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The just and the righteous are alive with their God. February 21, 1924 - February 21, 2018. Our beloved John entered eternal life on the 94th anniversary of his birth. He was at home, at peace, surrounded by people whom he loved, and supported by the prayers of those who loved him. John is preceded in death by his beloved son John "Mickey" Nasseff Jr., his parents Peter and Mary (Betros and Zmorroud), and all his siblings: Michael, Anne, Sidney, Sadie, Louis, Mary, Arthur (A.J.) and Marcy. John carried each of them in his heart yet his affection for A.J., his slightly older brother and lifetime friend, confidante, and moral compass, forged a bond that transformed them both. John is survived by the love of his life Helene Houle, his wife since November 30, 1995. John is also survived by his son, Arthur Keith (Susan) Nasseff; granddaughters Trina Pontrelli, Tawnee Nasseff and Emily Nasseff; great-grandchildren Michael (Nikki) Pontrelli, Steven Nasseff, Jennifer Pontrelli, Nick Nasseff and Jack Pontrelli, and great, great grand-daughter Ava Rose Pontrelli. John is survived by Rose Nasseff, the mother of his children, and Gerry Nasseff, A.J.'s widow. He is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews in the Nasseff and Houle families and many relatives in Lebanon and Australia, all of whom adored him. Special thanks to the individuals who gave of their time to ensure John's safety in the winter of his life: Souad Gubash, Richard Graner, Julie and Mark Gubash, Lisa Kline, Jackie and Brian Krech, Jackie Hilgert, Lucy Hobbs, Linda Houle, Kevin Miller, Art Nasseff, Tawnee Nasseff and Jeff Ulrich. Additionally, John leaves hundreds of friends, business associates, community leaders, physicians, and beloved members of the clergy, individuals with whom John maintained close ties throughout his 94 years in St. Paul, particularly Chorbishop sharbel Maroun, pastor of the Church of St. Maron, Minneapolis, and the Rev. Paul Morrissey, S.M., formerly of the Church of St. Louis, King of France, St. Paul. John was born into a loving family which maintained an enduring faith in the Almighty. His immigrant parents worked hard and assimilated into the ethnically diverse and close-knit St. Paul neighborhood known as The Flats, a place that has existed for the past half century only in the memories of John's generation. His father was a railroad laborer; his mother sewed rags into garments, which she peddled door to door. His childhood was rich in love and rooted in the values that are passed one generation to the next. John remembered his mother, who owned but one dress for herself, frequently sent dozens of garments to family still living in Lebanon. She kept her generosity a quiet act and when John asked her why, she responded: Allah bahattif - God knows what you do. John's youth was defined by street sense and toughness. His mother charged John with watching over A.J. while other mothers paid John in candy to keep their sons safe from bullies. When his father grew too ill to continue working, John left school after ninth grade to help support his family. John was a member of the Greatest Generation. Spurred by patriotism after Pearl Harbor, John enlisted in the Armed Forces, joining the 1884th Engineers Aviation Battalion, Company C. At nineteen, John was deployed to Peleliu, Guam and the Ryukyu Islands, the latter was the site of the battle of Okinawa. John returned to St. Paul at war's end to a wife and young son and no job. Though brothers A.J. and Louis achieved success building houses for the post-war boom, they discouraged John from joining them in business. John's oldest brother Mike encouraged John to instead work at West Publishing, where it was believed there might be opportunities for advancement. John took a job unloading boxcars; he started in 1946 - on his twenty-second birthday. The narrative of John's time at West Publishing is often likened to a Horatio Alger tale, a hero's rise from humble beginnings made possible by grit and determination - poor boy makes good. Hard work has certainly been a factor in John's life; he was genetically wired to embrace long hours, living life at a frenetic pace. He drove a taxi at night during those early, lean years when he didn't even own a car. Certainly John was smart and luck played its part. But what distinguishes John's story from rags-to-riches mythology is the degree to which John embraced risk. After analyzing the printing operations at West Publishing and deciding there was room to implement efficiencies, John approached the plant manager Lee Slater with his ideas. It wasn't the idea that was risky, but John's approach: he demanded the company compensate him half of what it