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SHAWN O'CONNOR Obituary

Shawn Patrick O'Connor Born July 10, 1962; passed away unexpectedly December 13, 2012. Shawn was born in Tacoma, WA, but lived most of his life in Gig Harbor, where he graduated from Peninsula High School in 1980. As a young boy, his parents built a family home on Horsehead Bay where they continue to live today. In 1999 Shawn realized a dream for his wife and children when he built a new home on the water, close to his parents. Over the years our family and friends have celebrated many special occasions on the shores of Horsehead Bay. Shawn was preceded in death by his brother Michael O'Connor (2002). He is survived by his loving wife, Michelle, daughter Lauren Schnitzer (Ryan), son Shane O'Connor, parents Mike and JoAnne O'Connor, sisters Debbie O'Connor and Teresa (Rocky) Wallace, numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, and uncles, and many dear friends. Shawn was eagerly awaiting the birth of his first grandchild, Sophie, in February. Shawn was a talented and respected tug boat captain for Foss Maritime. He was a shining star in many lives and will be sorely missed. His strong love of family and caring heart will continue to be an inspiration to all who knew him. A celebration of life, Irish Wake "O'Connor Style" is being held December 22, 2012 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm at the Canterwood Golf and Country Club, 12606 54th Ave. NW, Gig Harbor WA 98332. Arrangements are entrusted to Lewis Funeral Chapel. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Youth Maritime Training Association, ymta.net. An online memorial can also be seen at www.lewischapel.com.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Dec. 19, 2012.

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Tyler J Buck

December 13, 2024

Dear Shawn, we miss you

December 13, 2013

always on my mind, forever in my heart

Tyler Buck

December 6, 2013

Not a day has gone by without you on my mind,Thank You Shawn,for the short time in life we spent together in the harbor,if god would have just told me sooner,I will see you again.....when he calls for me,Thank You.

May 2, 2013

I miss your laugh

February 13, 2013

Tyler Buck

January 17, 2013

Dear Mike, Joanne, Debbie and Theresa,
There has not been a day yet that has gone by that I havent thought of you, there is nothing I can do,say or feel that will make these thoughts go away, I am sorry for not paying attention to the friendship you have always given me, I hope that this will wake me up.
Thank you

Tyler Buck

January 17, 2013

Dear Michelle,
If there were one wish, that I know, would come true,it would be the one we would wish together, I cant say anything that hasnt been spoken,we are all left with one small word, WHY? I have always beleived in Gods plan,but it has never been explained to me,I geuss thats the plan.Life is so short,(literally)but when it is taken away from true, honest,love caring friends,I have a hard time, with anything.But we do and will, have to survive this,minute by minute, day by day.Just remember we all love you, and I do too.

Elizabeth Fox

December 28, 2012

Dearest Michelle & Family,

My heart is broken for the loss of your wonderful Shawn. I have no words that would be sufficient. If you could see inside my heart you would know. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have prayed from the moment I heard this horrible news.
With love & continued prayers,

Dave & Stacy Kilcup

December 26, 2012

To the O'Connor Family, Thank you for sharing your husband and father with all the young men at PYF and other youth sports. What an excellent role model for all those boys - I'm sure the Good Lord has got him organizing some sort of event up yonder even now! We hold him in our hearts and memories and each of you in our prayers. With much love,

Greg & Shana Smith

December 22, 2012

Michelle and family, we were saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Shawn. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.

Laura Haavik

December 21, 2012

To the whole O'Connor family, my heart and prayers go out to all of you at this time. I know just how close your whole family is, i always envied your entire family for the love and strength you all give to each other. I hope you can find some peace somewhere, somehow but know he is always looking over all of you! You will be greatly missed Shawn.

December 21, 2012

Fred and I are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you both. Give Debbie a hug for me!
Fred and JoAnn Balmer
Ocean Shores

December 21, 2012

Michelle, you have been heavy on our hearts & our hearts break for you! Love and hugs, Noel & Julee Cooper

The Cosper Family

December 20, 2012

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Duane DeBock

December 20, 2012

Dearest Michelle,
Shawn was such a great man. I am so blessed to have known him and been able to enjoy his presence - so many fun times. He was a fun guy. He would say he was blessed to spend his life with you and to have such a great family.
Love You.

mary klug

December 20, 2012

shawn im sorry i could never meet you, i can see why michelle knew she had the best guy ever, i follow you guys on fb and please make sure that an angel looks over michelle, shane lauren, and baby sophie, i think your that angel! love michelle"s aunt mary, libby my service dog, and vangogh the cat!!!!

Stephanie Strong

December 19, 2012

I don't think I've ever seen Shawn when he didn't have a BIG smile! My memories of Shawn will always be his kind words, warm heart, and never ending smile! God bless you Shawn, Michelle, Shane, Lauren, and the rest of the O'Conner family.
We will meet again.
Love, Stephanie

Ron Pretti

December 19, 2012

To Michelle to all the Oconnors, Shawn what do i say about a guy that gave as much love as you to his family and friends your time came way to soon im proud to have been able to call you my friend you will be missed

Ashley Panico-Tallman

December 19, 2012

Michelle -

I am so sorry for your loss; you and your family are in my thoughts.

Kathy "Chitty" Chittenden

December 19, 2012

Deepest of Sympathies to the "O'Connor Clan". I will always cherish the memories of when Shawn saw me. His immediate big smile while loudly saying "Hi yah Chit" followed by his bear hug. Someone so very, very special...who left us way too soon.

Mullens

December 19, 2012

A candle burning in our home in rememberance of a bright spot of a man in so many people's lives.

Stephanie Hettema

December 19, 2012

Uncle Shawn, you will always be a part of who I am. Your smiles, careful suggestions, and caring heart will forever inspire me. It is a little darker in this world without your light, but I know I will see you again.

Mandy Bickert

December 19, 2012

Shawn, you were taken too quickly, and I wasn't able to tell you how much fun, laughter and joy you and your family have brought us. I keep playing tapes in my head of all of the fun times. Thanks for the memories. Love you man!!

Margie Laketa

December 19, 2012

Michelle and Family - Gig Harbor was so blessed to have Shawn as such an active, outstanding member of our community. Our heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. You are all in our prayers.
Pete, Margie, Nick and Luke Laketa

Shannon Haavik

December 19, 2012

Shawn you gave so much love and laughter to all who knew you. We are richer for having you in our lives. You will be greatly missed but never forgotten. We love you, thank you for being in our lives!!!
Love,
Shannon, Jacob, Dallas & Cody Haavik

Dan, Barbara, Johnny Andrews

December 19, 2012

We are heartbroken to hear of our dear friend Shawn's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Michelle, Shane, Lauren and the O'Connor Family. We feel so truly blessed to have known this wonderful man until we again.

December 19, 2012

Oh Honey...i am so overwhelmed by the passing of Shawn...Barb and Dan told me today...both you and Shawn have always been close to our hearts...i feel i spent the happiest times of my life sharing your friendship, watching your love bloom and starting your life together, thank you for letting me be apart of that, it means so much to me...i just dont know what to say Michelle...i love you guys with all my heart and always will...i know you have a strong and loving family around you...take comfort in them and the lord...i love and miss you

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