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John Stover, Jr. Obituary

(NEWS ARTICLE) John A. Stover, Jr., an operating engineer whose versatility with heavy equipment kept him in demand at construction sites, died Saturday in his West Toledo home of respiratory distress. He was 62.

He had a type of nerve disease, sensorimotor polyneuropathy, that over 22 months affected his balance and mobility, his wife, Nancy, said. For a time he used a scooter and a power chair.

He liked physical work, and his physique -- 6-feet, 3-inches tall and 270 pounds -- was his identity, his wife said.

"He was a big man. That's why this disease was especially devastating," she said. "It took that expression of his identity away from him."

Mr. Stover retired in 2009 after more than 40 years as a member of Local 18, the International Union of Operating Engineers. He worked out of District 2 on Reynolds Road and operated earth movers, cranes, forklifts, and myriad equipment he'd be called on to use by such contractors as the George Gradel Co. and S.E. Johnson.

"It was better to run as many pieces of equipment as you could," his wife said. "It really made him to be called out for a lot of jobs.

"He was kind of a perfectionist and wanted to do the job right as well as keep in mind the safety of everyone around him and wanted to do it in a way that was efficient," she said. "Kind of old-school qualities."

One assignment took him to the Davis-Besse nuclear plower plant. He worked the earth to prepare for construction of what is now Westfield Franklin Park. He did highway construction.

"Just about anywhere we drove [and] there was a landmark, he would say, 'I worked on that,'" his wife recalled.

He formerly served on the union's election committee.

He was born Aug. 13, 1949, to Viola and John A. Stover. He grew up on Barclay Drive in South Toledo and was a regular at Teen Town events in Highland Park. He attended the annual reunions through last year.

He was a 1967 graduate of Bowsher High School.

Afterward, he worked at the Libbey-Owens-Ford plant in Rossford for two years, until he found his trade.

"His dad was a kind of proponent for getting into the union [who] thought that if he wasn't going to college, that it was significant to learn a trade," his wife said.

He finished a four-year apprenticeship with the operating engineers' union in 1973.

He was a Local 18 employee in the late 1970s, teaching in the apprenticeship and training program, but returned to the field after a year.

"He was a person who loved to be outdoors. He didn't like to be confined," his wife said.

He was a member of a bass fishing club that fished inland lakes. He liked the Detroit River. In addition, he and an informal group of about eight made an annual fishing trek to southwest Michigan.

"He was dedicated. He was a serious fisherman," longtime friend John Walters said.

Mr. Stover and his wife married May 30, 1969.

"He said he would always remember it, because it was the opening day of bass season. That got a groan from everybody," his wife said.

Mr. Stover and Mr. Walters and a half-dozen other men also were members of an informal poker club. In retirement, Mr. Stover volunteered at Little Flower Church, where he was a member. He initiated Men's Club-sponsored poker tournaments and oversaw the bingo concession.

Surviving are his wife, Nancy, and sons, John III and Jay.

Visitation will be from 2 to 8 p.m. Tuesday in the Thomas I. Wisniewski Funeral Home, with a Scripture service at 4 p.m. Tuesday in the mortuary. Funeral services will be at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday in Little Flower Church, where the body will be after 9:30 a.m.

The family suggests tributes to the Little Flower capital campaign, Seeds of Faith, or Journey of the Heart Ministries in Toledo.

Contact Mark Zaborney at: [email protected] or 419-724-6182.
Published by The Blade on Feb. 26, 2012.

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Gaye Kauffman Timiney

February 29, 2012

Nancy, I will always remember John as one of the kindest young men I ever knew. He was always sweet and so much fun to be around. I know he loved you deeply and his family meant the world to him. I am so sad to hear he passed away. I remember him driving his motorcycle up my driveway and talking to my Dad until I came out of the house to talk to him. My Dad would always tell me what a nice guy he was....and of course the rest is history. His obituary tells it all...what a proud, honest and hard working man that dearly believed in others and his family....he will be missed and he has left us all with wonderful youthful memories of times surely enjoyed!

Kary Sauers

February 28, 2012

Stover Family,
I was saddened to hear of John's passing. I was a classmate and football teamate of John's at Burroughs. We had just started to catch up with our lives after grade school at thelast couple of Teen Town reunions. I am sorry that we didn't get to see more of each other. I know that he will be watching over all of you from his heavenly home. God Bless you all and his memory.

John A. Stover III

February 28, 2012

Many thanks for all the support. Two corrections for anyone who might want to pay their respects in person: Visitation is WEDNESDAY and the funeral mass is THURSDAY. All other times are correct.

Eileen Sniegowski

February 27, 2012

Thoughts and prayers are with you Nancy and to John and Jay.

Bonnie (Lamb) Grillo

February 27, 2012

Nancy
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you and your sons in this time of sorrow and great loss. May you find comfort in the memories of your life together.

February 26, 2012

February 26, 2012

Nancy, Johnny and Jay,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and although I cannot be there with you - I hold you close to my heart. I will always remember the good times we shared with John and his great sense of humor and easy-going manner. He was a true friend and Liz and I will miss him always.

Carole E. Mason (Retzke), Boynton Beach, FL

Gary&Lynn O'Bryant

February 26, 2012

We were honored to be John's friend.Gary was especially proud to be his fishing buddy.You will live on forever in our memories.

Diane Misavage Shelley

February 26, 2012

Nancy,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I enjoyed knowing John in high school and seeing him at the reunions. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

peter james

February 26, 2012

My condolences.John was one of the good guys

Susan Ganzel

February 26, 2012

Nancy, John III, and Jay, and family, you have our deepest sympathy. Our hearts go out to you in this time of sorrow.

I remember John just as you described him. Our boys also have a very fond memory of him, at the old house. They loved talking to him, when they played outside.

I will forever remember the gas station story.......

The Ganzel Family

Tom McCartney Bass Unlimited

February 26, 2012

John you will be missed my friend!

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