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Joel Cosney Obituary

In Memory of Captain Joel K. Cosney A loving farewell to a bright light who was born in Lancaster, California on July 22, 1959. Joel departed to follow a brighter light on February 18, 2006 in Gig Harbor, Washington. Those of us touched by his light, and there are many, include his much loved and loving wife, Patricia, his parents Elaine Cosney and Joseph Cosney; his sister Samantha Cosney and nephew Kevin; children Jackie McCord, granddaughter Raimie McCord, Tim and Nancy Retynski, his family and friends, his Crowley family, and every person whose life he passed through - an immeasurable number. Joel knew himself well enough to begin living his dream at U.S. Merchant Marine Academy at Kings Point, NY, graduating in 1981, and spent the next 25 years in an office with a 360 degree ocean view. We will all celebrate his life and light at 1:00 pm on Sunday, February 26, 2006, at the Bell Harbor Convention Center on Pier 66 in Seattle, Washington.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Feb. 24 to Feb. 25, 2006.

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Bibiana Leal

March 7, 2006

My Dearest Patricia, Tim & Nancy



I wish to let you know you are in my prayers and thoughts through these tough days ahead. I know that you will be fine, and that the love you and Joel shared will bring you through this. I'm sorry you are having to experience this heartache of life, but knowing you had a great love in your life will make those moments alone more precious to reflect on. May God, Grant Joel the Rest and Peace he loved so much in this life, in his Eternal Home, where you will one day see him again, sailing to great you.



Love, Always

Tia Bibiana

Marlee Fisk

March 1, 2006

Love is never lost, hearts forever love, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family, as always, with love from afar

Kathy

March 1, 2006

My dear sweet twin, and Elaine, Joe and Samantha... Words can't express the profound sadness and emptiness I feel with Joel leaving us this way. We all loved Joel so dearly. Know that you are loved and warm hugs surround your every breath right now. I will always cherish his meaning in my life, and hope to learn from his presence

...love everyone and everything unconditionally with all your heart, live each moment of your life with a smile ~ and play.

"Morning coffee" with his girls, and ...POTSTICKERS AND BUNDTCAKE WILL never be quite the same - but the memory will make our hearts smile. I love you with all my heart - God Bless You and keep you.

your twin

Mike and Tori(Vicky) Cushman

February 28, 2006

Dear Sister,

Your pain is my pain. I weep with you. I wish I could carry you in your pain,somehow make it better. I was happy to know how happy Joel made you. I love you Pat and am glad that fate made us sisters. I will pray for peace for you. Love Vicky

Jolene Barabe

February 28, 2006

Pat and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

God Bless

Jolene Barabe

Roland Santos

February 28, 2006

To the Family and Friends of Joel



I am very sorry for your loss. I was a plebe in 4th company (USMMA '81) with Joel and what I remember of him was that he was a great person, well liked and determined. The news of his passing was a shock. My thoughts and prayers are with him.



Roland

Jim & Ruth Witsmeer

February 27, 2006

Dear Patricia, Tim & Nancy,

We can't imagine your pain right now, but here's what we do know. For certain. As you go through the agony of this experience, we hold your hands in love, gently cradle you in our arms of prayer, and fervently wish for God to send you ministering angels today. Right now. You are loved,

In His love,

Jim & Ruth Witsmeer

Joan Witsmeer

February 25, 2006

Pat, Tim and Nan,

You are all very loved and I am very sorry for your loss. You are all in my heart and prayers.

Love,

Joan

Connie Buhl

February 25, 2006

To Joel's family - Joel and I were plebes together at Kings Point in 4th company in 1977-1978. We had to do a fair amount of pretty, well, unusual things as part of our routine and Joel always had a funny, positive spin on what were doing... he always kept things light. Just a great guy to have on your team. I saw him on his sailboat at Tacoma Tall Ships in July. I was volunteering as Chief on the Virginia V in the parade and he came alongside in his sailboat. He called up looking for me, and we gossiped across the rail and it was a gorgeous, sunny sky with thousands of boats on the water for the parade and Joel was laughing, happy, tan, telling stories - it was just great to see him and catch-up. I'll always remember him as he was that day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.. Connie Buhl

Patty Greer

February 24, 2006

Dear Pat and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Your family is in my prayers-

Patty (Sigafoos) Greer

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