would save by using his ideas. The manager threw John out of his office for his brazenness, yet liked his ideas enough to implement them. There would be more ideas to come and Slater, who eventually became president of West Publishing, didn't forget the man who could solve just about any problem. Twenty-two years along, John was made a vice president and placed in charge of engineering and facilities. John also managed the leases for West Publishing's sales offices throughout the United States. John later befriended Dwight Opperman, a legal editor who was on the rise. Opperman eventually became company chairman. John and Dwight's long friendship was a factor in shaping each man's career. John forever changed the business landscape of St. Paul after taking a Sunday drive through Dakota County. John stopped at a roadside produce stand, one he'd patronized for years, where the farmer told John it would be his last year to sell corn. The farmer planned to retire and place his farm up for sale. John leapt for his brick-shaped mobile telephone and called his attorney. West had outgrown its Kellogg Boulevard facility and the city hadn't shown any interest in allowing the company to realize its expansion plans. John surreptitiously purchased that farmer's land and the farmland adjacent to it, parcel by parcel, until he'd acquired roughly 275 acres - where now sits the campus for Thomson Reuters, which employs some 6,000 people. The entire campus was constructed under John's supervision. John retired from West Publishing in 1996 - on his seventy-second birthday, or fifty years from the day he'd been hired. The sale of West Publishing, which occurred that same year, allowed John to retire a wealthy man. At the time, John was vice president of engineering and facilities and a member of the board of directors - the only director without a bachelor's degree or a law degree. In 1996, John encouraged Helene to retire so the two of them could travel. They have been around the globe, often pairing adventure travel with their philanthropic work. John and Helene have been a couple since long before they were married. Helene has been John's champion, the perfect complement to his charismatic personality; she brought to their marriage comparable fidelity to the Catholic faith and an equal devotion to family. She has softened him, encouraged his philanthropy, and played the good-natured foil for his witty banter. John is the love of Helene's life and vice-versa. She has remained faithfully at his side throughout their life together and we must believe he felt her presence, her love, until he drew his final breath. The measure of a man is not how great his faith is but how great his love is. Throughout his twenty-two year retirement, John has given away millions to hospitals and health clinics, churches and schools, orphanages and nursing homes, civic groups and private enterprises, families and individuals. The beneficiaries of his philanthropy are the ill and the aged, orphans, schoolchildren, police, firefighters, and communities of faith. Many of the recipients of his generosity remain anonymous. We trust God knows how John impacted their lives for we, like John, believe God knows what we do. John was known for his wit, his style, his business savvy. He will long be remembered for his love of faith and family, and for his generosity that impacted the lives of thousands. The son of Lebanese immigrants, the son of St. Paul who never lived more than a few miles from where he was born, has left us to claim his heavenly reward. He will be deeply missed. A special thanks to John's grand nephew, Steve Nasseff, whose devotion to John has been exemplary. Steve deeply cared for John, especially over the last twelve years when their days were shared at the Houle family farm. Together, they cut wood, groomed trails, roasted potatoes, played cribbage, and smoked many cigars. THE ONLY PUBLIC VISITATION will be from 2-7PM with Rosary Service at 7PM TODAY at ST. AGNES SCHOOL, 530 Lafond Ave., St. Paul. (Please use the main school entrance on the corner of Mackubin Street and Lafond Ave). MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL will be held for close family & friends at the CHURCH OF ST. LOUIS, KING OF FRANCE 9AM MONDAY, FEBRUARY 26. THE DIVINE LITURGY OF RESURRECTION will be 6PM TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 27 at ST. MARON'S MARONITE CATHOLIC CHURCH, 602 University Avenue NE, Minneapolis. Private family interment. In lieu of flowers we ask that you remember John in your prayers or offer memorials to St. Agnes School, the Holy Family Maronite Catholic Church, the Church of St. Louis, King of France, St. Maron's Maronite Catholic Church or donor's choice. 651-457-6200


