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Thomas Patterson Cooke died at 12:20 p.m. on October 17, 2022, at the Northwest Medical Center in Tucson, Arizona. He was 88. The cause of death was organ failure. He was a theatre artist and educator. His artistic work included educational, community and professional theatre. Tom was born and raised in Marvell, Arkansas. He was the son of William Samuel Cooke and Naomi Patterson Cooke. He is survived by his wife of 66 years, Martha Nichols Cooke of Tucson, his son, William Thomas Cooke of Ashville, NC, and his daughter, Stacey Dianne Cooke of Scottsdale, AZ. Tom is also survived by his siblings, W.S. ("Sam") Cooke, Jr. of Wilmington, NC, John R. ("Jack") Cooke, also of Wilmington, and Richard F. Cooke of Chandler, AZ, his sister, Marilyn Kay Cooke Farsarakis of Heraklion, Crete, in Greece, and numerous nephews and nieces. Tom graduated from Marvell High School in 1951 and realized from an early age that he wanted to be a part of the theater world—acting, directing, and producing. He went on to attend Arkansas State University, where he earned a BA degree and met his future wife, Martha Nichols of Blytheville, AR. After marriage, Tom served two years of active duty in the U.S. Army Signal Corps at Fort Huachuca, AZ. Tom and Martha fell in love with the American Southwest and decided that one day they would probably retire in nearby Tucson—which they did many years later. Tom's education in Theatre Arts continued, taking him to Yale University (MFA, 1957-1960) and Florida State University (PhD, 1969-1971). His professional career included appointments at Kenyon College (Acting Chair of Theatre, 1983-1987), The University of Tennessee (Professor, 1961-1983; Head of the Theatre Department and Artistic Director of Clarence Brown Theatre, 1987-1999), The University of South Carolina (Chair of Theatre, 1983-1987) and University of Nevada Las Vegas (Chair of Theatre, 1999-2003). At California State University Long Beach and Cal Rep, he was Guest Director and Member of the Board (2004-2012). As a theatre educator, Tom worked to give his students great respect for the Liberal Arts tradition and experience with a great variety of forms and freedom to expand the boundaries of their art. While at USC, he led the development of a partnership with the Shakespeare Theatre at the Folger, Washington, D.C., which gave his students unique opportunities in classical theatre. His efforts to improve theatre training in university programs led him to a distinguished career in international theatre education. He established an International Theatre Research Center at the University of Tennessee and worked with the International Theatre Institute (a division of UNESCO) for many years developing artistic exchange and partnerships with individual artists, theatre companies and theatre academies in Russia, Poland, Hungary, Germany, Romania, South Africa, Ireland, Scotland and South Korea. He held the office of Vice-President of the worldwide training committee of the ITI, UNESCO. Tom once said that the pinnacle of his career was when he produced a play at the ancient—and beautiful—amphitheater at Delphi, situated on the slopes of Mount Parnassus and overlooking the Gulf of Corinth in northern Greece. Tom described this experience as probably the most awesome and inspiring episode of his life.  Tom wanted us to know he was always grateful to those who taught him life's lessons—directly or indirectly. He considered all those people to be a part of himself. He was perhaps too modest when reflecting upon the influence he had on others. As a father, husband, brother, teacher and director, the impact he had on those he touched was profound.    A service for family members will be held Tuesday, October 25, at Southern Arizona Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Sierra Vista, AZ.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Oct. 22, 2022.

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Nancy Z. Thweatt

November 20, 2022

I was fortunate to have Tom Cooke as my Theatre History professor and even luckier to have worked with him on theatre productions while learning my craft at the University of Tennessee. Those years were formative and influenced the work I do today. Thank you Tom for your guidance all those years ago. My thoughts are with his family and friends.

Rickey Chick, UT Theatre Major 1979

October 24, 2022

My deepest sympathies to the family of Dr. Cooke. Dr. Cooke was a great director, teacher, and intellect. I was fortunate to study under him at UT in the 70s. His trust and belief in my talent and abilities instilled in me a much needed confidence that has remained with me throughout my life. Gentle, unassuming, modest, trustworthy, brilliant, and delightful, he never broke character. I still have the note he wrote me on opening night of "Hot l Baltimore" in 1979. I treasure it . He must have written thousands of such "opening night" notes over the course of his decades long career. How truly fortunate we actors were to have come under his direction. Each one of us all the better for having known him. God bless you dear man for all you did for so many of us. It seems like only yesterday, and yet all that you taught us has lasted a lifetime. Rest In Peace.

Lisa Norman

October 21, 2022

Tom Cooke's influence loomed large on anyone connected to UT Theater. Not only was he the most consequential mentor in my professional life, but he was also the connective tissue to many of my deepest friendships. He was endlessly curious. He loved the art of telling stories through theater and he loved and respected the artists lucky enough to work with him. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Laurie Metter

October 21, 2022

I knew Tom from the University of Tennessee in the 1970s. He was a visionary, a bold but quiet force of nature. I can say with some certainty that all of his students and actors adored him. He had a great gift for reaching deep into our souls and helping us find our best selves. He managed to be our mentor and our friend, earning our complete respect and loyalty. Very few teachers stay with us all our lives, and he was top of that list. I will never forget his quiet strength, encouragement, and the ever-present twinkle in his eye. He contributed so much to the success of so many. I am so grateful to have known him. My deep and sincere condolences to his family and friends.

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