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John Joseph Wieck

1950 - 2020

John Joseph Wieck obituary, 1950-2020, Toledo, OH

John Wieck Obituary

John Joseph Wieck

John Joseph Wieck, of Toledo, Ohio, made his way to his heavenly home on June 13th, 2020. John was born April 28, 1950, to the late Frank and Mary Wieck. John attended Rosary Cathedral, Central Catholic High School (1968) and the University of Toledo. John always had a passion for sports. He played basketball and baseball with some of Central's finest. A romance began when he met Chris Justen on the basketball court at Central. John must have noticed her impeccable "box out" form, and was encouraged by Coach Krompak to ask her out. Their love blossomed and lasted through 45 years of marriage, 3 kids, and 7 grandchildren. His grandchildren will forever be his greatest joy. You probably met John through sports as well, either as a teammate, a coach (softball, CYO and The Blue Devils), or as a referee. His officiating career spanned decades including 30+ years of basketball and 15+ of volleyball. He enjoyed teaching all aspects of the game, qualities that go beyond skill; how to work hard, be fair, and how to show respect to others. You may have also met him as a friend, as he welcomed anyone to our home. Many wonderful memories were made with his kids classmates, neighbors, and close friends that felt like family.

John is survived by his 3 sisters; many special in-laws; cousins; and nieces and nephews.

A celebration of life will be held in Toledo at a later date. Until then, share a story about John, be kind to a stranger, and shower your family and friends with love.

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Published by The Blade from Jun. 21 to Jun. 23, 2020.

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Debbie Keller

June 15, 2022

I only had the honor of officiating once with John and I must say that it was so enjoyable. He was such a kind person and a very good referee! I know you must miss him terribly still, but I hope you find comfort in our remembrances of him. He was a good man and I consider it an honor to have known him.

David Collier

June 15, 2022

I moved from California to Ohio in 2017. John was of great support in getting me up to speed with volleyball in Ohio.
Thanks John

Jim Olsen

June 15, 2021

John was a great gentleman and an example for all who knew him.

Brad Sander

July 4, 2020

I played for John in grade school, he was the first coach that taught me to play hard all the time. Learned so many things from him.

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GENE SUPER

July 1, 2020

WE WILL MISS HIM.
HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND AND NEUGBOR.

RAD

June 30, 2020

John was a beautiful, loving, and passionate person on the inside and outside. I will greatly miss officiating Juniors with him and having him officiate my high school games.

nick

June 29, 2020

I worked with John at Cain's . He was a great man and I had the most respect for him as salesman and manager . He made Cain's a better place to work . RIP my friend John.

Mindy Leonard

June 26, 2020

We will miss you in the world of Cincinnati High School Volleyball John. You had such a great presence and a great smile. I will miss working with you.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Donna (Cook) Lloyd

June 26, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of John's death and will keep all of his family and friends in my thoughts and payers. I knew John in grade school and high school. He was always such a kind and sweet boy.

Darrin Frizell

June 24, 2020

My condolences to his family & friends. You will be greatly missed. Glad I had to chance of officiating and knowing you. RIP my friend. Heaven gained an Angel.

Debbie Keller

June 23, 2020

I am saddened beyond words. John was such a good man. He was very kind and patient. He will be sorely missed. I only had the pleasure of officiating volleyball with him once last fall. I was looking forward to working with him again. Prayers to all family and friends as you deal with such a loss...

Jan and Jay Lehman

June 22, 2020

I first met John when he hired me to help coach girl's basketball at CCHS, then knew him as a volleyball dad, basketball and volleyball ref and good friend. He was kind, a great teacher and always willing to help. Jay and I were both shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. Eternal rest grant unto him and perpetual light shine upon him.

Tom donovan

June 22, 2020

I have known John for 30 years. During that time I found John to be a friend an a mentor to all who knew him. Thanks John see u down the road

Terri Taylor Potter

June 22, 2020

Chris, I am deeply saddened to hear of John's passing and rejoice in the knowledge that he is now free of pain. I first met you through my sister, Marge, when you were classmates and basketball teammates at CCHS. After the two of you married, I was fortunate to officiate basketball games with John for 15 years...he always had a smile on his face and was one of my favorite partners! I know he is up in Heaven laughing and smiling along with my husband.

Rick Perz

June 22, 2020

I met John in 1965. He was intelligent, kind, caring, driven, and extremely honest with his opinions. A great teammate and a friend to all. As well as a referee and a coach. Always ready to help. Rest In Peace my friend. You always brought a smile to my face every time our paths crossed. You will be missed dearly!

Tr Statum

June 22, 2020

Great guy! I worked with him, several times at volleyball matches. He gave me some great advice!

Karen Schultz

June 22, 2020

John was a fantastic gentleman. I met John officiating volleyball and always looked forward to working with him when I saw his name on my contract. Deepest sympathy on your lost! He was a great guy!

Lawrence P Schmakel

June 22, 2020

John was the best, a great friend, a great official and a true family man! Prayers for John and his family. May he rest in Peace!
Larry Schmakel

Dianne M Brazzill

June 21, 2020

Chris and family,
I am so sorry to hear about John's passing. I was there when the two of you fell in love during our basketball practices. But I knew John before then. He was one of my brother's buddies at Cathedral when my Dad coached their baseball team. Throughout that time, I knew John to have a competitive spirit, a kind heart, and a great sense of humor. May your many special memories comfort you and yours now and forever. Dianne

John and Kathy (Weiher) Wiegand

June 21, 2020

We didn't know John well, but were classmates of Chris at CCHS. She and the kids, grandkids, etc. have our heartfelt sympathy as they cope with this tremendous loss.

