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Theodore Wenger Obituary

WENGER - Theodore R., M.D., 84, died October 6, 2009. Dr. Wenger was the son of Clarence R. and Elsie A. Wenger, born in Mounds, OK, on April 3, 1925. He served in Korea as a Captain in the Army Medical Corp. He received his medical degree from the University of Oklahoma, College of Medicine and practiced anesthesiology in Tulsa until his retirement. Dr. Wenger was preceded in death in 2005, by his wife of 56 years, Marjorie Brown Wenger. He is survived by: 3 daughters and their husbands: Susan Steinmeyer and Jack of Tulsa, Melanie Sears and Michael of Alexandria, VA, Lisa Budnick and Joseph of Savannah, GA; and 5 grandchildren, Elizabeth Jarke, Zach Budnick, Jake Budnick, Quinn Sears, Julia Sears, and extended family. Dr. Wenger was a man of great humor, many interests, and a generous spirit. He was a compassionate physician, a loyal friend, and a gentleman. As a lifelong learner who loved new challenges, Ted was an accomplished artist, talented musician, and an avid gardener. He was a steadfast, adoring husband, father, and grandfather who will be cherished forever. He was a longtime member of Trinity Episcopal Church. Funeral service will be held at 11 a.m., Saturday, October 10, at Trinity Episcopal Church. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions to your favorite charity or The Iron Gate Ministry at 501 S. Cincinnati, Tulsa, OK 74103. V IEW AND SIGN THE ONLINE GUEST BOOK : www.legacy.com/tulsaworld

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Published by Tulsa World on Oct. 10, 2009.

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Melanie Bailey

October 12, 2009

Dear Susan, Melanie, Lisa and Family,
I will always remember all of the kind and thoughtful things your dad said and did. He was such a support to us when Gerry was ill and passed away. We loved Ted and Marjorie so much. They were truly wonderful people. God bless all of you.

Dawn Saunders Black

October 12, 2009

Lisa and family,

From oh-so-long-ago, I still remember that your dad was a great man. My family passed along the news from Tulsa. God Bless!

Tim Morgan

October 10, 2009

Dear Susan and entire Wenger family --
Well.... I thought that Marge was just beautiful! -- and being a "cradle" at Trinity - 50+ years -- I saw your mom and dad almost every Sunday. My father-in-law, Dr. Orville Holt also lived at Montereau from 2003 - until he passed away in 2008. He never could quite fathom how I knew Ted, and I guess about everyone else who lived there. It was really kind of cute, how he would get "just a little bit" jealous!

We all have good memories!

Tim Morgan & family

Geb Blum

October 10, 2009

A wonderful, decent, compassionate man. Ted leaves so many fond memories, and now a lasting void. Rest in peace.

Del Heskett

October 10, 2009

One of the finest persons that I have known. He was an outstanding physician and a skilled leader and administrator. He had a heart of gold and a joy for living.

Suzie Treadwell

October 10, 2009

One of the most interesting and humorous residents I had the pleasure to meet at Montereau. A true gentleman, will never forget Dr. Ted.
Suzie Frondesk Montereau

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