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for Troy Hughes
Doug Dignam
February 18, 2004
Jim & Ladonna,
I am so sorry for your loss. It is hard to for me to grasp that Troy is no longer with you. Having known you both and your boys for 30+ years the picture seems less complete. As many others have noted, the love you had for each other was palpable and, unfortunately, too rare these days.
Cristy Lytle
February 16, 2004
Hughes Family,
It has been years since we were members in the TOA and I felt strange about even writing this to you all but my family is so sorry for your loss.
My dad (Jack) told me the news and we were all really shocked.
Troy would stop by my dad's shop from time to time to check out and show off new "cars/Toys" I also would see Troy from time to time out and about and though we weren't ever close friends he always said "hi"
There is no words to make things okay but know that Troy was always happy to talk to everyone.
I saw Todd last week and didn't know what to say. "Hello" would have been a nice start, since Troy always extended that to me.
So "HI" to all of you and congrats on your grandchildren (and your first children, Todd/Trish)
Your in our thoughts,
Manning Family (Lytle)
Sue and Phil Arenson
February 7, 2004
Dear Friends, It seems like just yesterday that we were sitting in the backyard; Ladonna fixing some yummies and Jim in charge of the BBQ and Troy giving Phil grief for wearing sandals and khakis (which Troy thought were too short and nobody should be wearing sandals with long pants!!) Troy, Todd and Phil always had a wonderful relationship--Phil was like their uncle who would always tell it straight. Next time we get together, we want to share the laughter of good memories and the tears of missed opportunities. Love, Sue and Phil
Carol Rickords
February 5, 2004
Jim and Family,
Jacque and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and our prayers are with you.
Jacque and Carol Rickords
Kaelynne Worley
February 5, 2004
I was playing baseball with Troy, Mark,and Jeff and roy started saying that his hand hurt because I was throwing it really good so when the game was over Troy hit me in the back of my head and I fell and hit Lexi.I think that we should forget about the bad things and remember the good ones. KAELYNNE WORLEY AGE 10
Bob Thiessen
February 4, 2004
Jim and LaDonna.
Very sorry to hear about Troy. As a parent I can only begin to imagine how you are feeling. From reading the entries in this guest book, I feel I really missed something by not knowing your son.
Love
Bob
Trish Hughes
February 4, 2004
To Dad and Mom,
The both of you raised two wonderful sons. Whom were alike in many ways. Anyone could tell that Troy and Todd had learned to respect, love, and enjoy life from you both.
From the first moment Todd and I started dating, I was not just Todd's girlfriend to Troy, but a sister. He acted as if I had always been there. Any chance he got, he would tease me. Troy was the type of person that you may not see or hear from for a couple of days, but when you did speak, it was as if life never skipped a beat. I will always remember Troy in front of a barbeque, having a passion for cars, watching Friday over and over, and most of all him walking into Dad and Mom's house with a huge smile on his face as Lexi ran about. Troy touched many lives with his friendship and love. He truly will be missed by all.
For everyone else, this shows that life is too short. Remember to show that you care and love the people who are close to you, but don't forget that they also need to hear it too.
Troy, you were a great brother. You will always be in our hearts, and I love you.
Sandi Roberts
February 2, 2004
To the Hughes -
I would like to thank you for raising two wonderful sons. Both Troy and Todd are exceptional people, from a very special family. Thank you for welcoming me in and making me feel like part of this family.
I am so thankful to have been able to share part of my life with Troy. He had the biggest heart and the sweetest grin. Sometimes he tried to play the tough guy, but all I had to do was ask and he would change his mind. I miss his daily phone calls, especially those on his days off to report on what Gus and Lexi are doing, from racing through the house to sneezing at him to get his attention. I miss his great big hugs, our unplanned road trips and his spontaneous generousity. I miss his uncanny ability to make people laugh. In our losing Troy, I have lost half my heart.
Troy touched so many people. Everywhere he went, he made a new friend and added something to their life. This world will not be the same without his heart, his wit, his knowledge, and his sense of humor.
With Cole and Cody's arrival just around the corner, the people most special to Troy will have two new little lives to focus on. With their birth, maybe the mending of our hearts will begin.
I appreciate your love and support and your strength. I hope that I have given you as much as you have given me. Thank you Mom and Dad, Todd and Trish, Grandpa and Grandma, Grandma Oleta and Uncle Greg. I love you all.
