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Mom
October 16, 2025
You're always on my mind & forever in my HEART. Love & missing you son.
Coco
September 9, 2025
Is only so many way to say you miss someone. Today and several other days as time continues to move on for others I was reminded that it´s not that I haven´t moved forward, it´s that love has no expiration date. Missing you doesn´t mean I´m stuck it means you mattered and you still matter. Grief is love with nowhere to go. You´re never forgotten loved beyond words can express. 34 years I celebrated for you today laying in bed and resting embracing memories of you instead of sadness. I love you little
Mom
September 9, 2025
Wishing you were here to enjoy your special 34th Birthday. Love you Lil

Carla Lyons
September 8, 2025
How many ways can a person express they miss you! I watch and listen to all the post about you and see how they cope with losing you. Your son is a handsome young man and growing up nicely. He is a great boxer and I see great things awaiting him. Your brother Tonio is very tall and out grew all of us. I would like to see him pull it together more but at least he okay. Last time you seen Mani she was still runt and now all grown up attending her first year college. Your mom. My crazy sis talk regularly and find laughter here and there. Your cousin Jamie baby Lei Lei the monster would give you a run for your money. You would give her back in an hour Love you nephew, keep resting we hope and pray to see you in the new world.
Mom
September 7, 2025
Hey Lil, I know I haven't been on your page in awhile but life has been very challenging for me. Today is another year you were taken away from me & I'm still trying to understand & cope. I think about you often & speak as if you are still here with us. I have a difficult time talking to people when they ask me about you. I know I need an outlet or someone to talk too, so I can find ways to get through this grieving process better. Your dad came over this morning & took BJ story out. Him & Lil Nel washed & shined him up & went for spin through the city. Rocket had a fight in NC yesterday, he lost, he did really good considering his rotator cuff is messed up. Your brother has a daughter now, I wish you were here to help guide him through fatherhood. I love you & I always will.
Mom
May 12, 2025
Hey Lil, missing you bunches. Stop by yesterday to clean your headstone off & put some girlie pink flowers out.. I know you wouldn't approve but they match the Dogwood tree flowers that are blooming. I love you & you are forever in my heart & prayers. Tonio sent me flowers from San Diego, they are beautiful.
Mom Harris
April 25, 2025
I miss you so so much. I still feel weak after all theses years. I live love you son.
Mom
April 5, 2025
Hey Lil, my love for you will always be here. You are on my mind constantly. Thinking of how smart you were, how you could draw, putting things together by looking at them & how handy you were when you wanted to be. I remembered when you tried out for track & field, you had your 1st track meet & won, you were so fast. I think of the time you raced your dad down the street & you beat him, lol your dad was fast too, but not fast enough. You were amazinly great at boxing & fatherhood. Rocket is graduating this month on the 22nd from the eighth grade I was told. I wish you were here for all his milestones. Your son is growing up quickly soon be a young man. I love you son forever & always.
Mom
March 18, 2025
Happy 14th birthday to your lil one. Today he is a year older. I miss you son & love bunches.
Mom
January 1, 2025
Happy New Year Lil. I'm always thinking of you. I love you forever, gone but always remembered.
Coco
December 21, 2024
Forever missing you always thinking about you. Please come see me in a dream it´s been a while, it´s the closest thing I get to it feeling real. 11 years later and I still cry. Love you little
December 8, 2024
I just miss you much.
November 6, 2024
Thinking of you son. Missing your presence. My laughter don't laugh, my smile won't smile but one thing for certain is my love for you will always be here. I love & miss dearly.
Shawn
September 17, 2024
Hey Louella. I know you biting yo finger & talking smack. I miss you to much. You taught me so many things. We went head to head & every bump was worth it. I love you & rest ez. Continue watching over your children & your grandson. Love your real second daughter.
Mom
September 12, 2024
9-11-24 cousin Pacman left us to be with you. Aunt Tosha told me baby try to relax, stop crying & turn your phone off. She said "Shawn, you are still grieving the loss of your son & now the loss of your cousin". The Month of September is not good for you. I promise you will get to see your son & your family again & when you do they will wake up thinking they were sleep. They are in a better place than in this world. They are closer to Jehovah God. I love you son. #BJSTORY CONTINUES
Mom
September 9, 2024
9/7/24 was a really emotional day for me. I was full of anxiety. I was nervous & full of rage. I went to the cemetery to put flowers & balloons out but was unable to leave balloons because it was to windy. That just made me have more anxious. Cousin Derrick wanted to see your grave site so I left to go get him. Him & I rode around in BJ story talking about you & listening to music that really helped calm me down. Later that day he surprised me by taking me to Red Lobster to meet up with Cousin Jamie & Brittney. I was really shocked to see them. They are so beautiful. We all sat and chatted about old times & good times. Cousin Jamie insisted on following me home. When I walked in the house I was greeted with balloons with notes on them that the family had left. I had candy on the table & some of my favorite snacks. Jamie even bought watermelon & put in the refrigerator. Aunt Carla message said" She was proud of me & I was a damn good mother to your brother & you & still is. Aunt Niecy said " She remembered when you was around 7 or 8 years old & you was painting my toes". Do you remember when Coco slapped you & you slapped her back & she started crying & yall two started fighting? You know you loved you some Coco, lol. Do you remember been STINGY with Rocket? Locking yourself in the room with & not letting noone hold him. You were too funny. We miss you & I live love you. Lil I will continue to celebrate you as long as I live. Jamie said" She cannot stop the downpour but she will run in rain with your mom". Son that holds volume to me & I will forever be grateful. I got her back to. Happy birthday. # BJSTORYCONTINUESON
Mom
September 9, 2024
Happy 33rd Birthday son, you will live on forever in me.
Mom
August 22, 2024
Lil, If you only knew. Time has really gone by & my heart & soul has not mended. I do not get to see your son but I hear he is doing awesome. I seen on FB that his school did a recognition day for him on the 1st day of school. He did not look took happy but I thought it was awesome. I love you & I'll see you soon.

