents and nephew, Mick Geisen. She also leaves behind many, many special nieces, nephews, and a multitude of friends.
A memorial service to celebrate her life will be on Saturday, August 20, 2016, at New Covenant Baptist Church, 3864 Jackman Rd., Toledo, OH, at 10:00 am.
As published in The Blade
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Memories and Condolences
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canary Taddonio (Falkner)
August 23, 2016
I just found out today about the passing of this great lady Connie. Saddened by this news. May she rest in peace. My condolences go out to Larry and the rest of the family. God bless
Tammy Mays
August 19, 2016
Larry,
My heart is so full at the leaning of Aunt Connie,
She was such a kind, loving, fun, person to be around.
But God never make a mistake.
For we know he is able to heal in time.
Love you.
Rev. Raymond and Tammy Mays
Tiana and Leethia.
And my brother Kerry.
Tara Fears
August 19, 2016
Uncle Larry, we are deeply saddened by the passing of a wonderful women Aunt Connie! Her light has not completely extinguished, we hold our own memories of how she lived in our hearts and minds. God has allow us all to share her life and now celebrate her life with joy and gladness, thanking God, for allowing us to be a part in her life. God bless you uncle Larry and keep you during your time of morning. For Connie fought a good fight, she kept her faith strong, to enter tht eternal sleep,for her works will follow.
Shannon Grames (Feahr)
August 19, 2016
Many hugs, tears, and prayers, Connie will be missed dearly but remembered forever. Love to all
August 19, 2016
Larry so sorry to hear of your loss.Connie always was a sweet spirit and I always had a smile. She was devoted to you and I know you will miss her greatly. May God strengthen you at this time. Love you. Annie Banks and City park Group
Wiley Schley
August 19, 2016
Larry and family, I along with the rest of my family regret the loss of your wife. May God comfort you during these days of sorrow. Your cousin Wiley.
Tammy Battle
August 18, 2016
Uncle Larry, we are praying for you and love you dearly!! Thank you for sharing Aunt Connie with our family. I am forever grateful for the example that you both set for us and all the words of wisdom that Aunt Connie gave me on being a Godly wife. "Blessed are those that mourn for they shall be comforted" (Matthew 5:4)
August 18, 2016
Our loved ones who have passed leave an imprint on our hearts. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
Patricia Leichty
August 18, 2016
I'm very saddened and shocked by this terrible news. I haven't seen Connie for many years but this is heartbreaking to hear. Prayers are sent to the rest of Connie's faimily along with our deepest sympathies. Rest in peace sweetheart.
August 18, 2016
You will forever be with us in our wonderful memories, Our Hearts and Our Journey thru life. Love to you my friend. I will miss you so.
Lynn Rafferty
August 18, 2016
You fought long & hard to stay here with us. Now with a heavy hearts and tears of plenty, we will cherish all the memories over the years . We will always love & miss you Connie. Forever your older sister.
Kim (Arney) Taylor
August 18, 2016
Such a kind spirit that will truly be missed, praying for the Oates and your extended family
Kimberly Grant - Morrison
August 18, 2016
Please accept my sincerest condolences.
August 18, 2016
My heart breaks more everyday ~ I love you so very much. Your little Sister Renee
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