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CARTER - Benjamin Berry, Ben was born on June 7, 1988, in Tulsa OK at Hillcrest Hospital. Ben was dedicated as a baby at Yale Avenue Christian Church, DOC, and later made his confession of faith and was baptized there. He participated in Sunday School, VBS, choir, musicals, church camp, and considered Yale Avenue his church home. Ben attended preschool at the ORU Early Learning Center, then public schools through Jenks Public Schools from elementary through high school, graduating in May 2006. Ben participated in the Jenks Youth Baseball program, Jenks Youth Soccer, Boy Scouts of America, and the Jenks Air Force Junior ROTC, where he was a member of the Color Guard and Drill Team, While in the AFJROTC, he participated in numerous volunteer projects and received many honors, including the American Veteran's ROTC Recognition Medal, the ROTC Gold Beret, Academic Award, NCO and Officer of the Month, and Outstanding Cadet. Upon high school graduation, Ben enlisted in the United States Army. He completed basic training at Fort Jackson, SC, and advanced training at the Redstone Arsenal, AL and Fort Gordon, GA. His permanent duty station was Fort Riley, KS. While on active duty Ben received the National Defense Service Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, and the Army Service Ribbon. Ben was honorably discharged from the Army in August, 2008. At the time of his death, Ben was on assignment with Modis Corporation as a Computer installation technician for Bank of America. He had pre-enrolled at Oklahoma State University and was very excited about going to school in the spring with his many friends. Ben lived his life always ready to help others when they needed help. He was selfless, kind and loving, a warrior and protector. Ben is survived by: his mother, Melinda Carter; father and stepmother, Tyler and Calina Carter; brother, Adam Carter; sister, Becky Carter; grandmother, Mildred Wasson; all of Tulsa, and grandmother, Lucille Carter, Dunedin, FL, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends who all loved him and will miss him dearly. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to: Benjamin Carter c/o Jason Banks, Mgr. Arvest Bank 36th and Yale, Tulsa, OK. Service will be 10 a.m., Thursday, September 18, 2008, at Yale Avenue Christian Church with interment at Memorial Park Cemetery. Moore's Southlawn Chapel 663-2233. share memories at www.moorefuneral.com Benjamin Berry Carter
Published by Tulsa World on Sep. 17, 2008.

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Charles Bartels

September 22, 2008

Tyler, Melinda, Becky, and Adam,
Jan told me of your tragic loss. I remember very fondly the time I was priveledged to spend with Ben as an infant and toddler. Though I didn't see much of him after that I remember fondly the stories passed on to me by others of his trials and accomplishments. I know he is sorely missed.

Bruce Birdsong

September 20, 2008

Melinda & Tyler,
I remember coaching Ben in soccer in 1995 and what a great attitude he had. He was such a pleasure to have on the team. I know he turned into a fine young man. I am very sorry for your loss.

Charlotte (Green) Sherry

September 18, 2008

Melinda, my sincere sympathy is with you at this time. It's been years, but kindred spirits from times gone by run deep. Bless you for raising such a fine, respected young man. I am very sorry for your loss. May God comfort you as only He can.

My prayers are with you and your family,

Charlotte (Green) Sherry

Cathey Youk

September 18, 2008

Melinda - I was informed of your son's passing through the reunion site. My prayers are dedicated to you and your family that God may comfort you in this trying time. I'm sure that Benjamin was well loved by all who knew him.
Cathey (Courts) Youk, Class of '78

Jan Glendening

September 17, 2008

Melinda,
I remember how deeply Ben was wanted. I remember when he was born. I remember that, even as a very young boy, Ben had an exuberance about him that was undeniable. What a challenge and blessing it must be for you to have had such a child to nurture, and raise. You have done a fabulous job. Ben has left his indelible impression on this earth. He will not be forgotten.
I love you,
Jan

Shelley Wiley

September 17, 2008

Melinda - Was informed of your loss due to the class reunion news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Having a son that is a Marine, I know that you are very proud of all of Ben's accomplishments. I am sure he truly blessed your life. Class of 78 - Shelley (Lyons) Wiley

Karen young

September 17, 2008

I remember Ben, He always at lunch in my area. I work at the high school in the lunch room in bb2. My son remember ben he was junior when ben was senior. And they was close friends and they may had played jenks youth baseball together. Michael young (My Son) and Brock Edwards Brock graduate with Ben they was closed friends.

Ben was a very sweet young man.

Ben will be missed and You and your family will be in our family's prayer's.

The young Family

Mark Griffith

September 17, 2008

Melinda,

I am very sorry for you and your family in this immeasurable loss of your precious son. I can't imagine the pain and suffering you are going thru. My hope is that you will find solace in God, your family and someday soon, wonderful memories of your son.

My family is in debt to yours for your son's service to this great country. Please feel satisfaction that you raised a son that wanted to serve others and a cause greater than himself.

Beth Robbins (SBC)

September 17, 2008

Calina -- I will lift your family up in my prayers.

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