Aunt Carla
July 13, 2024
Lil J the family miss you so much and your presence is missed. You would be so proud of Rocket he is soaring. I know there is absence because sometimes I can see it in his eyes. I pray that our family always ask him what he wants in life and allow him to express himself freely. I speak with your mom often and she still struggling with your loss. If you seen Emani, you would be amaze how big she got. She will be graduating next year which means BJ will trailing behind in another four years. We miss you and love rest peacefully.
Mom
July 11, 2024
Lil, so much has happened and I wish I could speak with you but I can't. I've written to you several times but I do not see my messages. Son, I love & miss you so much. I cry daily. Antonio & you are & is my world.
June 30, 2024
You have a USA 2024 Junior Boxing Olympic Champ. Your son Rocket went to Kansas, showed up & was unstoppable. Your life was taken because close people around you heard your cry but did nothing to help. I wish you were here to celebrate your son on milestone like this, because things are so divide. I don't even get too see Rocket. I'm proud of Rocket & you would be to. You have a great son. I know Jehovah God will continue to watch over him, protect him & keep him from negative things & people. I love you son & rest EZ.
Mom
May 14, 2024
Hry handsome son I came to visit & put some pretty pink flowers out, they were called Summer Zinnia & Cosmos Bush. I know you cannot not hear me but I sat and spoke with you and tried to clear my thoughts. It was nice. I feel better. I did some yard work & kept busy. I just need to stay away fake ones. Love you son, always in my heart & never forgotten.
Mom Harris
May 12, 2024
Visited you today. Life isn't the same with you gone, but I try to make everyday a normal day. I miss you so much. Love you always.
Mom
April 9, 2024
Wishing we had more time.
Mom
March 3, 2024
I miss you, love you & my days are longer without you. Love you forever.
February 13, 2024
Missing you.
Daughter Shawn
December 20, 2023
Six years ago you said you was tired dad. Your heart stop. I said watch over your grandson Lil James. I miss you Big Baby. This is a heavy time for me, but I know Jehovah God got me.
Mom
December 19, 2023
Missing you & your brother so much. Our family is everything to me since our family is so distance. You were taken so suddenly & without notice. I will give anything to have you back together with me. I miss yall so much. Tonio should be home May 2024. Love you always & think of you daily.
Coco
December 2, 2023
10 years and it doesn´t seem this long. Think about you daily & still watch the pictures in mommy´s digital photo album & smile. Me & Stina were just laughing about how Caleb does us exactly how you used to when it came to making you a plate lol. Man do I miss you! I love you always.
Mom
December 1, 2023
When I feel things are getting easier & better, things are really not as it feels or seem. I miss & love you so much that my life is still in shambles & I don't know how to repair it.
Mom
November 17, 2023
I will always love you & you are missed so much by me.
Mom
November 7, 2023
Hey Lil, Rocket texted me & told me he had an interview about boxing. He did a great job. I wish you were here to see & enjoy these milestones of your champ. I love you always & rest EZ.
Mom
October 25, 2023
Hey baby, dropping in. I miss you so much. I think of you daily.
Mom
September 24, 2023
Went to a last minute car show and everyone enjoyed & loved your car. BJ story got another win. Lil, I miss you so much. I wish you was here to enjoy life. I love you son, rest easy. Away and always in my heart.
J
September 7, 2023
10 years wow thats so crazy. My memories are so fresh as if everything was yesterday. You are truly missed. I seen bj bout a month ago I twisted his hair and took him shopping he so big and mature. We went and seen mama viv she was very happy. I let him watch a old video of you n him playing around when he was about 1 he just watched and smiled. Keep watching over him he is going to be great... love and miss you always
Mom & Dad
August 27, 2023
Almost 10yrs you been gone & you are truly missed. BJ Story & Redy 4 ME out here winning.
Mom
August 25, 2023
Missing you & thinking of you all the time.
Mom
June 18, 2023
Happy Father's day son.
Coco
June 11, 2023
Thinking of you always & miss you so much. This really changed me & my perspective on time & life. Anyway I smiled the other day hearing your laugh, I needed that. You would be so proud of your son he is definitely little James Can´t wait until the day I can hug you again. I´m getting ready for the meeting now. I love you I´ll hear it back one day soon.