Kate Liddle
February 2, 2004
For Troy's Family,
I met with Jim at my small home office in Gig Harbor several years ago. He spoke a lot about Troy's activities but what I remember most to this day was the pride and joy in his voice. That expression of love of family touched my life and stayed with me. I know too that family is truly a cause for celebration each day and forever. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kate Liddle
All Dental ProdX
Joyce Lombard
February 1, 2004
Dear Andy, LaDonna, Todd, Trish & Sandi......Our heart & our prayers are with all of you during this time of healing. We didn't have the pleasure of knowing Troy as well as the rest of your family...BUT...we know what a close, loving & thoughtful family you are. You will always be in our prayers......Joyce & Ray Lombard
Phil 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Dee-Dee Worley
January 31, 2004
There is absolutly no way I can begin to tell you what Troy meant to me.The impact he had on my life will be truelly unforgetable. I know he touched many hearts and souls as he did mine. And to you Jim and Ladonna I am greatful. I am so glad to have finally met two of the most important people in his life .Thank you for raising such an incredible man and giving him the heart he had, to share with everyone.Bless you two for having the souls you do and instilling them into your children. All I can say is having known Troy for the years I have.. I will miss him ......opening the tavern door yelling my real name across the bar or whatever came to mind, having dinner at my house with all the gang..or watching as Mark,Troy,my daughter and the dog all lay on my bed and the 2 boys talked her to sleep.I will forever hold on to my memories of him,and will not hesitate to be the first to share. He was one of the few people who meant a great deal to me in my life. I love you Troy.......
As I rest upon this rock.
I sit and ponder every thought.
Why we live.. why we die..
Why we laugh .. why we cry..
And to you my friend I bid a fair
ado .. And want you to know ..
I will forever think of YOU...
Marshall & Linda McLeod
January 30, 2004
Dear Jim and LaDonna,
We were very saddened to hear of Troy's passing. There are no words that will ease your loss. It has been eight years since we lost our angel Patrick, and time will change things, we have been blessed with two wonderful grandchildren, Mackenzie Lin and Jonah Patrick. You too, will be blessed with grandchildren who will fill you with overwhelming joy. We know how you are feeling and we understand those feelings very well. If we can be of any help, please do not hesitate to contact us anytime. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Marshall and Linda McLeod
Nolan, Sue & Anthony Glenn
January 30, 2004
Dear Troy,
I don't think that we ever thanked you for your kindness, generosity, warmth and even the many "smart-aleck" remarks over the years (wonder where you got all that from?). You have always brought smiles to our faces and laughter in our hearts. A friendship we really grew to enjoy. We'll miss you for now but look forward to meeting up with you again to continue the joys of friendship. Thank you Troy. God bless you. See you soon.
Dear Jim & LaDonna,
Words cannot express how we feel. We love you all so much and just want to hold you in our arms forever. Your family is special to us, one that has always made us feel so good to be in the presence of. All who know you also know the family and understand the love and closeness behind the name and the openness of loving others with that "Hughes" love you all posses. Thank you for sharing your family with ours. We love and honor your friendship and celebrate the beautiful person that Troy is in spirit. We are here for you all if you need a loving hug and a warm smile.
DANIEL HOLLOWAY
January 30, 2004
For the very first time in my life, I am at a loss for words. Though Troy and I have not been as close as we once were, he will always be in my memories. Being in the military has seperated me from my close Washington friends. I could always come home and call Troy, Jeff, Mark and Ryan and we could sit for hours talking about old times. Troy and I had spent many fun and enjoyable times together. I will miss his ability to make you laugh and the caring he had for his family and friends. My thoughts and love go out to his family, friends and loved ones. Troy was a significant part of my growing-up years and will always be part of my life. Troy, you have touched many lives, as you did my own, and you will never be forgotten.
Your friend, Daniel Holloway Jr.
Zachary Ficca
January 30, 2004
Troy;
I miss you man. Its your boy Hollywood. I miss seeing you during the week at work. I did notice your love of cars and your drive to strive to be the best. You are the true Hollywood. (The Avaitors' Are Yours, My Friend.)
