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for Robert Mollner
John Mollner
October 9, 2007
Rob was notorious for his love of wolves. His visits to the Voyagers National Park were always filled with thoughts of what wolves may be doing at the time, what they were eating, if they were lurking nearby. Were those bones we just saw in the woods from a hungry wolf’s last meal?
The Mollner brother tradition has been to visit those woods once each year in the fall. Rob had attended the camping, hiking and fishing week that ended just two days before his death. It was a fabulous trip. Unlike many, the weather was warm and dry, providing many days of the activities he loved most.
The highlight of the week was the late night howling of the wolves. Camping high above the waters of Browns Bay made their eerie howl seem amplified against the otherwise silent and absolutely dark night. I can imagine that he thought they had assembled just for him. Rob was in his glory.
This year we made the trip without our loved companion. It was in many ways the typical, wonderful time. But in our eyes we told each other that we knew he was not there. It is amazing how much can be said without words.
We brought Rob in the form of a rock, with the span of his years written on it in indelible ink. We hiked for an hour to find just the right spot to leave him. It was a high rock bluff overlooking the multi-hued green and gold forest and the many deep blue lakes of the park…that is his park, his lake, his wilderness. We felt him with us the whole time. We simply called it “Rob’s place”.
An object appeared floating across the channel to the bay. Steve remarked that it was pretty big….maybe a moose? It seemed to be made of two moving limbs sticking out of the water. I thought maybe a large otter. But once it made its way to the opposite shore and stepped free of the water it became obvious. It was a wolf. Even when wet, its body was fluffy and it appeared very healthy. The wolf’s thick gray coat was highlighted with black streaks. It shook off the lake water like a dog and paused for a moment. Unbelievable to Steve and I the wolf turned its head and looked directly at us sitting in his boat. It paused and then turned and trotted out of sight into the woods.
It was Rob. Even if I had not been convinced at the time of the sighting, it would have soon been confirmed by every brother who was on the trip. Dave and Mike soon called on their radio from their boat to report the sighting and told us to watch the wolf march its way along the shoreline and ultimately disappear into the woods.
We are sure that as a wolf he laughed at us the next day when we sought a view from the top of a giant glacial ridge. We took another hike, but this time found ourselves taking a very long and confusing way back to the boat. We considered a possible night to be spent in the woods, sleeping along with every sort of wild animal. There could even be the wolf seen just days before. But that is no fear. That wolf is Rob. This is his place.
In our hearts we know it was Rob. He made note of his presence in only the most obvious way. To think of any other possible cause or coincidence is beyond logic…just as was his sighting. Thank you, Rob, for giving us that last glimpse of you.
Submitted by:
John Mollner
November 22, 2006
This note was received as a memorial acknowledgment from the Wildlife Science Center, Forest Lake, MN.
Dear Mollner family:
Thank you so much for the memorial gift given in memory of Robert Mollner to support our organization. We are so sorry to hear of your loss!
We have a busy year ahead and your contribution will help to provide for the care and maintenance of our animals, as well as for the continuation of studies that benefit wolves and other animals for generations to come.
On behalf of our four-legged friends, your generosity is much appreciated.
Sincerely,
Peggy Callahan
Executice Director
Wildlife Science Center
Forest Lake, MN.
Submitted by:
John Mollner
November 22, 2006
This note is a memorial acknowledgement received from the International Wolf Center, Ely, MN.
Dear Mollner family:
Please accept our condolences for the loss of Robert Mollner. Thank you for your generous donation in memory of Rob. Memorial gifts are particularly meaningful to receive because of the positive spirit in which they are given. We are very grateful. An acknowledgement of the contribution will appear in the Spring, 2007 issue of "International Wolf" magazine.
Wolf recovery is at an exciting but critical crossroads. With this gift, the Center will continue to deliver science-based wolf information, educational programs and publications, bringing us one step closer to a world in which wolf populations have the necessary habitat, prey and protection for survival. Those of us who care about the future of wolves understand the powerful roles that education and dialogue play when the public influences wolf and wildlands management decisions.
Thank you for helping us to provide the education critical to the survival of wild wolves.
Sincerely,
Walter Medwid
Executive Director
International Wolf Center
Ely, MN.
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Tina
October 25, 2006
Lynn & family, I just heard of Robs passing today. I am so sorry for yor loss. You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
David Mollner
October 20, 2006
Rob,
So happy you are at Fort Snelling. So many great lives and stories to be told there. Honor and patriatism, love and sorrow, life and death. You can almost hear the whispers as you walk amongst the white stones. You are also near Dad there, as you are in heaven, and he would have it no other way.
We celebrated your life in the Mollner fashion on Friday. Outdoors, big fire, big drinks, big cigars and telling stories of our little brother. Oh! Steve gave me an air mattress to sleep on and it promptly went flat. Was that you getting in a final shot in the air mattress vs cot debate?