Fran harris
June 10, 2023

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June 10, 2023

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June 10, 2023
Fran harris
June 10, 2023
Your Junior Olympic champ
Mom
June 4, 2023
Checking in & missing you the most. Love you son. Kisses & hugs sent. Rest EZ.
Mom
May 23, 2023
You are always on my mind & my fondest & greatest memories of you, will always live on. Miss you Lil
Mom
May 5, 2023
Nice day today, might bring BJ Story for sun
Mom
April 26, 2023
Thinking of you & wondering why?
Mom
April 17, 2023
Hugs & kisses sent.
Mom
April 9, 2023
Happy Easter

Mom
March 28, 2023

Mom
March 28, 2023
Mom
March 28, 2023
Hey Lil, your handsome son came to visit. Rocket is truly awesome & amazing. He won the Nationals. We hung out & had date at the movies, he wanted to see the movie Scream VI. I screamed the whole movie & Rocket was laughing. I bought Rocket some really expensive shoes he wanted they ugly to me, lol. Lil I love you & miss you & Rocket told me he miss you to. We sat around & watched videos of him & you, it made us smile.
Mom
February 8, 2023
Thinking of you, as always.
Mom
January 5, 2023
Another year has gone by & I still do not have closure, but I'm working my way through this difficult time maneuvering through life one day at a time. Your brother came to visit & I was happy too reunite with him. We both miss you lots & love you forever.
Mom
November 26, 2022
Worked the holiday, no sense on celebrating your not here. I heard something that touched me. It was said God heard your heart, words & seen things I did not. God heard your conversation & relieved you from pain & suffering. I just have to accept this. Love you always, see you in paradise.
Coco
November 25, 2022
Love you
Dad
November 24, 2022
Another one without my firstborn.
Coco
October 26, 2022
Just one of those days. I miss you so much. Love you always
Mom
October 26, 2022
The world is so different Lil. I miss you being here & seeing your handsome face. You was the glue too our family & since you've been gone, life has not been the same. I miss your Papa too.

Mom
October 2, 2022
BJ Story forever!!
Mom
October 2, 2022
Brought BJ Story A.K.A Big Orange out today, he is shining so bright, reminds me of your nice smile. We at cemetery thinking of you, missing you & wishing you were here. Live love you always.
Mom
September 27, 2022
On my mind lil, alot of your pictures flooding my time line, bringing back special moments. I spoke with your brother & he's still the same, live love you always.
Dad
September 26, 2022
Hey just checking in. Love you.
J
September 9, 2022
Happy 31st birthday!!! Love you always
Coco
September 9, 2022
Life is so unfair sometimes. I just wanna hug you again. One day real soon. I love you
Mom
September 9, 2022
Son when I say I'm a mess, truly I really mean it. I try to pick up all the pieces & try to continue to function, but this hand I was given is difficult. I have no answers and I still don't know Why? Happy birthday lil, mommy lives loves you forever.
Mom
September 8, 2022
Going crazy
Mom
August 23, 2022
Good morning son, missing & loving you.
Dad
August 21, 2022
Heybut we are standing