-Hollywood
Patty Zeleski
January 29, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hughes, I have only known Troy for a few short months, but I must say that he touched my heart deeply. My brother loves Troy so much, and I have seen that he has many, many friends who love him and will miss him endlessly. I had the pleasure of spending New Year's with Troy and Sandi this year and it's a memory I will cherish. Troy teased me incessantly and I would tease him back and we would just laugh and smile and pick on each other some more. I will miss him, too. My heart goes out to you and your family and to Sandi and all of Troy's many and true friends. Sincerely, Patty Zeleski
Bruce Meisner
January 29, 2004
Please accept my deepest sympathy. Your son Troy touched my life and that of my family in so many different ways. He was accepted as an extended member of my family--Mark's "other brother." We would routinely set an extra plate at the dinner table...even when Troy wasn't there...we knew he was always close by. He was a very special young man...very generous with his time and his friendship to others, easy to laugh, and quick with his wit and humor. If Mark or Felice couldn't pick me up at the airport, it was always Troy there to greet me. I will cherish the many fond memories that I had with your son...he will be dearly missed by many. Sincerely, Bruce
Heather Andre
January 29, 2004
Troy, I'm sorry we new each other for such a short amount of time, but in the time that we had, I am proud to say that I met a very unique and compassionate person that I got to call my friend. I will always remember your warm smile and you will be missed everyday by myself and well as everyone that got the chance to call you their friend. We love you and will always keep you close in our hearts.
Jeff Lundbeck
January 28, 2004
Ever since we lost Troy I have been flooded with memories of our time together. When we were young we bowled at Narrows Plaza, and swam together in UPAC. We went thru Jr. High, and although we hadn't become friends yet Troy always seemed a stand up guy. It was about the first year in High school that a group of us guys all became friends. At the time I could not have known how good of a friend Troy would become. After High School Troy went out of his way to get me a job with him detailing cars at a car dealership. He said I had a good interview, but I know who put in a good word for me. For a couple of years our routine was to work 8 hrs., go to night school, and then to the gym. When the weekend finally came we sat down and tried to figure out what kind of trouble we could get into. I don't think to this day I've spent that much time with one person, but I would not change one day. From those days I knew our friendship was strong. Even when Troy went off to WWU, or I moved to Kelso we would keep in touch and get together. After a short time in Kelso I was ready to come back, the first thing Troy said was that I could stay with him. That was the kind of friend he was. He thought of his friends and family first before himself. I could not count how many times he helped me or one of our friends move. Always the first guy to volunteer. It staggers the mind to try and think of how many people Troy touched. There was never a time when we would go out that someone wasn't coming up and saying hi. Everyone knew him and everybody liked him. I don't know what life is going to be like without my other brother. I do know that anyone who was lucky enough to have known him will have great memories of a great friend. We will miss you, Troy Boy. I will never forget you.
Mine and beckys hearts go out to you Jim, Ladonna, Todd and Trish. Thank you for Troy and all the wonderful memories you have given us.
Debbie & Rod Kendall
January 28, 2004
Jim, LaDonna & Todd,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Debbie & Rod
Terry Lee
January 28, 2004
Our kids are so precious to us all, I can't imagine any parent going through this tragedy. Jim and LaDonna are the nicest pepole you could ever meet and it showes in the two fine sons they raised. I'll miss Troy's quick wit, his smile and that look in his eyes that reminds me so much of my son. I am very proud to call Troy my friend.
Ride on Troy, ride on.........
Greg Chilina
January 28, 2004
I am glad to have known Troy for many years. From the time we where in University Place Aquatic Club together to present. This is difficult to write as I am sure it is for everyone. But in thinking about it I have come up with a few ideas of what Troy really meant to me.
Every time I think about him I smile and laugh to myself because every time I was in his presence it usually turned into a comedy session in one way or another. The man was funny! He was also completely dependable. Every time I asked a favor of him he did it and surpassed my expectations. He was also very giving. There where many times he would do things for me and others without us even asking. He was quite genuine. He never really wanted anything from anyone other than just to hang out and have a good time talking, laughing, and ultimately taking the fullest advantage of the fruitfulness of life. He really did things in his own way. I definitely think I can learn something from his existence here on this planet. I know one thing is for sure. Watching the movies “Smokey and the Bandit” or “Caddyshack” will never be the same.
SCOTT EVANS
January 28, 2004
Even though I knew Troy for one short year,the joy, and laughter he brought to my life will forever be missed. From the first day I met you Troy, I considered you the Brother I never had.I love you Troy.
Felice Dominguez
January 28, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Hughes,
We never lacked for laughs or good times when we were with Troy. I could tell stories for days about the places we've been, the things that we've done and the crazy adventures that he and Mark have been on.
Troy shared our triumps and hard times like they were his own. He was as excited as we were when we bought our house, got new jobs or picked up another crazy car off E-bay and right beside us when we needed extra support. I always knew that if there was anything that we needed that he would be there.
There are certain things that you hope for and dream about for your life- one of the most important for me has always been someone to love. Troy took care of the most important person in my life and thus became as important to me. I could not have imagined a better person or a more perfect fit to be Mark's best friend. Though the two of them sometimes drove me crazy I always knew that they were there to take care of each other. If one of them needed a laugh, a break in the day, a road trip or just some time sitting in the backyard together that they would drop what they were doing to be there for each other.
