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Stacy Mereness
November 20, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Stacy Mereness
November 20, 2008
Please everyone visit the memorial website I set up for mom. http://memorialwebsite.legacy.com/susanwolter
I hope everyone enjoys the site. A constructive way for me to deal with this anniversary.
Stacy Mereness
November 17, 2008
Hopefully the memories of the laughter and joy are still fresh in everyone's hearts. I know that my heart is heavy and that I need mom here now more than ever. Struggles in life just seemed easier to conquer with my own personal cheerleader. I miss you mom!
Donna Engels
February 19, 2008
You are all out there..those who mourn for Sue and Paul. All Sue's friends. Melissa, Mary, Pat, Laurie, Carole,Beth, all of us...I too think of Sue everyday and cry. I ache to call her and hear her voice. But if I listen closely, I am able to hear her. She is with us in the "thin places" where heaven and earth touch. "Nothing can make up for the absence of someone we love. It is nonsense to say that God fills the gap, on the contrary He keeps it empty and so helps us keep alive our former communion with each other, even at the cost of pain..The dearer and richer our memories, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude changes the pangs of memory into a tranquil joy.." (D. Bonhoeffer) To Mary Z., could you please contact me at my e-mail?..Thank you.
Melissa Shockey
February 16, 2008
** If Tears Could Build a Stairway**
If tears could build a stairway,
and memories a lane,I would walk right up to Heaven and bring you back again.
Though farewell words were spoken,
And time to say "Goodbye",
You were gone before we knew it, and only God knows why.
Our hearts still ache with sadness,
and secret tears still flow,
What it meant to love you-
No one can ever know.
But now I know you want us
to mourn for you no more;
To remember all the happy times,
life still has much in store
Since you'll never be forgotten,I pledge to you today-
A hollowed place within our hearts
is where you'll always stay.
My dear friend, please watch over my daughters. Kenzie is fighting another flu bug but I think the bad medical stuff is finally behind her, but now Madi is going in Friday for all her procedures and we are all very nervous about it. Please pray she heals and has no lasting affects from this. I know you will give her some heavenly kisses while she is going through this very hard time.
Karen Andrus
January 5, 2008
I just learned about Susan and Paul. Arden Hinderacker is my Step father and has been wanting to talk to anyone in the family over the hoidays. And he just called Dale and Ruth and they told us.We are so sorry for your loss. I only met Susan about 3 times when Arden and my mom would come to Waynes and Emmas for the hoidays.Susan was always so nice as was the whole Hinderaker family.It was such a wonderful time a family filled with love great food we would play games and at the dinner table we would read cards about the birth of Jesus. I cant help think that most of the family is in heaven now. We ask are selves why does bad things happen we just have to have faith and know we will all be together in heaven one day. My mom died in 2006 from bipolar and it was so hard in dealing with all the things that come from this mental illness. But I feel she is at peace now with the Lord and Family members. My mom truley Loved the Hinderacker family and Susan very much. I will pray for all of your family. Karen Andrus Susans cousin.
Melissa Shockey
January 3, 2008
For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. Romans 8:18
Melissa Shockey
December 25, 2007
Sue, it's Christmas and our hearts are breaking that you can't be here to share it with us. As funny as this sounds, my heart is also filled with joy knowing how many people in heaven are enjoying you being there with them. When you laughed everybody would join in, it didnt even matter what you were laughing about. I can't imagine how beautiful it is in heaven with you there. I miss you Sue, more than I ever realized I would. I promise I'll be here for Wayne, Stacy, Jason and the kids. I'll do my best to make sure they are okay. It's the least I can do for you my friend.
Doug Johnson
December 12, 2007
Sue was the kindest person I have ever known. She had a wonderful sense of humor and I will miss her greatly. I still can't believe she is gone. I am comforted by the thought that I will see her again one day.
John Loftus
December 12, 2007
Wayne & Stacy, it has been two long weeks now since your tragic loss, please know that you are still in the hearts and minds of all who knew Sue and Paul. As one who had the ultimate privilege of working with Sue and enjoying her sense of humor each day, I can say that she will never be replaced and only substituted for. One thing that really stood out was the love she had for her family which for anyone who paid attention, was a great lesson in life. Anyone who knows about sail boats knows that one of the most important parts of the vessel is the keel board. Although it remains out of site and most people don't even know that it exists, without it the boat has no stability, steerage, or forward motion. For us that worked with her, Sue was our keel board. May they both rest in peace and may you be at peace knowing that you will be together once more.
Julie Fischer Wendler
December 7, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Susan and the whole family growing up in the Wenonah neighborhood. My favorite memory was of her smile as she water-skied by us. She just beamed. The pictures posted showed that same smile. She will be missed by many.
Melissa Shockey
December 6, 2007
One more that is all I promise, you and Emmy... I just love this one.
Melissa Shockey
December 6, 2007
One more picture that Doug sent me, here you go. Goodbye my friend until we meet again.
Melissa Shockey
December 6, 2007
Sue, I just had to go back again today and read your obituary. It still seems like a bad dream. Why you Sue? I've been trying to be so strong for Wayne and Stacy, but this week I just can't be strong anymore. I miss calling you, stopping by the office to see you, emailing you, playing jokes on you. I am going to wrap all the presents you had bought for everybody and give them to them for Christmas like you had intended. So many people are lost without you.
Charles Peterson
December 5, 2007
Wayne, I am so so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. We are praying for you, yours and Sue's family. Best regards. Charles Peterson
Virginia Arthur
December 5, 2007
Dear Wayne and Stacy,
I worked with Sue many years ago at CTM. I have the happiest memories of gathering at her desk each morning with our other co-workers to play a silly game of "Word of the Day." We all laughed so hard! That's a theme that runs through all these entries--Sue's gift for bringing happiness and laughter to people.
