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Tom Bader

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Tom Bader obituary, 1957-2021, Tacoma, WA

BORN

1957

DIED

2021

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Gaffney Funeral Home

1002 S. Yakima Ave.

Tacoma, Washington

Tom Bader Obituary

Tom Bader
August 19, 1957 - October 18, 2021
Tacoma, Washington - Tom (Tommy) Bader was born to Pauline and Bernard Bader on August 19,1957 in Tacoma, WA. He passed away peacefully at his home on October 18, 2021, surrounded by the love of his family and friends.
Tom is survived by Terry, his wife of 41 years, their sons Jeffrey and Christopher, and grandson Jameson. He is also survived by siblings Paul (Gloria, deceased) Bader, Stephen (Judy) Bader, Marilyn Bader-Nesse, Joan (Barry, deceased) Alsos, David (Twyla) Bader, Sharon (Jim) Tollefson and many nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, Bud and Pauline, and brother Dan Bader.
Tom was a graduate of Bellarmine High School and attended TCC, although his real education came from Coast House Materials and the similar industry jobs that followed. Tom was a proud member of the Fraternal Order of Vinyl Night . His greatest joy was spending time with his family and friends and making memories with the love of his life, Terry. He loved reminiscing about his adventures at Horsehead Bay and his childhood shenanigans around Old Town Tacoma.
Tom will forever be deeply loved and sorely missed. He was a gentle soul with a big heart who found great satisfaction in helping others. A natural athlete, Tom excelled at snow sports, water sports, tennis, and golf. Whether he was coaching his sons in their early years or cheering them on from the stands as they grew, Tom never missed a game and was outspokenly proud of his boys.
The family would like to express their deep gratitude to Tom's brother, David, for his unwavering support and encouragement throughout Tom's illness.
Please join us for a celebration of Tom's life at the Tacoma Yacht Club on Saturday, November 20th from 2 - 5 p.m.
We respectfully request that all guests present verification of Covid vaccination or a recent negative Covid test upon entering.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Nov. 7, 2021.

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Nicholas Blenkush

May 18, 2022

Tom was a solid mentor to me as a young teenager while I worked and grew at Coast House Materials - my first real job. I learned many life skills from Tom's examples and he was a bright shining beacon in every interaction with the customers. I cannot forget that signature mustache and long black hair coupled with the overalls. My thoughts go to his wife and family for the loss. You were one in a million Tom!

Bette Miller, RN

November 12, 2021

Teri, Hoping that time brings you peace and heals your heart. (Nurse) Bette at GYFT

Jack and Mary Peterson

November 11, 2021

We were so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. We have fond memories of raising our children together so long ago. A sweet and kind man. God Bless!

Kyle Crews

November 7, 2021

Terry,I was so saddened to read of your husband´s passing. Words fail at a time like this. Please know that you and your family are in Marcia´s and my prayers ,

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