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PETE Leeland C. Leeland C. Pete, 85, passed away on March 25, 2010, surrounded by his loving family. September 16, 2009 I was born in the middle of November in 1924. It was a hard delivery for my mother, and unfortunately, that was as good as it got for her in regards to me. I was really a tough kid to raise as I attempted to go through school. I was a crummy student at Libbey High School; I always had a strong back and a dumb mind. But the one thing that always rang true for me was, I always liked women better than I liked men! 3:00 p.m. was my favorite time on the clock, classes were over! I hated school. I enjoyed Harvard Elementary School and Libbey High School and all the guys that followed me there, we had a lot of fun and won a lot of games. We were undefeated, Bill Orwig was the coach. Bill was my high school and college coach and he went on from there to great heights. As I am writing this obituary myself and everyone else talks about a man's service record, I will share a bit of mine. I went into the Air Force when I was 17, which in and of itself was a big break because I didn't have to take my final test to graduate. I did well on the Air Force test, third out of 100. I had told the recruiting sergeant why I didn't want to take the test, told him I was a dummy but he talked me into it and I did well. I was stationed at Saipan where I flew missions. It was there that I met Paul Tibbits, the man who dropped the A-bomb, he was a grand guy. I was in the officer's club drinking a NeHi, when he called out looking for someone who played bridge, well I told him I did, and we became bridge partners, he was a good player too! He was a Lieutenant General and I was a Lieutenant, we were an odd team. We whipped everybody we played. In conclusion I liked the war, I had a good time, I know that sounds stupid, I played basketball, bridge, and flew occasionally. The weather was terrible. After the war, the POW's captured in Bataam, had to walk all the way through Japan, from top to bottom, they were all injured and in terrible health. We refitted the bomber planes, and made them into flying hospitals, I made two trips, brought back 90 men, hopefully most of them were saved, one guy had no arms, no legs. I can remember him asking the nurse to go dancing. Life was not all grim, it was funny if you took it that way. When I left the Air Force I went to Michigan State. My mom said, "You have been gone 5 years, enough is enough, come home", so I came home to the University of Toledo, plus I wanted to see her cat. I said, "Mom, are you sure?" I played football there in 1945. There was nobody else around so I was ideal to be the quarterback. There wasn't another one in sight. I couldn't miss, bad as I was. My mom and dad left in the late 60's, both of them. Everybody said to me, why don't you get a good job where you can wear a shirt and tie, I slammed the door in their face. I was not having any of it. Everyone I knew that had a bar was having a good time. You are never going to get rich but most rich people I know have tough problems. I wasn't having any of that! So I owned a bunch of bars and a partial restaurant, Gloria Weaver is the sole survivor of Alfies on Sylvania Ave. I can't forget the more than thirty years I spent in Las Vegas. I still get a lot of calls from Las Vegas. I spent 35 years in Las Vegas. For 35 years I was on a 10 state radio hookup, talking sports. There is nothing tougher than that. All you have to do is put your socks on and go wherever the equipment is, and I liked that, nothing tough about doing that. I spent most of my adult life lying to the people of Toledo on the radio and talk shows, Hockey for ten years, 20 years for TU. I did 20 years of color for the University of Toledo. I almost ruined the program. I was at Caesars for seven years, I had three hundred employees. I had all the clean up help, nobody else wanted the job. One night at Caesars, there was a fire on the 13th floor. I want up with the general manager, fought our way from the elevators that were starting to melt, like a typical general manager, he told me to "get Andy Williams out of his room and down the stairs, we don't want him to burn up". Well, I woke up Mr. Williams, and he didn't know what was going on and I got him out to the stairwell and safe, but by the time it was time for me to get down, the stairwells were burning and we didn't have a way down. Here I was on the ledge hanging on the side of the building with the chief of Security, ABC had an announcer there and it was running coast to coast. We stayed out there for 4 hours. The ladders on the fire trucks weren't long enough to reach and the elevators were all melted, we had to wait out there while they got more hoses up the stairways to put the fires out. I was thinking that Saipan was still a lot worse. (What was the alternative?) Just to clarify the reason why I am in this edition of the Toledo Blade, with a lot of other good people who can't speak for themselves, I am writing my own obituary. Whether it is good or bad I don't care, because I won't be around to hear the criticism. What is good enough for Lou Gehric, is good enough for Lee Pete. I don't know what this disease is, nor did Lou. ALS, three crummy capital letters, is