Stacy, I knew you when you were very little. Your mom was so excited about your coming into her life. It was a wonderfully happy time. I'm sorry I never knew your brother Paul.
I am thinking of you both--it must feel as if all the light has gone out of the world.
Carole (Walker/Lange) Herkenhoff
December 3, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I grew up with Sue, just a block away, and we graduated high school together. I enjoyed talking with Sue at the class reunions. I too lost a spouse, so can feel your pain. (Jerry Lange, who also graduated from Roosevelt). May your family and friends comfort you during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. Carole and Dan Herkenhoff
Pat Hofmaster (Olson)
December 2, 2007
Sue was a gift to this life and touched so many lives. Her laughter, kindness and love for her family were felt by many. Sue held much wisdom and fully understood the human heart. I shall miss my dear friend but her memories I will cherish.
Ginny Diers-Holt
December 1, 2007
Dear Dewey: My deepest sympathy to you my friend. Also to your family. You are in my prayers. Sincerely, Ginny Diers-Holt
Sue and best buds forever
December 1, 2007
Pat Kiesling
November 30, 2007
Dear Wayne and family,
I was so shocked and sad to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.
Pat Kiesling
Kitty Opatz
November 30, 2007
I have only good memories of Paul and Sue and my time with them at Falcon Heights Elementary. Your family is a blessing and deeply touched my life. Thank you for letting me in to your lives. You are eternally in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue and Wayne August 17, 2007
November 30, 2007
Sue Wolff-Given
November 30, 2007
Dear Wolter Family,
I was Paul's case manager and teacher at Roseville Area High School. I am so saddened by the loss of both Paul and Sue. I feel very blessed to have known both of them. My prayers are with you at this time.
Jean Moody
November 30, 2007
Dewey, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the love and support of friends and family bring you through this hard time. Please know you are in my prayers. God bless and keep you. Jean
We will miss her
November 30, 2007
Marcie & Ken Adamson
November 29, 2007
Wayne & Stacy & The wolter family, You have our sympathy. What a sad time for your family. The lord be with you at this time.
Mark ( aka Junior) and Michelle Hunt
November 29, 2007
Wayne, I've known your family for a short time and I'm so sorry for this unexpected tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sue and Paul were a big part of our Spirit Lake family and we will miss them greatly.
Amy Doherty
November 29, 2007
I was a former high school teacher of Paul's and have memories of a respectful young man. My sympathy goes out to your family for your tragic loss. My thoughts are also with Paul's peers, friends and former classmates. Take care of one another at this difficult time.
Catherine Icenhour
November 29, 2007
Sue, Even though I didnt get a chance to know you better, you were a great person and a great friend to my mom and step dad (Tim and Tammy Cardinal). You will be missed.
Lauri Schuneman/Larson
November 29, 2007
Sue and I grew up together on Standish Ave. She was my very first friend and I don't recall a time that I didn't know her. People would always ask us if we were sisters and we would tell them yes. Something we would laugh about years later. Sue had a great sense of humor and when I was with her we were always laughing. Sue was an important person in my life and I am saddend by her loss. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
R Lord
November 29, 2007
I do not know your family but for some reason I feel I must say, You are in my prayers and I am very sorry for your loss.
Jeff Muchow
November 29, 2007
Wayne, Stacy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during the coming days and weeks. We all have fond memories of Sue during our LOL days--always smiling and sharing her compassion with everyone. God tests our faith througout life and we pray for His strength to guide Wayne and his family during the coming days. Please accept our condolences and I'm sorry I cannot be there on Friday and Saturday to be with you.
Jeff, MJ and Austin Muchow
Marlana Parrett
November 29, 2007
Wolter Family,
Weeping may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning. Time will heal our wounds.
Leslie Bergland
November 29, 2007
Dear Wayne, Stacy, Dale and Al:
I'm so sorry for your incredible loss. Sue was the original instigator of the "Standish Avenue" girls' get togethers where we shared many wonderful hours and terrific times. I'll always remember Sue's infectious laugh and great sense of humor.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, Leslie
Donna Engels
November 29, 2007
Dear Wayne, Stacy and family, Our hearts are with you at this sad time. I will miss my wonderful talks with Sue..a cherished friendship of 50 years. I also loved Paul and have such good memories of him as a little boy with Gabe and their trips to Bible Camp. I truly believe that our loving and forgiving Lord has recieved Paul into His arms. Paul is happy and whole now. Sue was the best mom ever..She always spoke of what joy her children and grandchildren brought her. She now rests in the arms of Jesus. Our family is praying for you and we will see you all soon. With Our Love, Donna, Eric, Gabe, Anny, and Kaitlin.
Pat Botten
November 29, 2007
Wayne and Stacy: We were so saddened to hear about your enormous loss. We have such great memories of having you as neighbors on 41st Avenue. Sue was one of a kind and she will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayes are with you and the entire family.
Sincerely, Mike, Pat and Joe Botten
Tim & Shannon O'Neill
November 29, 2007
Wayne and Stacy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Sue was such a wonderful person. You are in our prayers.
D A
November 29, 2007
May the Lord's love and promise of paradise bring you peace and comfort during this most difficult time.
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Mary Z
November 29, 2007
Sue, I will miss you SO much!! Wonderful friend, best buddy. Go with God. Luv Mary
Tim Cardinal
November 29, 2007
Sue and Paul, It is a sad day for everyone. I can't beleive that you will not be at the lake when we get back to visit. You have touched our lives in such a way that words can't decribe. Peace and love to both. You will be missed.
Tim and Tammy a.k.a T N T
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