Mom
July 27, 2022
Got your champ, he's been here for a couple days now. Took Rocket shopping, too dinner, the movies & riding around in your car. He is growing up so quickly. He loves video games & TicTock. We love you much.
Coco
July 20, 2022
Missing you like crazy! I smile often thinking about you. I love you always & forever.
Dad
July 19, 2022
I came to your gravesite and your sister Jamia video chatted with you and was telling you about Rocket winning his championship. I didn't ask her she wanted to do it. Her and Jasmine watched and cheered him on everyday. He had a lot of people watching him. We all miss you and love you still. We will never let your name leave from our hearts. Love you!

Mom
July 18, 2022

Mom
July 18, 2022
Mom
July 18, 2022
Here is your 2022 Junior Olympic champ. 80lbs weight class undefeated. Way to go Rocket.

Mon
July 13, 2022
Your champ did it again, we love you son.
Mom
July 11, 2022
Missing & loving someone is very difficult, heartbreaking & it has no understanding on the heart. I pray daily for healing.
Mom
June 19, 2022
Happy Father's Day lil. Love and hugs always & missing you dearly.
Mom
May 18, 2022
Cousin Jamie had her baby girl, she's beautiful. I know she's going to be a great mommy, parent hood remind me of you & Rocket, you was a great father. Miss every minute & love you always.
Dad
May 9, 2022
Why? Send me an answer.
Mom
April 25, 2022
Wishing you was here. Thinking of your beautiful smile & how grateful I was to have you for the time we had together. Missing you crazy
Dad
April 3, 2022
Rocket is everything you were. Let's see where he goes from here. Love you.
Mom
March 19, 2022
Was woke up really early by your uncle, telling me someone told him that someone had vandalize your headstone. My question is WHY? I really dislike the times we are living in, but it's says it all in the Bible, that we will be dealing with crime, hatred, outcry, pain, suffering and more. I pray and hope this is not true. Someone already taken you away from me and my heart hurts daily, what more do they want? Gone but never forgotten. Loving always.
Dad
March 18, 2022
Rocket's birthday as you know. We will keep him together as always for you. Love you Son!

Mom
March 18, 2022
Today your son turns 11 years old, time is really passing by. He stop by to give me a hug, how sweet. We live love you always Lil.
Coco
March 9, 2022
Always thinking of you. Been talking to Niayla about you showing her pics. Miss you & I love you always
Dad
March 8, 2022
Just checking in. Miss you Kid! Love you forever.
Dad
February 14, 2022
Happy Valentine's Day SON! Love you and represent you for life!
Mom
February 14, 2022
Happy VALENTINE'S Day lil, love & miss you lots, XOXO
Dad
February 6, 2022
Talked to Rocket. Can't wait to see him.
Dad
January 31, 2022
As you already know, I've earned little and lost a lot in these last 8 years. Yet none of these losses compares to you. I don't know what else to do but be strong. I can't imagine what you would say about things that are going on. God blessed me with exactly what I asked for when he gave me you. That's enough for me to cherish for the rest of my life. I hurt but I work though it. Love my First Born!
Dad
January 31, 2022
Love you everyday

Mom
January 27, 2022
Blowing you kisses & sending you a picture of me so you won't forget me, love mom.
Broken mom
January 22, 2022
Missing you daily, thinking about the bond we had when you was younger. A mother's son's love will never be broken, you'll forever live in my heart. Love you always Lil.
Mom
December 26, 2021
Had Rocket for a few days, it was great seeing him. He's growing so quickly. He comes to my nose now. We went to the zoo to see the lights & the movies to see the new Spider-Man, he enjoyed himself & i enjoyed him. I was thinking of you & Rocket & I live love you always.
Mom
December 9, 2021
Rocket in Louisiana, for a tournament, he won his boxing match Tuesday & he has two more fights to go. He told me his mom said that he sounds just like you & I agree. I'm wishing his well. I know he can handle himself,you have a great son. Lil mom love & miss you lots.
Mom
November 27, 2021
Sending kisses & hugs
Mom
October 26, 2021
Thinking of you.
Mom
October 18, 2021
You don't know how much you are loved & missed, you are the missing link to keeping the family together. Lil I miss you so much.
Mom
October 5, 2021
Missing you always
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