what they named it, Jerry is trying to fund it, but no matter how much money they put into it they have no idea what it is. It has been 5 and 1/2 years since I was diagnosed and every doctor and clinic I have been to has said if you live two years you are lucky, and boy, am I lucky. I have run the full course and I have had a wonderful life. I haven't stood up for the last two and 1/2 years, laying flat in bed, my legs are gone. ALS is no bowl of cherries although there is not a lot of pain as in cancer, you just have to stick to it and keep your mouth shut. Hey, I have had 85 years of sheer happiness, you can't knock that. The little I have left of my blood line in Toledo is Tom Cole's (deceased) descendents, three sons and two daughters. He married my sister, JoAnne, who was a real honey. She had all the good qualities I didn't have, she had five children, and I have really gotten to know them all since I came back. Terry, Timmy and Tommy the boys in the clan, Joan and Jill on the feminine side. Jill's almost been a daughter to me, and she has become good friends with the lady I married. My wife, Lila died in the last year I was in Las Vegas, she had both legs amputated. Patti Cartlidge, a friend of mine for 60 years, was a school teacher, always around children and teaching. When she found out how bad things were for me in Vegas after Lila had died, she said "Pack your stuff, come back to your hometown and I will take care of you". Losing the use of both my legs due to ALS was hard but she is one heck of a nurse. I am in a very small bedroom flat on my back and I just passed by my 2nd year of not walking, you sometimes want it to end. But the thought of not seeing Patti or Jill again is devastating. My two boys, Robin and Lee are still living in Las Vegas, working for hotels and doing very well. You know when I decided to do my own obit, the first thing that crosses your mind is don't lie, or pump it up. I haven't. I still love women and can't stand guys. Have you ever tried brushing your teeth flat on your back? You swallow all the tooth paste, it's horrible. I got one of those electric toothbrushes, and you never know where it is going to fly. I can't even got to a doctor and have them lie to me; they don't know what ALS is either. There is cancer out now, pancreatic cancer that seems to be killing a lot of the young stars of Hollywood like Patrick Swayze. I smoked 20 cigars a day trying to push this thing and get me over the edge. I kept feeling better the more I smoked. I kept at least one cigar store in business, Patti knows the clerk there, she is a doll. If I need something else I have only to call Jill and she is here in a couple of minutes from the South end. I am going for the big C, cremation. I left out a lot of stuff because it could become boring, and the paper has only so many pages now due to the recession, thank-you. In closing, I would like to mention where I have lived the last two or three years, on Sylvania Ave., just about two or three blocks from here is Ansberg West, where I am going to be cremated. In fact if I could walk, I would walk down and be done with it. This is old West Toledo, we had an Indian raid a couple weeks ago, and we won. Lee took a time out and lit a cigar and he said, one other thing, I want to mention this picture in the little suit (as he pointed to the picture of himself as a boy in a short pants suit, complete with cap and tie). The babysitter dressed me up for my first job interview in that suit, and I got the job at BR Baker's but I was fired two weeks later for smoking a cigar. I think it is about time that I mention some people that are important to me, some I haven't seen for 30 or 35 years: Frank Kahle (ask Patti), and Cupcake, Rachel, Tom Falvey, Tom, Terry, Tim Cole, Jill and Joan, Susan. I am very proud of nephew, Tom Cole and the job he does on the television. He does an excellent job on BCSN, tune him in! Frank Gilhooley called me yesterday, he has had a rough time with his family and himself. He went to Central and I went to Libbey, bucked heads in baseball (he is having a tough time too). Lastly, I would like to mention some things I consider important, some friends and family that I had planned to write about: *Heisman Trophy voting committee, appointed one of the voters on the Heisman trophy for 12 years; *Vegas 7 years with Jim Brown, 34 years total in radio in Las Vegas; *Michelle Curtis, pull up shave, yummy treats, when she isn't here Tracie Jafferies; *Ex-wife, Jackie Mathews Ferenchio, Lila LeVine, 2nd wife; *Robin, Lee, children and numerous grandchildren; *Larry Grossman, from Vegas, 61 years old; *Andy Lasco, Vegas; *Radio show 13 years handicapping show on cable; *Terry, Carleen, Emily; *Tom Cole BCSN Sports, Karen, Christy, Sam, Clay and Josie; *Tim, Ann and Samantha. Waiting for the school bell to ring, 3:00 p.m. Ansberg West, call them up and tell them to crank up the fire. Thanks for reading, "bye bye, had a great life." Friends are invited to visit from 12:00-5:00 p.m. and 7:00-9:00 p.m. on Monday, March 29, 2010 in the Ansberg-West Funeral Home, 3000 Sylvania Ave. Funeral services will be private. Those wishing to make memorial contributions are asked to consider the Ladies Shrine. To send the family online condolences, please visit: www.ansberg-west.com