Tom Bodette

June 21, 2020

What a great guy, it was a pleasure to know and work with John at Wonder bread. My prayers are with you Chris and family. Tom Bodette

Susan Stein

June 21, 2020

Oh, remember playing on Collins and Parkwood. Thoughts with all the family.

Rita Kerstiens

June 19, 2020

John was a kind high school classmate and good athlete. Imagine my surprise when he married Chris, my brothers friend and classmate. Chris father was a good friend of my fathers. Debbie Justen, one of my best friends, marries Mike ,Chris first cousin.
May John rest peacefully in heavenly peace as he certainly deserves.
Rita Rogers Kerstiens

Tim Kolhoff

June 19, 2020

Having 1st met John when I was an incoming freshman at CCHS, his mild demeanor as an upperclassman let you know immediately he was approachable. Further in my athletic endeavorers he refereed many events I was involved in. When he called a penalty/foul on you he would take the time to explain what you did wrong and how to improve yourself. That was a very much selfless act on his part to make you better and that also was apparent later in life as he was always an example of what to be. John, your family will surly miss you, my sympathies to them! RIP till we meet again...

Karol and Jon Warden

June 19, 2020

t was always a pleasure to referee a volleyball match with John. We were so happy when he moved to the Cincinnati area--it gave us another classy official with great knowledge and a love for the game.

Marli Vogl Wendel

June 19, 2020

John was one of the good guys! Always kind and fun!!!

Mike Brown

June 18, 2020

Great guy and my best friend in high school. Excellent referee in basketball and solid umpire in baseball. Had the pleasure of helping him check spring training off his bucket last March. Best time was sitting with him at Reds game behind home plate on Arizona watching him call balls and strikes. Honestly, it was like watching a baby get excited in a candy store. He will be missed by many.

Steve Shay

June 18, 2020

John was an outstanding student/athlete, strong in character and a real gentleman. He was a wonderful teammate. May he rest in peace.

Joan Barga

June 18, 2020

My sweet cousin, you were so fun whenever my family would visit in Toledo, many fond and happy memories I hold in my heart. So happy Kay and I were able to see you last fall and spend time together. Praying for Chris, your children and grandkids as they face life without your smile, love and guidance. R.I.P. John

Jeff

June 18, 2020

John is the nicest person I ever had the pleasure of knowing. Always a smile, always positive and always sharing about his family who he loved immensely. John and I were fortunate enough to officiate a handful volleyball matches and tournaments over the past 5-6 years even working a high school regional final together at Vandalia Butler HS in 2018. John will be missed by many, RIP my friend

Jim Olsen

June 18, 2020

A true gentleman

Daniel Foy

June 18, 2020

It was with great sadness when I heard of Johns passing. I was honored to have had John as my Brother-In-Law for over 3 decades. I never knew John not to have that big grin of his face, no matter how life was going at the moment. It was always fun to see John and Chris, to share a few jokes (a 30 year ritual) and enjoy the moment. I know that Chris is suffering greatly now. And I cant image the pain she and the kids are going through. They all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Every time I thought of John over the past week, a different wonderful remembrance would come back. John was the epitome of a fun loving person. A nice person, a truly good guy and a man who I was proud to call my friend.

Don Stevens

June 18, 2020

Heartbroken! Big Boys do cry! That is the best I can do receiving the news of John's spiritual transition to Eternal Life with God the Author of Love! Of all the virtues I admired in John Wieck, humility was his finest. One could only learn from being in his presence. John was a champion for the Central Catholic High School, Class of 1968: Basketball, Baseball, Student Council, and even escort for the Home Coming Queen. I pray for his wife Chris, family, and friends. This loss of his earthly love and guidance cannot be replaced, except with the spiritual love he will continue to offer from above in unity with the Holy Spirit. As he rests in Christs Peace, Johns concern for others will be shared through those whom he will always love.

Jim Evans

June 18, 2020

I met John, when he and I officiated a volleyball match at Patrick Henry high school during his first year as a volleyball official. He did a tremendous job as a rookie official. I did not know that he had been a basketball official before becoming a volleyball official. He had a great demeanor, he knew how to communicate with coaches and fans. John was a student of the game and became a very good official. I was always happy when I saw his name as one of my partners for an event. I knew that nothing would go wrong at that contest because of John's experience. I could relax with John as a partner and just do my part instead of having to watch his duties. I will miss working with John.

Kathy Kaiser

June 18, 2020

John was the fun in a family get together. The guy loved sports and you couldnt help smiling when he talked about it. We have a wonderful memory of going to the Cincinnati Reds game last fall and the German American Festival all in one day in the blasted heat...but it sure was fun! Happy tears that you are at peace and playing cards with Mom and Dad and lots of others...or probably golfing now! Will miss you forever. Love Kathy

Bob kushman

June 17, 2020

A true upbeat spirit always a pleasure to be around. Rest In Peace John.

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