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Published by Pioneer Press on Feb. 25, 2018.

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Tore & Kim Dahle

April 5, 2018

My words cannot fully express the sorrow I feel . May you ever treasure the wonderful times you had.
I will remember his sense of humor, (remember being stuck in the elevator at the church-honoring your mom Laura )
and my thoughts & Prayers are with your whole family.
Hugs

Anthony and Martha Zeaiter and family

March 1, 2018

May John rest in peace, he will always remain in our hearts and prayers. We pray that God comforts you all in your time of sorrow. God bless.

Ronie Aviles

February 27, 2018

Condolence for Nasseff Family, knowing John for
38 years. He was been an inspirations the way he lived his life.
Ronie and Gracie Aviles

Anonymous Person

February 27, 2018

Well done faithful servant. God knows what you have done. Thank you for all of your philanthropy work. Our world needs more of you. Thank you so much!

Dean & Nancy Hafner

February 26, 2018

Rest in Peace John.

Patricia Brooks

February 26, 2018

Lovely story about the love for

Kathleen Thomas Igo

February 26, 2018

Dearest Nasseff Family, You have our deepest sympathy in the passing of John. His life story is an incredible journey. You must be so very proud of his achievements & generosity! He has done so much for so many. Proud are we of our Lebanese heritage knowing that he was one of us! Rest In Peace, John. May you enjoy your reward in eternity with our Lord &
Savior.
Kathleen Thomas Igo &
Michael Igo

February 26, 2018

Dear Helene,
I am so very sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful man. I recall the many times he would stop at your shop while you were doing my hair, and you could tell how much he loved you. I hope that your many memories sustain you in these days and weeks ahead as you mourn the loss of your soul mate.

I truly feel honored that I was introduced to him so many years ago. I am also grateful for the John Nasseff Heart Hospital, who on more than one occasion, saved my husband's life.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan Johnson

Violette Zaiter

February 26, 2018

Dear Nasseff Family
May Uncle John Rest In Peace. Condolences to the Nasseff Family, Houla Family & extended family.
Uncle John we will not forget your humble, caring and kind nature your love for your family. We will miss your smile and those beautiful stories of your life growing up. Your legacy will live through Helene and your son Art. We thank you for the love and kindness you have given us and are grateful for the times we spent with you we love and miss you
Love
Zaiter Family - Dib, Laila, RIchard, Sounya, Mouna, Violette, Maryrose, Jacqueline & George
Sydney Australia

Daniel Larson

February 26, 2018

My sincere condolences to the Nasseff family for the loss of a great man. I am fortunate to have known John, and am saddened by his passing.

David John Houle

February 26, 2018

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Maureeb Windish

February 26, 2018

My sincere condolences to the family of this caring and loving man

Anonymous

February 26, 2018

Thank you, Mr. Nasseff, from a fan of the Minnesota Fighting Saints hockey team (he was part of the original group of owners). Deepest condolences to the family.

Kimberlyn Dahle

February 25, 2018

My deepest sympathy, for the loss of your beloved husband. And to all family & friends, May Gods grace lift you in your hours of sadness. God has another angel and the night sky has another bright star to light your way! Much love & hugs.

( Rose Thompson's Grand-daughter )

Cindy Cuddihy Novak

February 25, 2018

To the family of John Nasseff,

My sincere condolences on the loss of a kind, generous and humble man.

His generosity to man kind has helped so many people in his lifetime.

Find comfort and peace knowing he is now at peace and in the arms of the good Lord.

He is flying with the angels but still watching over all of his family and guiding you from above.

Never knew anyone who's birth and death fell on the same day - only leads me to believe the good Lord has big plans for him up in heaven.

God speed.

Sr. Rose Hang Vu

February 25, 2018

I am very grateful to Mr. John Nasseff for supporting Friends of the Poor in helping the orphans, lepers and the Poor people in Viet Nan.
Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord. May he rest in peace and enjoy the eternal happiness with God in Heaven forever.

With great sympathy to Helena and family.

Elaine Sohlo

February 25, 2018

My deepest sympathy on the death of your dear John. I too was a Westsider and grew up on Belvidere St. and was in Marcella's class in school.

I have read of John in the paper and always admired his kindness.

May God bless all of you.

Julie Owens

February 25, 2018

Uncle-Great & Great Great Uncle Arthur Nasseff & Aunt-Great Aunt-Great Great Aunt Sue Nasseff Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss. God Bless! Love Julie,Brian, Jen,Kyan & Harrison Owens .

February 25, 2018

Honorable sir, you were some kind of hero in the lives of so many, and always with such great style and grace! And so dapper and cool you were and still are in the memories of so many. Your sly wit and humor still resonate. Your countless legacies will live on for years to come. God broke the mold when he created you. And I am sure you made him proud to have done so. Such a cool cat you were.

What a huge loss for the West Side, for Saint Paul, for Lebanon, for your family and friends and loved ones and just about anyone who knew you, and for the world!

My heart goes out to your family and loved ones!

There's a poem that seems appros. It goes...

"How have I have come so far?
and always on such dark trails?
I must have traveled by the light
Shinning from the faces of all those I have loved."
- Thomas McGrath

RIP
Daniel Appleby
son of Red

MARY ELLEN GUTZMANN

February 25, 2018

What a great blessing Mr Nasseff was to our community! He gave us medical buildings, our churches and schools much financial support, we are grateful for his generosity! God Bless!

Rick Kouri

February 25, 2018

May you R, I. P. John and God Bless You

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