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Published by The Blade from Mar. 27 to Mar. 28, 2010.

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Bill Little

April 19, 2010

A great friend ...so glad we were able to connect after all these years..Patti, you truly are an Angel ..Thanks for all you did for this great man.
Bill Little, Florida

Jill Hunter

April 4, 2010

I would like to thank everyone on behalf of Lee's family for their kind thoughts and sentiments.

Thank you!

Jill Hunter

Sherri Black

March 31, 2010

Lee was a friend to my father (Don Black) as a boy and they reconnected when Lee came back to toledo. Dad and Lee would spend hours talking about when they were boys. when dad died Lee lost a bit of his fight. Lee made my aunt patti very happy during their time together. Thank you for comming home and shareing time with two very important people in my life. Thanks for making me laugh when you would tell your many stories. you are one of the best. Love and miss you

March 30, 2010

Patti: I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts. Keep in touch.
Mary Futrel

Addie

March 30, 2010

This is probably the first absolutely true obit I ever read. Right on Mr. Pete, loved it. Did not know you but I feel I do now.

Monica Crimmins

March 30, 2010

I didn't even know this man, but I sure would have loved to!! This is what you call a obituary. Blessed be to his family and friends, and don't forget, Mr. Pete will watch over you until its time for you to write your story!

March 29, 2010

to Caregiver Cartlige,
you doll now as when u
lived one block away.
Art Fischbach S D CA.
God speed Lee, mach 3+
and stay over 100k high.

Howard Jones

March 29, 2010

I wish I too could've meant this man. I don't read the OBs because they remind me of my own limited time here on this plain of existence. My wife showed Mr. Pete's Ob and I was fascinated. He must have been someone very special in life. My condolences to those who did know him.

March 29, 2010

I didn't know Mr. Leeland but I sure enjoyed his story. I'm sure Heaven is a livlier place with him there.

Janet Cope

March 28, 2010

I didn't know Mr. Pete but I sure wish I had. What a wonderful person he must have been, he certainly brightened up my day. My condolences to all who knew him.