I have always known that the two of them are a packaged deal, a matching set and to love one was to love and accept them both. This has always been a deal I gladly accepted.
I want to thank you for raising such an amazing son and for sharing him with us. Thank you for not only giving us a wonderful friend but making us a part of your family. We love you all.
Felice
Frank Zeleski
January 27, 2004
MR and Mrs Hughes,
I'd like to say how sorry I am for your loss. You were very special to Troy and he loved you both very much.Troy has left an indelable mark on me and all of his friends who were lucky enough to know him like we did. We spent some wonderful times together.I am truly going to miss your son. I am proud to have called him friend. Thanks for sharing him with us. Lovin' ya Troy.
Hedy Meisner
January 27, 2004
Hughes Family,
I will hold the memory of Troy & Mark coming through my front door, yelling "hi, Mom" and "bye, Mom" again as they left! Also,the photo on my refrigerator of the two of them(25 yrs. old) sitting on Santa's lap! A good friend to Mark, and a generous soul...he'll be missed by the whole Meisner family. Sincerely, Hedy
Helmut and Margie Schimmel
January 27, 2004
Dear LaDonna,Jim-Andy and Todd,
Ronda Shelton called me to tell you of your loss...There are not words to tell you how I always felt your family was such a loving and caring example.
You raised wonderful sons, and I know what joy Troy has always brought you. Our hearts and prayers are with you...and will continue to hold fondly the twelve years we got to be neighbors.
Much love,
Margie and Helmut
Mark Meisner
January 27, 2004
With the passing of Troy, this world has lost a tremendous person, and on a personal level, I’ve lost as good a friend as one could ever hope to have. He was kind, he was quick to laugh, and even quicker to make you laugh, his presence was unavoidable and his generosity unmatched. I can remember showing up at his house with a dirty car, he’d just shake his head, call me lazy and go wash it himself. I remember him calling me at work one time, while he mowed my lawn, all because he simply drove by my house and thought the grass was too long. I let him borrow my car once while I was out of town, when he returned it, it had four new tires on it, he told me it was unsafe…he was probably more talking about my driving though. These are all true, and I could go on all day long, but those of you who knew him, know most of the stories. I feel blessed to have had the chance to get to know him like I do, I can’t think of a great memory or start a funny story without Troy being the first word. For as long as I can remember, he’s been my first phone call every morning, and probably more often, my last call at night. This is by far the longest I’ve ever gone without talking to him or seeing him, and I can’t imagine learning to life without him.
To his wonderful family, who I’ve known most of my life, I’m so sorry. To his parents, whom I love like my own, I’m sorry, I love you, and I want to thank you for everything you’ve done and for everything you’ve been to us throughout the years. It’s easy to see where Troy got his generosity, his kindness, his sense of humor, his love for life and his endless wit, you’ve always kept me sharp and on my toes. You two have known me as well as anyone, yet you still always welcomed me in to your home with a hug, and treated me with the love as if I were your own. I thank you and I’ll never forget all the wonderful memories you’ve provided me with…the fourth of July just won’t be the same. To Todd and Trish, I’ve always thought of you as family, and I’ll continue to do so. I love you both and I’ll personally make sure your two new children know what kind of Uncle they have looking down on them. Todd, it doesn’t seem like that long ago that we were out tossing the baseball around at another good old summer barbeque.
Troy my friend, I love you and I miss you already. I know you’re looking down on us smiling and shaking your head. I hope you can see, and I hope you now know how important you are, how many lives you’ve touched and the impact you made, and still make on so many people.
You will be missed.
Angie Schimmel
January 27, 2004
Though it's been years since I've seen you all, I have very fond memories of Troy growing up next door. He was my first crush, had a smile that could melt icebergs and a glowing personality that was always contagious. May God be with your family during this time and I pray for peace for Troy. Have faith that he is being blessed beyond our comprehension right now, being in God's tender hands. From the "girl next door".
Sandy Watson
January 27, 2004
Hughes Family: You all know what a tender spot I have in my heart for each of you. When few others cared, you took care of this military family like we were your own. In the process, I've come to think of you as part of my extended family. Though Troy is not far away, I'll miss him like a brother. Love you all and are praying for you daily!
SCOTT GRAVERSEN
January 27, 2004
I am happy to have been a part of Troy's celebration of life. He continually brought joy into the lives of many, farther than he ever knew. I am forever greatful for the many memories he and I shared and I am glad to share those with anyone that gives the slightest look of interest.
