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Delbert Clifford Schafer

1925 - 2019

Delbert Clifford Schafer obituary, 1925-2019, Tacoma, WA

BORN

1925

DIED

2019

Delbert Schafer Obituary

Delbert Clifford Schafer Nov. 23, 1925 - Nov. 3, 2019 Delbert (Del) Schafer of Tacoma, Washington, passed away peacefully at Swedish Hospital in Seattle on November 3, 2019. He was born in Odessa, Washington on November 23, 1925, the son of Henry and Lydia Kissler Schafer Frieske. Del graduated from Odessa High School in 1943. He enlisted in the U.S Navy during World War II, where he served at the Naval Hospital in San Diego until 1945. He returned to Eastern Washington for a short time and worked in the wheat farms in the Odessa and Ritzville area. A major turning point in Del's life was his enrollment at Pacific Lutheran College (PLC) in 1946, where he majored in education and excelled on the basketball and track teams, coached by Marv Harshman. At PLC he met the love of his life, Afton (Hjelm) Schafer and they married on June 5, 1948 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Parkland. Their three sons, Brad, Craig, and Kevin, were raised in the Midland/Parkland area where Del and Afton served as educators in the Franklin Pierce School District. After teaching 7th grade at Collins School and science at Franklin Pierce high school, he became athletic director and head basketball coach. Del was named to the Washington State Basketball Coaches Association's Hall of Fame in 1986. His passion for basketball and his belief in the development of young adults through athletics is a legacy that connected him to his former players over the years. With delight, he shared stories about his days in athletics and remembered all his former players. In 1969 he was appointed principal of the new Washington High School in Parkland. He went on to be the Associate Superintendent and Superintendent of the Franklin Pierce School District. Del served on the Board of the Washington Interscholastic Athletic Association. Del loved family time at their Midland home and summer days at Hood Canal where many of his close friends also summered. Del was an active member of Trinity Lutheran Church for 70 years. This was another place for him to connect with his friends and the PLU community. From humble beginnings during the Great Depression, to serving his country in WWII, as a student athlete, dedicated educator, and coach, he was always a contributing community member. He strongly believed in the potential of his students, athletes, colleagues, friends and family. Del was preceded in death by his parents, sister Patricia Nichols, and brothers Gerald and Robert Schafer. He is survived by his wife of 71 years, Afton; sons Bradford of Bend, Oregon; Craig (Lisa) of Seattle; and Kevin of Muscat, Oman; grandchildren Talia and Torin; brother Dennis Schafer of Portland; and numerous nieces and nephews. A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday, November 10 at 2:00 pm at Trinity Lutheran Church, 12115 Park Avenue South, in Tacoma. A reception will follow in the Trinity Fellowship Hall. Memorial donations may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church in Parkland, or the Delbert C. Schafer Endowment Fund for Athletics at Pacific Lutheran University.
Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Nov. 6, 2019.

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Donna Edwards

April 5, 2020

There will always be a warm feeling in my heart for my former father-in-law. I remember his kindness, love and support during those years when I was a part of the Schafer family. May he rest in peace. My love to Afton, Brad, Craig & family, and Kevin.

Deborah Evans

November 14, 2019

My deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Treasure the memories that you have.

Stefanie Britton

November 13, 2019

My deepest condolences to the entire family during this time. It sounds like he influenced a lot of people in his lifetime and will be dearly missed by family, friends, and the community.

Sharon McGowan

November 12, 2019

We are so sorry for your loss. Chris and I are sending our deepest sympathy and thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

Deepali Pandya-Rao

November 12, 2019

Please accept my deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lillie NajafAli & Family

November 10, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

November 10, 2019

Our deepest condolences go to the Schafer family. Thinking of you Kevin and your whole family in this difficult time. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Carla Khalil & Ali Zein (Muscat, Oman)

Kara and Travis Roland

November 10, 2019

We are thinking of you at this difficult time. We hope that being with family and loved ones will bring you peace as you grieve together.

Tim and Gwen Willson

November 10, 2019

We send our regards and deep respect to the Schafer family on the passing of Delbert. We were honored to meet him and Afton when they came to visit son Kevin in New Delhi, India. The legacy of Delbert's humanity, leadership and love of learning will continue to live on through his family and friends.

The Lovett Family

November 10, 2019

Our condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Uttamkumar

November 9, 2019

Condolences from our family. May God bless you with strength to overcome the sorrow.

Nelson & Lisa File

November 8, 2019

Our heartfelt condolences. May you find comfort in your loving memories and in each other.

karen christensen

November 7, 2019

What a great man. Karen Fairley class of 74

Santhosh Panicker

November 7, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, may his soul rest in tranquil

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

November 7, 2019

Our heartfelt condolences

Jesal and Mithu Rajda

November 6, 2019

Accept our sincere condolences. Our heart goes out to you during this difficult time. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Kris Raghavan

November 6, 2019

Our condolences to you and your family from all of the Raghavan family. We are sorry for your loss. May God Bless.

Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. Asiya & Badar - Muscat

Badar Al Mamari

November 6, 2019

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Sleep in Peace Wreath

Badar Al Mamari

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Dear Kevin and family, our deepest condolences. Wish we can be with you to share your sorrow. Georgette, Maroun and Mirna Atallah. Byblos,Lebanon 2019

Georgette, Maroun and Mirna Atallah

November 6, 2019

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