March 28, 2010

Well Pete you went our of this entity the same way you lived on this earth by writing your own obit. Toledo was never the same after you left. As I read your obituary I had wonderful and fun memories of years gone by. Great fun.................at all your clubs, bars and lounges. How well I remember Alfies with Gloria Weaver and yourself always greeting your guests with such kindness. Wow, what a spot that was.............spectacular food, desserts and what a great bar along with everything else. Then of course there was the good old "Locker Room" where you and Ben Fearing had the "hot spot" in Toledo. The Toledo Vistor was being published at that time and I recall all the GREAT pictures. You were always in there having fun with that great smile of yours, along with one of your big cigars. It was an era that no longer exists in Toledo, Ohio. Thanks "old pal" for making memories for me that I hold on to and treasure always. You were the BEST!

Donna D. Smith (ex-wife of Cam Smith, Jr.) Age 72

An Old Friend.

March 28, 2010

Just an old friend of a longtime ago. Glad your suffering is over.

Carrie

March 28, 2010

I did not know Mr. Pete, but after reading his obituary, I wish I had! This obituary made me want to know him! I'm sorry I couldn't, but I feel badly for the people who did because they will surely miss him. My condolences to Mr. Pete's family!

Kellie Patton

March 27, 2010

I didn't know Mr. Pete but the celebration of his life that appeared this morning as his obituary certainly made me wish that I had. To all of you who knew and loved this man, please accept my deepest sympathy.

Brent Bissell

March 27, 2010

Lee was an in-and-out cousin. Always on the move, usually ahead of the pack, and always fashionable!

Last time we connected in person was in Las Vegas in 1982, although we spoke while he was in Vegas after that.

I remember Lee acting as bartender, during the wake for my grandfather Art Pete, brother of Lee's Dad back in 1961.

Rest in peace Lee, you were a force! I have more Lee Pete stories than I can relate here. Most of you probably do!!!

Mel BreitnerPhoenix

March 27, 2010

A SALUTE to the OLD QUARTERBACK I rember his pass to Arnold Zink to score the tying touchdown 14-14. It was Libbey and Martins Ferry (Captained by Lou Groza) in the first GLASS BOWL game one week before PEARL HARBOR -1941...Also his many great games at the U of Toledo..

Gary Ernsthausen

March 27, 2010

I didn't know Leeland but I really enjoyed reading his obituary, very interesting!

Virginia Gilliland-Stewart

March 27, 2010

Miss Cartlidge-You were a wonderful teacher to my foster brother Ron Howell decades ago. It is no surprise that you would become a wonderful caregiver for this man. God Bless You!

charles greene

March 27, 2010

when i think of lee pete i automatically think of chuck hardy.pete to hardy.to any old rocket fans like me this stirs up a world of great memories.thanks guys.

Mary Hornyak

March 27, 2010

Patti my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am there for you even though I am in Arizona.

Tuffy Reason

March 27, 2010

Lee led such a full life and that is an understatement. He left out his ability on the football field. I remember Glass Bowl football games when Lee would throw long passes to Chuck Hardy, one of his favorite targets. Lee had a fantastic throwing arm and could have said a lot more about his athletic feats but that was not his style. Tom Falvey kept me abreast of Lee's condition and he used to send Lee cards and have the cards signed by several fellows Tom would see at lunch or somewhere else. Patti, it did not surprise me when you decided to take care of Lee. That is typical of you, always looking out and caring for someone else. You are one of God's angels the care and love you gave to Lee in the closing years of his life. God bless you and God bless Lee. Jan and I offer our condolences from way out west!

Allen Yockey

March 27, 2010

I met Lee at the Orchard Inn, on Sylvania Ave., in the 50's, what a fun guy. Of course, this Obit, written by Lee, was as hilarious as his stories of yesteryear. He has been the topic of many of my stories. I am so glad to say I knew him. Now he can join his Mother and Dad, again!! Thanks for the memories Pete! Allen Yockey

Mary Wening

March 27, 2010

I, as many others, will remember you as a charming, fun person. God has blessed you in many ways. What a wonderful life!

Bernie Solomon

March 27, 2010

Patti...we have known each other for 50 plus years. I compliment you, today, as I did when ever I saw you (usually at THE ANDERSONS). You are the best. My hugs and love to you.

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