So many stories and so many memories. I AM, sorry about burning your "Blankie" so long ago when we were small. One of us was going to get it! But the most vivid memories for me will always be in the wilderness. When the beauty and solitude washes away the worry and anxiety of everyday life. The moonlit hikes deep in the woods and the sounds of nearby wolves. Afternoon horseshoes on a sandy beach warmed by the late season sun. A solid week of torrential rain in Browns Bay and all of us huddled beneath the towering pine.
Some brothers by blood alone, share a bond. We have a bond, by all we have shared. The thought you are no longer with us has left a wound in me I cannot imagine recovering from. But I realize that over time the wound will heal into a painful scar, that I will show people, and talk of you with pride, for I am forever blessed, to be your brother.
Please give Dad a huge hug and make sure he knows how much we all miss him.
I'll see you later,
Dave
Rose Davis
October 15, 2006
Aunt Katie, Lynn and Mollner Cousins,
It took a few days for Robert's passing to sink in, until I visualized his beautiful face, his smile and sweet nature as a young boy when we first met, then the tears and grief. I have recalled the many holidays spent at the Mollner home filled with noise and love. What a great guy!and someone who was always a joy to be around. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers this past week, and I am sorry that I wasn't able to be there to honor Robert and to provide comfort and support to you. All my love from the Rockies where the wolves roam freely.
Peace,
Rose
Holly Bergloff
October 15, 2006
Mollner family-
I am deeply sorry to hear about Rob's passing. I have not had the opportunity to spend time with Rob and the Mollner family lately however; I do recall and cherish those moments I have spent with him and your family. Rob was always counted on to bring fun times many laughs to any situation.
I feel it important to pass along my thoughts and appreciation for your concern for Sandy while attending my wedding in Italy. In times such as these; your consideration for Sandy's / our holiday was far too kind, most unselfish, and very noble.
Dave, my heart feels as if it is literally breaking for you and your needed support from Sandy. I wish she was there for you and now my only hope now is that her support and ours may help you and your family grieve through this time. You should know that your sacrifice brought many smiles to many faces and we will never forget them. Thank you.
It is a fact that Rob is physically not here however; he is in a better place than we and he is the lucky one for that. He will not be forgotten by us so ensure we are not forgotten by him in his new adventures. Think of him often, laugh often, and trust he is there laughing with you.
Much love, thoughts, prayers, and warmest regards to you all right now.
Holly Bergloff
Rich and Mary
October 15, 2006
Rob, we were your neighbors for only a few years, and really did not know so many wonderful things that you loved. We only wish we could have spent the time learning about them.
So many days we would watch your dog Bernie and how cute he is running after the ball.
Your garden of tomatoes were well kept. Your yard was always trimmed. You and Lynn took such pride in its appearrance.
I am sorry most of our conversations were only over the fence and never over a beer.
You and Lynn have been wonderful neighbors.
Thank you for the tomatoes.
God Blessings for your Family.
Lynn, we will always be next door if you need anything or want to talk. Just come on over.
Always in our prayers.
October 13, 2006
My beloved son Rob,
Today we are taking you to the place that you so revere—Fort Snelling National Cemetery. My heart is breaking.
Last night, your services were wonderful. You were incredibly handsome in your uniform. Several Andersen Window people were there, including your boss Steve French who you couldn’t say enough good about.
I’ll always cherish the long, hard hugs from your friends Don, Kevin & Kirk, Paul, Neil and many others whose names I can’t remember. Your buddies were always such good huggers.
I’m sorry I tried to brush the ashes off your uniform. John stopped me just in time telling me that a wonderful American Indian sprinkled them there to honor you for your great love of the wilderness.
I’ve received money in cards and I’ll send it to the Ely, Mn. Wolf Center and the Wolf Sanctuary near where Mike and Julie live. I’m going to talk to them, again, tomorrow, because I know that you wouldn’t want to support any group who keeps wolves fenced in. I understand that they only keep those who are old & sick and would not survive in the wilds.
Without the love and support of your wonderful big brothers, their wives and the families of their wives, I would not survive this.
Uncle Dave and his whole family and Aunt Pat and her family came to see you.
I brought home a huge vase of flowers from Andersen Windows to enjoy at home.
We will always remember your favorite saying and your brothers have already used it often. I would print it, but we can’t use that kind of language on the computer.
We surely missed our sweetheart Sandy who is in Italy for her sisters wedding. Dave has not told her about you, because he didn’t want her upset so far from home.
Lynn will be o.k. with her family’s support, and I know she’ll take good care of your dog. Anderson Windows has been very good to her.
It’s been very difficult writing this and I can only pray that you’re looking down on us, and that I will see you again.
Love from your Mom.
Kirk Simon
October 13, 2006
Rob,
We spent the best years of our live's together, the years of our youth. In that time, we accumulated a life time of memories that I will cherish always.
Lynn and all of Rob's family, may your faith give you peace and hope.
