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SaraLee
July 4, 2025
Love and miss you,Barry
Wendy
July 4, 2024
Still miss you Barry. You were my favorite part of our team at UPD.....Wendy
SaraLee and Terry (sister)
July 4, 2021
Barry, it´s been ten years since you passed. I´m writing this with a huge lump in my throat. I will always miss you but I know that you are watching over all of us. Your Dad, Mom, Marlene, Bill and Lee have all joined you in heaven and I look forward to spending eternity with you and everyone. You became a grandfather recently to Lucus James and soon will have another grandson. Your name will carry on. I Love you forever Barry James!
August 4, 2011
In precious memory of my little brother, Barry.We shared many "firsts" together. Your first steps, first words, first prayers and first taste of Strawberry ice cream. Oh how I loved my baby brother! I was so proud of the dedicated police officer that you became and a highlight of my life is riding with you in your sqad car. I loved your hugs when you had your vest on. You made me feel secure in your uniform. I returned to Ukiah for your memorial in the middle of the night and had to drive the streets that we drove and remember our times together. God needed a patient man...a man with a keen sense of humor. a unique laugh and a great man to fish along beside Him. May you rest in peace, I LOVE YOU!
Amanda Inman
July 30, 2011
There are not enough words that can express how much I miss you right now, and I wish you were here to help me get through the most difficult time in my life. I know you are here in spirit and I love you so much! I will never forget the last conversation we had at Starbucks. I am proud to be your daughter and you still live on through me, always. I love you Dad!
Julie Butler (Inman)
July 27, 2011
Dear cousin Barry, I am so glad we got to grow up together,waterskiing on Lake Mendocino and family holidays. Your laugh and kind and gentle nature will surely be missed. Rest in peace with the Lord and we will catch up later.
Sister Mikey
July 23, 2011
I love you, my sweet brother. I have never meant "rest in peace" more than I do now. I will think of you at peace and I'll miss you! Hush little baby, don't you cry.
rick Jardstrom
July 20, 2011
rest in peace barry
Scott McNally
July 18, 2011
Barry,
Going to miss seeing you at our 30 year High School Reunion. We shared great memories during our "Wonder Years" in Cub Scouts, Webelows, and hanging around the neighborhood. I often recall you patrolling Ukiah when I was passing through and and now regret not pulling you over to catch up on old times.
Rest in Peace
TK Warner
July 18, 2011
Barry and I were police cadets together in the 80's. I remember what a great guy was and am glad to have known him. My thoughts and prayers go out to Diana and family I'm so sorry for your loss.
John Lewis
July 16, 2011
Barry, I wanted to thank you for all the smiles you brought to the people you touched throughout the years.Your sense of humor was infectious and you were able to brighten the darkest days. We shared a lot of good times together, working patrol shifts and investigations. Even now I can still hear that song you would sing every time I walked into the room, "LOUIE LOUIE"!!!!!!! I am thankful that I was able to see you four weeks ago and I will reflect on our conversation often. God speed "4B12", love ya "4B39".
Lea Rezentes (Bouabid)
July 16, 2011
Bruce and family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Marc Engstrom
July 16, 2011
Barry was a fabulous individual. He very diplomatically allowed me to not get a street racing ticket when I was young and foolish. He was fun and had a great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed.
Ken Steely
July 15, 2011
I remember a Holiday I performed music at for the Ukiah Police Department back in the early 1990's. Although several off duty officers and their families kept coming up to me, making song requests and telling me I was playing good music... No one was actually dancing. Not until after Barry took to the dance floor! He was a dancing machine and got most everyone excited to get out the dance floor and have some fun with him! Great memories I have of Barry. Even the one time he issued me a ticket for speeding! I teased him back though telling him I should have issued him a ticket for speeding on the dance floor! I think this was the only time in my life I've ever joked and kidded around with an officer while I was receiving a ticket. I know this is wierd but, Barry just had such a friendly personality that I actually enjoyed our traffic stop. I'm truly saddened in my heart when I learned of Barry's passing. My best thoughts and wishes go out to all members of his family, past co-workers and friends.
