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Steven J. Hengstler

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Macalester College University of Minnesota

Steven Hengstler Obituary

- Hengstler, Steven J. Born November 18, 1960. Died of cancer January 28, 2004. Survived by wife and friend of 26 years, Annie; loving children, Jill and Tony; mother, Judith Hengstler; brothers and spouses, Tim (Ann), Greg (Lana), Charles (Paula); many uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, and cousins; and special canine companion, Mac. Thank you to our loyal special friend and caregiver, Jim Barrett. Steve enjoyed many activities and employed his Carpe Diem philosophy to cooking, golfing, fishing, youth sports, lounging at the lake, and other interests. Steve graduated from Fridley Senior High School and earned degrees from Macalester College and the University of Minnesota. A 17-year employee of ING (formerly Northwestern National Life and ReliaStar), Steve was a vice president in the sales department of the Employee Benefits Division. Support from friends and colleagues at the office were greatly appreciated. Memorial service to be held 1PM February 22, 2004 at the WEYERHAUSER CHAPEL AT MACALESTER COLLEGE in St. Paul, Minnesota. A reception will follow at the college. Memorials preferred and accepted at TCF Bank-Arden Hills, 1160 W. County Road E., Arden Hills, MN 55112, 'Steven J. Hengstler Memorial Fund'. Gifts in memory of Steve will be distributed to selected organizations. Cremation Society of MN Brooklyn Park 763-560-3100.

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Published by Pioneer Press on Feb. 1, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Steven Hengstler

14 Entries

Diane & Jeff Hershey

February 24, 2004

Annie, Tony & Jill,

We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. We have been praying for Steve and your family for the past year, and our prayers will continue to be lifted up for you.

May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make His face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. May He turn His face toward you and give you peace.

God Bless ~ Diane & Jeff Hershey

Tina Heille (Hemmeter)

February 23, 2004

Dear sweet Annie,

You are without a doubt one of the nicest, honest, most generous people I have ever been fortunate enough to meet! I am so very sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine your pain. I pray that you and the kids will indulge in each other and find happiness and peace. You must know the impact you had on my young life when we first met, the role model that you were is very valuable to me! I think of you often, Take care and I would love to get together whenever you are ready for a girls luncheon!!! Love, Tina

Bob Sanoden

February 20, 2004

Annie. I was contacted some weeks ago by Jeff Benson, and I was stunned by the news. I was not aware of the struggle your family has been enduring since the last time I saw Steve, which was last summer at Phil's memorial. I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through at this time. I can only hope you are finding some strength and comfort from your children, family and the many folks who had the priveledge of calling Steve their friend.

Beth Soll

February 15, 2004

Dear Annie, Tony, Jill and all of your family,

Alex, Tia, Tasia and I wanted to let you know that our love and prayers are with you and Steven. I know that Steven gave every ounce of energy he had to stay with you as long as he possibly could because he loved you so much. I believe that within this great circle of life, although we may change form, the love and energy is never lost. Please know that we are with you during your time of great sadness.

Love, light and peace, Beth Soll & Alex, Tia and Tasia Brodsky

Sandie Lovrien

February 11, 2004

Annie

To my precious friend and her adorable children. Ted and I hurt for you and cannot imagine the loss, but our prayers and thoughts are with you during this very hard time. We pray God will give you peace and comfort and that you & the kids would feel His enormous love now and in the future. We are here for you anytime.

Love, Sandie & Ted Lovrien

Franky Long

February 10, 2004

To Judy, Annie and all of your family, our very most sincere sympathies are with you all during this time of great loss - we keep you in our prayers. The Longs - Franky, Mandy and Robyn

Lois Hartman

February 8, 2004

Dear Annie & family....& Judy, Tim, Greg, Charlie & families,

At a time like this, words just seem to escape one...but, I want to extend my very deepest sympathies to ALL of you. This has been a difficult year for you ALL. As Steve endured the trememdous pain, so ALL of you did, also! Hopefully now, you feel comfort in knowing that he is 'at peace', where he will feel no more pain! But, your pain of his loss goes on for quite some time. Holding tight to all the wonderful MEMORIES of Steve...good times shared with him...the love he shared with ALL of you, as a son, brother, husband & father will help to ease the loss & pain you're feeling now.

The last time I saw Steve was at Grandma Helens' funeral. He looked soooo handsome & healthy. That's the way I get to remember him.

Judy...as a Mom, I can't even imagine the terrible loss you're feeling. You know that my heart hurts for you soooo much. If there's any comfort I can give to any of you, know I'm but a phone call away.

Steve will be missed by so many of us. Know that I am holding you ALL in my prayers.

God Bless each of you....and may He help you through this most difficult time.

With very deepest sympathy...

Much love,

A forever friend,

dolly McPhillips

February 5, 2004

Hi Annie ,Jill, Tony,, You all KNOW how sad I am for you,,,,I just cannot beleive what you have been thru the past year. way too much for such a young family to have to bear, You have held up marvelously ,, I have such respect for you mmm,,,,,,,,JIM you too are the saint of the century ,, I hope you all are reading what nice things people have to say on here,,,Please accept all of the sympathies I have in me for the loss of such a vibrant young guy , that Steve, wasnt he somethin?? We all will miss him along with you ,, He will not be forgotten by anybody who ever knew him thats for sure.... and Judy ,, Greg, Tim,Charlie,, you all have my love , sympathy and respect . you are a great great family and I am proud to know all of you.And if you have any needs ,,I am there!!!!!

Doreen Swanson

February 3, 2004

Annie,

I am so sorry for your loss. You, Jill and Tony are in my thoughts and prayers. May the very special relationship you and Steve shared, somehow give you the strength to get through such a difficult time. I know you will hold wonderful memories close to your heart, and may that, along with the loving thoughts and prayers of so many, always comfort you in time of need.

Sincerely,

Doreen Swanson

Ed and Mary Rabideaux

February 3, 2004

Dear Hengstler Family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of your brother, son,husband and father. Greg, Lana and family know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Judy we are thinking of you and the strength you provide to your family.

Jean and Mike Helmick

February 2, 2004

Annie, Jill and Tony,

Mike and I are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Mike enjoyed working with Steve and anyone who knew Steve respected him greatly.

May your memories help sustain each of you.

Sincerely,

Jean and Mike

Helmick

Jacque Larson

February 2, 2004

To the Hengstler Family:

I worked with Steve at ReliaStar several years ago. He was a kind, decent person who always enjoyed talking about his wife and children. I am so sorry to hear that he died. May you find comfort in your memories at this difficult time.

Marlys Halverson (Bosell)

February 1, 2004

Annie,

Sorry to hear about your loss. You are a very strong person and will find it inside you to make it for whatever the future holds for you. It will be difficult, you will need to look to your family, relatives and friends for support and help. God will be watching over you and the kids.

John Kuduk

January 30, 2004

Dear Annie and Family:

Words are difficult during these times. Please accept our sincere sympathy. I hope knowing that Steve is now pain free and that he'll always be with you tenders you comfort. Our family prays for your family that you'll be strengthened by all of Steve's goodness and memories. Sincerely, John Kuduk

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