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Philip Arthur "Phil" Vance

1954 - 2025

Philip Arthur "Phil" Vance obituary, 1954-2025, Edgewood, WA

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1954

DIED

2025

Philip Vance Obituary

Philip "Phil" Arthur Vance

April 4, 1954 - July 23, 2025

Edgewood, Washington - Philip "Phil" Arthur Vance passed away at the age of 71 on July 23, 2025 in Edgewood, Washington of pancreatic cancer. He was born on April 4, 1954 in Kansas City, Missouri.

Phil grew up in Raytown, Missouri and graduated Summa Cum Laude in chemistry from the University of Missouri. He attended medical school at MU School of Medicine, followed by residency in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where he formed lifelong friendships. He then served a two year stint in Anoka, Minnesota as Medical Director of a neighborhood clinic.

In his undergraduate days, Phil and Jenny Swearingen met on a blind date on the front steps of his fraternity, Lambda Chi Alpha. They married in 1979 and had three beautiful children: Ryan, Rebecca and Sarah.

In 1985, the family moved to the Pacific Northwest, where Phil opened a solo family practice in Tacoma, Washington. He and Jenny built a home in Gig Harbor and he practiced medicine for nearly 40 years, retiring in 2017.

Phil loved being "Grandpa" to his five wonderful grandchildren: Ella (10) and Lucy (8) of Ryan and Ashley Vance (married 2011), and Sienna "Sisi" (9), Gavin (7), and Gray (3) of Rebecca and Bryan Papé (married 2007).

Phil and Jenny were married for 39 years until Jenny's death, also of pancreatic cancer, in 2018.

Phil later got to know Terri Conger, when she became his financial advisor. He wanted to ask her out but didn't quite have the nerve to do it in person – so he sent an email instead. Luckily, she said yes. From there, they fell in love, got married, bought a home in Edgewood, traveled together, and shared countless adventures.

Phil also gained four additional children: Trevor (wife Makaila), Kendal (husband Benjy), Austin, and Camille (husband Jace) as well as nine grandchildren: Abigail (6), Baker (3), Elsie (14), Archer (12), Payton (8), Mason (6), Cole (9), Caden (7), and Amelia (3).

Phil is survived by his wife Terri, his children and grandchildren, and his brother, Rick (wife Jan) Vance, and sister, Gayle (husband Steve) Lieberman.

God has called Phil home, and at this very time he is at the feet of the risen Christ. Phil's ardent, yet humble prayer is that Christ is telling him he has finished the race and fought the good fight (2 Timothy 4:7) … "well done, good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21)

Donations can be made in Phil's memory to Nourish Food Bank (nourishpc.org) and John Volken Academy (volken.org). Services: Saturday, August 16, 2025, 11 AM, Highline Christian Church, 14859 1st Ave S, Burien, WA 98168. Live stream link:

highlinechristian.online.church

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Aug. 6 to Aug. 8, 2025.

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Susan Fullerton

August 22, 2025

I was a patient of Dr Vance for many years and was sad when he retired, although he was very ready! He said he didn't want to be one of those Drs retiring at an old age and not having much time to enjoy retirement. It was sad when I read of Jenny's passing a year later, but happy to read that he had found love again. He left us too soon but I'm sure he made the most of his retirement years! My condolences to his family!

GARY & SUZANNE BROWN

August 16, 2025

SO SORRY TO HEAR DR. VANCE PASSED . HE WAS OUR FAMILY DR. FOR MANY YEARS . SO CARING AND COMPASSIONATE , WONDERFUL PERSON & BEST DR. !! THOUGHTS & PRAYERS TO HIS FAMILY !! MAY YOU REST IN PEACE DR. VANCE !!

Deb Berger

August 15, 2025

So grateful to have Phil in my life. May God bless you Phil. I pray you are at peace with the Lord.

Sonya & David

August 13, 2025

Philip was my next-door neighbor. He greeted to my family with a warm, cheerful smile everyday that we will never forget. We will miss him dearly.

Paula

August 12, 2025

Phil and I were neighbor hood kids riding bikes, playing hide and seek and kick the can. Great fun. My thoughts and prayers for his family.

cathy liotti

August 9, 2025

Phil started out as my physician when I worked at Puget Sound Hospital. One day I got a call from him and he asked me to meet with him at his office where he offered me a job. I had left his office and gave my two weeks notice and there began a 34 year most wonderful relationship in a job that I loved. He was an amazing man that loved his family and his practice. I lift him up to his lord as his faithful servant.

Keith McCart

August 8, 2025

So sorry to read of Dr Vance´s passing. He was an amazing physician taking care of me for the better part of 25 years until his retirement. Always caring and respectful of my concerns and feelings. Haven´t found another physician like that since. Wishing his family comfort in knowing God will reward his"job well-done

Neal Padur

August 7, 2025

We knew him as Dr. Vance. He gave our family exceptional medical care for over 30 years.
He was not just our doctor, but also a friend.
Our condolences to the family. He is Godly treasured friend and we look forward to being with him again.

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