Manuel Piceno
July 12, 2011
Officer Inman was one of the most polite and professional law enforcement officers I've had the pleasure of knowing while growing up in Ukiah. I am saddened to learn of his passing. I will always remember the two of us sharing "war stories" after returning from deployment overseas. My condolences to his family and those who loved him.
Andrew Porter
July 12, 2011
Barry,
Fun times when I was a police cadet. I met you when I was a 15 year old cadet and you came there from Willits. At the time I remember you as being one of the best officers to ride with. You were not always one to follow the rules to the letter, but you made it exciting. I remember driving the car on graveyard when you would sleep in the passenger seat; chasing people; and hanging out with you and AJ when AJ and I would cut class to go drive around in the mountains above Pillsbury.. Oops. ok once or twice. We had some times and I have some good BARRY stories.. Seeing you today was hard. But you are being put to rest in your superman suit with the badge that meant the world to you....Sleep well 4B12
Perry Tripp
July 12, 2011
It was a great honor to know you and work with you from a cadet and as a professional. Barry was one of our favorites as a cadet to ride with and work with. May you rest in peace and keep watch over all the rest of us.
Chris Gourley
July 12, 2011
Barry....you will always be missed. I remember as a cadet doing a ride along with you when I was 14 or so, you asked me "what's our location", sadly I said the wrong st name. I had to get out in the rain and walk to the next street and walk back and tell you our location. I learned fast after that. With this said Barry, God called upon you to do some "training". You will not be forgotten, safe patrol 4b12.
Billy and Goldie Curnutt
July 12, 2011
To the family and friends of Barry, so very sorry for your loss. Barry was taken way too soon from us. It seemed such a short time ago when he was in school with our daughter and son. We enjoyed his visits to our house, camping trips with us, his wacky sense of humor, his laugh, and his endearing compassion for his K-9s. Gone from our sight, but the memories of Barry will live on forever.
Tracey Porter
July 12, 2011
I was lucky enough to work with Barry for several years. He was always one of my favorite Officers! I have so many positive memories of us working the graveyard shift together. He had a great heart and I will miss him. To the Inman family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
July 11, 2011
love you barry your friend sam evans may you always be with the the great sprit.god bless barry and take care of his family amen.
The Walters
July 11, 2011
I remember your excitement the day Jonathan caught those steelhead on the Lewis River! Rest in peace brother!
July 11, 2011
May Ricki and my self Marie Travis send to Berry's Family Our deeps Sympathy in your loss. We were in Scout's together
for several years.
Danielle
July 11, 2011
Diana and family, you know you are in my prayers during this hard time. Anything you need I am here for you.
Glenn Stark
July 11, 2011
I had the priviledge of working with Barry for many years. Barry had a passion to fight crime like no other. He was a gentle man, with a kind spirit and a sense of humor that was unmatched.
Joe Neal
July 10, 2011
Barry. Am very saddened of your passing. My thoughts and prayers for your soul and your family. You made a positive impact in many lives. You always carried yourself in a very profressional manner and took the time to help little guy too. May you rest in peace. You will be missed.
Captian Andrew Williams
July 10, 2011
I was a police cadet years ago and worked with barry he was a great guy sorry for your loss he will be missed
David Fletcher
July 10, 2011
To all the Inman Family,
Barry and I worked together at Ukiah Police Department. He was a good officer, who had a determination to rid Ukiah of crime. His heart was always in it to the end. I am saddned by his untimely passing, but maybe he was needed elsewhere for a bigger purpose. My sympathy to all of you during these trying times.
Wendy Cromwell
July 10, 2011
I was on Barry's team as his dispatcher. Barry was my favorite officers and I am so saddened to hear of his passing
karen hunter-coe
July 10, 2011
To Barry's family...know in your hearts he was loved and respected by many people for many reasons. Barry, rest in peace my friend. you will always be in my heart and I will never forget your sweetness, your honesty, your kindness, your laughter and smile, and your friendship to me.
Kathy A
July 10, 2011
My Thoughts and Prayer's go out to the family! Barry was a Great man and his Service to the community I am very Thankful for!! He was a very kind and understanding man. He will be missed!!
Ken Lewis
July 10, 2011
Be good 4b12. Love ya 4b44
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