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Theodore Duensing Obituary

DUENSING - Theodore Albert "Ted", died Friday October 23, 2009. A celebration of Ted-retired Peabody Coal Co. manager, devoted and beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather- was held Monday at St. Matthews United Methodist Church. Ted was born May 3, 1932, the youngest child of Albert Duensing and Emily Thompson Duensing. He spent his formative years in Broken Arrow, moving with his family to Okmulgee as a teen-ager. Ted was a center on Okmulgee High School's 1947 state-championship football team and graduated from Okmulgee in 1949. After attending the University of Oklahoma, he joined the U.S. Navy, serving as a communications specialist in the Korean conflict and at other points in the Asian Pacific. After returning to civilian life, he attended the University of Tulsa, graduating with a B.A. in business administration in 1959, the first member of his family to earn a college degree. Ted then followed a long line of Duensing family members into employment in the coal industry. He served Peabody Coal Co. for nearly 30 years as a preparation engineer and manager in Oklahoma, Illinois, Ohio, and Indiana. Afterward, he owned and operated two Daylight Donut Shops in Tulsa for more than 10 years. While in Okmulgee, Ted met Edna Louise Jackson, the love of his life. He and Lou were married on January 2, 1953, and shared three children and their offspring during 54 years of marriage. Ted's heart was broken when he lost Lou to cancer in March 2007. In his final years, Ted was slowed by a variety of physical ailments as he tried to adjust to life without her. Ted also was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Orville Duensing. He is survived by his sister, Yuvonne "Bonnie" Speraw; his sisters-in-law, Carolyn Tanner, Virginia Duensing, and Sue Ann Mount; daughter Emily Duensing and her husband, Ted Bakamjian, of Tulsa; son, Dr. Ted W. Duensing and his wife, Debbie, of Jacksonville, AR; son, Scott Duensing and his wife, Brenda, of Tulsa; nine grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews, whom he loved and who loved him. In lieu of flowers, please direct memorial contributions to the St. Matthew's United Methodist Church Choir or to the charity of your choice. Services were held Monday, October 26, 2009, at St. Matthews United Methodist Church. Moore's Southlawn 663-2233 share memories at www.moorefuneral.com Theodore Albert "Ted" Duensing

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Published by Tulsa World on Oct. 27, 2009.

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November 7, 2009

Uncle Ted, I don't have the words to say how much you have always meant to me, what an important part of my life you have been. I will remember you and love you and miss you forever.

November 3, 2009

Ted, I will miss you so much more than you would ever know. We won't get to go on that Canadian train trip after all, but I feel you are now where you wanted to be. You have been a good friend and brother to me, and much more than a favorite uncle to my children who along with me loved you dearly, and who knew you loved them. I will miss you very much.
Carolyn

November 3, 2009

Dad, I am so proud of you for trying so hard for so long, and for always being there when we needed you to be. You were a good father, a good friend, and a good man, and I pray with all my heart that you are at peace. We miss you and love you.

October 29, 2009

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We loved your mother and father and are so sorry to see both of them gone. However they are together with God and that is a comfort. We have memories too numerous to tell; just know your parents, grandparents and greatgrandparents were some of the best people we have ever known and been privileged to call "friend". Let us know how the Duensing family is doing and we will try to do the same.

Rich & Jan Brasher

Jim Wendorff

October 28, 2009

Ted,
We are sorry to learn of your father's death. Hope all is going well for you.
Jim & Donna Wendorff
Granville, Ohio

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