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Pamela Pociluk
May 27, 2017
Lynn was my boss at CHP from 1995-99, and we continued to get together for lunch for a couple years after that. Two days ago I decided that I'd been "meaning to" look her up and reconnect for long enough, and that it was high time to actually do it. This morning I was faced with the sad news that I had waited too long.
To say that Lynn made an indelible impact on my life is an understatement. In fact, there are "Lynn-isms" that I still think of and try to aspire to today.
One of the things we used to talk about is my lifelong struggle with obesity. While I was at CHP I had lost a lot of weight, but was at times inconsistent with exercise. She summed up her commitment in four little words: "Don't ask the question." Taking her 6am four-mile walk, 365 days a year, was no more negotiable in her mind than brushing her teeth would be. It simply had to be done, so there was no point in having an inner dialogue about it. That comment has stayed with me for all these years (not to say that I've mastered it by any means), and I often share it with others.
The other thing about Lynn is that she was basically always in the same mood -- a good one. I rarely if ever saw her upset, angry, sad, or even stressed. One day I was super stressed-out about something and she said, "You know, we decide what's important. We make all of this up." The gist was that all of the things I was worrying about were by choice, because I was telling myself they were life or death, and that if I chose not to give them so much weight and drama, they wouldn't matter so much anymore.
One of the commenters referred to Lynn as elegant, and she was -- always dressed to the nines, and that sleek, beautiful hair she worked hard on every day. She was so polished, she could have been a First Lady. But then she'd let out this sudden, loud laugh that was incongruous with her stately appearance. Outwardly one might have taken her for conservative, but she had a rather bawdy sense of humor, and an irreverence for many of society's rules and expectations.
Like any well-rounded relationship, there were also times she said things that made me angry, but of course that was only because she was right 99.8% of the time.
My most favorite thing about Lynn was when she would call me a "star." I didn't have much self-confidence in those days, and most of the time I probably didn't believe her. But outside of my husband and a couple of close friends, she was really the only person in my life at that point who had figured out how to look past the brick walls I put up everywhere, and could see through to the person I actually wanted to be. I will always be so grateful to her for that.
I deeply regret that I didn't try to get back in touch sooner. The truth is that I thought Lynn would live forever, so what's the rush, right? Or, at the very least, that she'd be one of those ladies who passed away the day after her 107th birthday, feisty and laughing until the end.
Thank you, Lynn. I'll always remember you.
PS: To anyone reading this, is there someone you've been "meaning to" reconnect with? Do it right now.
Janis Verderose
May 26, 2017
Lynn Harris was a colleague of mine at CHP. She was smart, beautiful and a great patient advocate. I was saddened to learn about her passing just today. The beautiful testimonial written by Covert whom I never met,brought tears to my eyes: loving ,touching and poignant. Jan Verderose
Colleen Bushnell
May 26, 2017
Covert. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Its hard to believe. I thank you and Lynn for including me in your amazing world, as a child (the sky scraper in Ontario wow!). Exposing me to a side of life, I hadn't been previously. It was easy to feel enamored with Lynn. She was everything, and more. May you bask in the beauty of what you two are, and always will be. And, know she has good company in the next dimensions. Your mother, Patty, and her, having an intense discussion about something, or other, or you. But, all the while, keeping watch over your tribe, bringing dignity and lustre to everyone, and everything, they touched. Love and respect always, Colleen Bushnell, formerly of Lansinburgh.
Richard Tallman
May 9, 2017
Dear Covert, I remember you both very well when you were students at Averill Park High School. I was glad to meet up with you once again at Burden Lake Country Club for a round of golf.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
Richard Tallman (former HS teacher)
Mark Sherwin
May 9, 2017
At four years old Lynn was my first friend, we grew up with an orchard between our homes and would pick flowers for our mothers and tramp though the woods and hills in the area. We would have long talks about a full range of subjects. The most ironic thing was we both showed up with red Corvettes to one an others surprise. it saddens me to hear about our loss of wonderful person.
Judi
May 9, 2017
Dear Mr. Harris - I did not know you or your beloved wife, Lynn, but I want to reach out to comfort you during this painful time. Lynn was a remarkable person and how lucky she was to have had your love throughout her life. I hope the joy of your life together and your love for each other brings you happiness each day. Thank you for sharing the most beautiful tribute I have ever read.
Lisa Miller
May 9, 2017
Covert, Lynn was and is a beautiful soul who I looked forward to hearing from any time and seeing every year (she could make 4/15 ok)- she brightened my day with her presence and always made me smile.
May 9, 2017
I do not know you or your wife, but if we all loved each other as much as you obviously did, what a better world it would be.
Jan Morrell O'Malley
May 8, 2017
Covert... I remember Lynn as a NP at CHP! I was a new grad from Rad Tech school and wow ...Lynn was elegant, brilliant and so very nice.. I was in awe of her!! She will always be highly thought of and remembered ..all my sympathies
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