Search by Name

Search by Name

Joy Gorchov Tomme

FUNERAL HOME

Bryce Funeral Home Inc. - Troy

276 Pawling Avenue

Troy, New York

Joy Tomme Obituary

Joy Gorchov Tomme PHILADELPHIA, PA - Joy Gorchov Tomme, mother of the Rector of St . Paul’s Episcopal Church in Troy, The Rev. Michael Gorchov, died in Bryn Mawr Hospital in Philadelphia, PA on March 24, of natural causes. Her children were with her when she died. Joy was born on February 4, 1931 in Paxton, Illinois to Mildred Bahr and Grant Lundberg. She graduated from Paxton High School in 1949 and attended the University of Illinois in Champaine-Urbana, Illinois and married Ron Gorchov in 1952 with whom she had two children, Michael and Jolie. She was a voice major in college and sang mezzo soprano opera in small productions, on the college campus, in New York, and in church until the early 1980’s. She lived in New York from 1952 to 1962. After her divorce from Ron in 1960, she worked at the Actors Studio, and at Show Magazine as an office manager, moving to Chicago in 1962 where she worked at King Korn Stamps. Joy married John Tomme in 1962 and divorced in 1967, and moved back to New York the same year to work for the Lindsay administration in City Planning until she moved to Philadelphia in 1971 where she lived until she died. She obtained her real estate license in Philadelphia in the 1970’s and worked on the South Street Seaport revival there. Joy also began focusing on writing beginning in the 1970’s and wrote investigative reporting pieces and editorials for the Philadelphia WelcomeMat. She also wrote in-depth interviews with entertainment people like Kenneth Branagh and Al Pacino in the 90’s for the Ritz movie theater Playbill. Joy was a member of St. Mark’s Church in Philadelphia since the early 1980’s, was a valued member of the Altar Guild and was a change ringer for many years there. In the last twenty years, she spent her time writing interviews for the St. Mark’s newsletter, writing political and religion commentary for her online blog RatBangDiary and also enjoyed photographing Philadelphia, knitting, and making tiles and pottery pieces. Joy was known for her prolific pen, abundant use of profanity, and irreverent humor. In addition to her two children, she is also survived by her beloved cat, Fiona. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at 2:30 PM at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, Third and State Streets, Troy with The Rev. Steve Schlossberg, the Rector of St. John’s Episcopal Church, Troy presiding, and Fr. Gorchov, the homilist. Interment will follow at Oakwood Cemetery. To sign the guest book, light a candle or for service directions, visit www.brycefh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record from Mar. 28 to Mar. 29, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Joy Tomme

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Joy Tomme's name

Memorial Events
for Joy Tomme

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Bryce Funeral Home Inc. - Troy

276 Pawling Avenue, Troy, NY 12180

How to support Joy's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Joy Tomme's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more