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Ted M. Riseling Jr.

1942 - 2022

Ted M. Riseling Jr. obituary, 1942-2022, Tulsa, OK

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Ted M. Riseling Jr.

Theodore (Ted) M. Riseling Jr., 80, of Tulsa, OK, passed away December 20, 2022, from complications of Lewy Body Dementia. Ted was born October 25, 1942, to Theodore M. and Marietta (Koogle) Riseling in Oklahoma City, OK.

Ted attended elementary school at Church of the Madalene and graduated from Cascia Hall in 1960. He attended the University of Tulsa, where he earned an undergraduate degree in finance and began a lifelong membership in Sigma Chi fraternity. A member of the Army National Guard of Oklahoma, he was Honorably Discharged in 1969. Ted's legal education consisted of a juris doctor from the University of Tulsa College of Law and a Masters degree in tax law from Washington University in St. Louis, MO. While in St. Louis, Ted began his legal career as a trial attorney in the office of the Chief Counsel, Internal Revenue Service. After completing a 4-year tour of duty with the IRS, he returned to Tulsa and entered the private practice of law culminating in the formation of his own law firm in 1978. Ted was a former director of the Tulsa Estate Planning Forum and lectured extensively before the Oklahoma Bar Association and the Tulsa County Bar Association on taxation and estate planning matters. He taught classes at Oral Roberts University, Oklahoma City University, Tulsa Community College and was an adjunct professor of law at the University of Tulsa where he taught estate planning and other taxation courses for more than 35 years. Ted also spent one day per week working in the Riseling & Rhode's offices in Bartlesville and Tahlequah.

Ted will be deeply missed by his family and the professionals who looked upon him gratefully as their business mentor. His wisdom and knowledge influenced countless students and clients and left a legacy in that regard. His love of history, books, Churchill (esp. The Other Other Club), Napoleon, pheasant hunting, travel and Southwest art will forever serve as a reminder of the dad, the husband, the friend, the devoted Christian and the attorney that made up Ted Riseling.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister, Adrienne Reinkemeyer, and his niece, Stacy Reinkemeyer. Survivors include his wife, Suzanne, daughter, Alison (Robbie) Rist, son, Jason (Kim) Riseling, granddaughter, Carrie Riseling, first wife, Dana Riseling, stepchildren, Shannon (Dola) Sawyer, Holly (Greg) Friedman, Ryan (Monica) Sawyer, and six stepgrandchildren, brother-in-law, Clem Reinkemeyer, niece, Celia (Dan) Bisett Jr. and their children, Daniel Bisett, III and fiancée, Meghan Martin, and Elizabeth Bisett.

A memorial service will be held Thursday, February 9, at 10 a.m., at Church of the Madalene, 3188 E 22nd St., Tulsa, OK. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to John 3:16 Mission, P.O. Box 200, Tulsa, OK 74101-0200. And, we'd like to extend our special thanks to the caring staff in Household II at Cearu Medical Resort, Tulsa, OK.

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Published by Tulsa World on Feb. 5, 2023.

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Gale Allison

February 7, 2023

Ted was one of the first attorneys to be kind to me when I moved to Tulsa in 1994. I feel gratitude for his welcome and kindness.

P. Scott Buhlinger

February 7, 2023

Ted was a consummate professional, a wonderful attorney, with a calm and peaceful demeanor that helped his clients through sometimes difficult matters. He will be personally and professionally missed.

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Lynda Scott Rowe

February 5, 2023

Ted Riseling was one of the nicest, smartest people that I have ever known. He assisted my Mom, Sylvia Byers, and me with our Trusts for many decades. He always took time to talk at our meetings and made us feel like friends instead of clients. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Doug Eaton

February 5, 2023

I had the privilege of having Mr. Riseling for an estate planning class at the University of Tulsa College of Law back in the early '80's. He was an excellent professor who made the class very interesting and productive. You could tell he enjoyed teaching and he always respected his students.

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