Love,
Kirk
Jim Stack
October 12, 2006
Steve Mollner, Kathy and the brothers... I just knew Rob from a few Mollner gatherings at Steve and Caran's house in Wdby. But I do know from Maggie and Stephen how close you brothers were, and just recently learned of Rob's devoted patriotism and love of wolves and the outdoors. I'm sorry you have to suffer this. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Don Menier
October 12, 2006
R, I want to tell you how hard it is to write this. I've thought about this for a couple of days now and it just sucks. I have been your friend since I was 13. It feels good to say you were my best friend and I know it really bugged you when I was this down. You always pulled me out of it, and thats what friends are for. I also what to tell you how grateful I am for every minute I shared in your life. Its important you know that. I'll think about all the funny times that you, John, Kirk and I had, some weren't to funny but I'll laugh anyway. Well like always I'll see ya tonight
Love always
D
October 12, 2006
Lynn and all the Mollners -
We are saddened by the news of Rob's passing.
We are comforted knowing he is with Uncle Bernie is heaven and probably relaxing in a chair by a bonfire.
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love -
Paula and Michael Soucheray
Debbie Mollner
October 11, 2006
Rob,
I can hardly bear the thought of not seeing you again. We had so many good times together with your family. Your smile would always light up a room. You will always be in my heart. I pray that God gives you peace.
I love you Rob.
Colleen Herber(Schille)
October 11, 2006
I was so sad to hear of Rob's passing. Rob was a great friend back in high school. I can remember lot of fun times. Kathy, I am so sorry and I am thinking of you. Take care.
Tracy Finch
October 11, 2006
Rob you had a smile that could light up a room and I will never forget that. You where a wonderful friend who always made me laugh. Though it has been many years since I have seen you, I never forgot how wonderful you where. You will be greatly missed.
Jeannie Halver/LeMire
October 11, 2006
Rob I am so sad to hear of this you were a close friend back in the day we shared many fun times you will be missed by many! Lynn so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you! Rob is/was one of kind & loved a lot!!
Yasmin Thomas
October 11, 2006
Lynn: We are so sorry for your loss. We met you briefly while visiting on a business trip back in 1999. I have pictures of you and Robert and will send them soon. God Bless you in your time of grief. May the support of the dear Lord sustain you and the loving Mollner family and extended family. Yasmin Thomas (cousin from Va.) Ralph, Adam, Nathan and Gabriel
Yasmin Thomas
October 11, 2006
Lynn: We are so sorry for your loss. We met you briefly while visiting on a business trip back in 1999. I have pictures of you and will send them soon. God Bless you in your time of grief. May the support of the dear Lord sustain you and the loving Mollner family and extended family. Yasmin Thomas (cousin from Va.) Ralph, Adam, Nathan and Gabriel
Jennifer Mollner
October 11, 2006
Rob,
When I think of you, I think of nothing but the happiness you brought to the people that knew you. Thank you for the great memories you gave me growing up. I couldn't have asked for a better uncle. Say hi to Grandpa for me, will you?
Kim Lucken
October 11, 2006
I will miss you Rob. I have some wonderful memories of you and you hold a place in my heart. Lynn, my prayers are with you.
Donovin and Amy Mollner
October 11, 2006
Rob, people like you aren't supposed to die so young. Thanks for all the good memories, the laughs, the kindness. Thanks for serving your country and your family with all the love and devotion anybody could expect from just one human being. You are a good man, a caring man, a great uncle, and we're going to miss you big time.
With much love,
Addie Mae Handevidt
October 11, 2006
You will be greatly missed Rob. May your laughter live on in the hearts of those who knew you...
Karen Kimball
October 11, 2006
Lynn and Family,
I truly enjoyed working with Rob for three years. He always made me laugh and he is one of the nicest people I will ever know. I will remember him for his heart of gold. My prayers are with you.
Karen Kimball
Tom & Sherry Sullivan
October 11, 2006
Thoughts and memories of you will always put a smile on our faces. Thanks for being such a great friend. You will be in our hearts forever.
Yasmin Thomas
October 11, 2006
I will never forget my visits to Aunt Katherines and Uncle Bernie. The house was always full of excitement with 5 boys running around. Especially the little guy we called "Baby Robert". Baby Robert I will certainly miss you. I know you are safe with your Father and Heavenly Father's arms. Your sight has been restored and you have earned your angel wings. I look forward to the day where we will all be reunited as one big happy family for all eternity. I know you are seeing your Uncle Sharf even though you were so young when he died. I have always felt close to our family in Minnesota despite the miles and living in Virginia. God Bless and know that I have prayer warriors at church and tons of friends lifting every one up in prayer during this sorrowful time.
Love always and forever,
Yasmin, Ralph, Adam, Nathan & Gabe
Amanda Mollner
October 11, 2006
To my uncle, the most gentle hearted kind man I've ever encountered in my life. May the wind be behind your back now, and a lamp under your feet. We loved you Rob and we still do!
John and Kathie Mollner
October 10, 2006
We love you and will miss you, Rob.
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