Just like a burnout from Dale, Troy lived without saying many words but spoke through his actions and when the smoke cleared he always left another mark on your life.
Anne Lee
January 26, 2004
I love you Troy. You are my best friend's first born and I will miss you as I would miss my own. You teased me without shame. You danced with me when no one else would. I know how much you were loved - much more than you may have known. Bye my dear.
DeMaurice/Grace Moses MD
January 26, 2004
Jim, We are in Denver. Our family wishes to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Grace and Bucky
Fred and Von Hale
January 26, 2004
Dear LaDonna, Jim, Todd and Trish,
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you at the loss of Troy. We Pray that God will give you strength in your time of sorrow. Just ask "Him". We love you!
Fred and Von
Belinda Moses
January 26, 2004
Dear Hughes Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the unimagineable loss of your son and brother, Troy, who I knew only in his father's stories and enthusiasm for cars. May you find strength and comfort to manage the days ahead in the love of many friends, and may your grief be replaced by good memories of Troy in time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mark & Sandra Schwarz
January 26, 2004
Troy was a true, genuine person who was fun to be around and will be missed greatly. All our love and affection to Troy's family, our thoughts are with you.
Joy Donohue
January 26, 2004
Troy was ever smiling as long as I knew him. He was a wonderful man and will surely be missed by so many. From all of us at Shangri-La- "Spanish" to you Troy. I hope that the family is able to find comfort in the fact that you were indeed loved, and will be missed for a very long time.
Jodi Bigler
January 26, 2004
There is only one word to describe Troy, and that is "irreplaceable." He has been a dear friend to my husband, Brent, and I, and would've done anything for us or any of his friends. Even run off to Vegas with us to be at our wedding! We will love him forever, and send special prayers to his family, Sandi, Mark, and his many friends who love him. Troy, you are irreplaceable and will always be part of us.
Brent Bigler
January 26, 2004
Jodi and I are so sorry for your loss. We will remember Troy and his smile forever.
Jody Waterman
January 26, 2004
We love and miss you so much, old friend. You looked out for us here on earth and now you look out for us from heaven. Cole and Cody, Brandon and Aubrey, Nathan, and all our little angels here on earth are lucky to have such a strong guardian angel watching over them. Until we meet again ... Jody
Linda Sweigart
January 26, 2004
We will truly miss our friend Troy
and all the fun we had at the Beach Tavern! We've shared many laughs with him and Mark. I will never forget the time he and Mark showed up as Cabbana Boys in bright Hawaiin Shirts at Halloween. We gave them the "booby prize" and they won a case of Schmidt beer!
Thought they had won the lotto!
Troy was truly a lot of fun to kid around with....and I'll miss him very much. Linda (bar manager @ the Beach)
Dale Prindel
January 26, 2004
I will miss my best bud!
Mike and Delonna Winn
January 26, 2004
We will miss our Troy boy and loved him dearly!
Peter Somoff
January 26, 2004
My heart goes out to all of you, your family is very loving and does not deserve this. Troy was very loved and lucky to be raised by you.
Terri Carrell
January 26, 2004
I am Ryan and Bonnie Bleeckers mom. I remember when we lived on the same street in University Place. Troy would come down to play with Ryan and bring his little sack lunch. He often times had "Laughing Cow" cheese wrapped in shiny individual cubes. Troy always shared them with Ryan. Ryan thought they were so wonderful and ever since they were little boys, I have always put "Laughing Cow" cheese in Bonnie and Ryans Christmas stockings. This has been a tradition for over 20 years. We will always have Troy with us in our cherished memories of him. My prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Terri Carrell, Ryan and Bonnies mom.
Rachael Dillman
January 26, 2004
My love and prayers to all of Troy's family - especially Todd. I never had the pleasure of meeting Troy, but if he is anything like his father & brother I'm sure he is a wonderful man and will be missed greatly.
SHANNON WILKINS
January 26, 2004
You will be greatly missed by all who know you.
dave belk
January 26, 2004
Jim and Ladonna, I try my best to envision your grief. Losing a child is never expected. Please know that the Belk family is thinking of you often, and hope you recover from this as best as can be expected. Again, very sorry to hear of your loss. Dave Belk
Joe and April Rettkowski
January 26, 2004
Troy was a friend to us, simply because we were friends with Todd. He was always smiling, always laughing. All our love to his family and friends.
Mike and Sue Campbell
January 26, 2004
Dear LaDonna, Jim and Todd,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will be with you in spirit at the celebration of Troy's life.
Our love to you all,
Mike and Sue
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