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Brian Ingalls Obituary
LONDONDERRY -- Brian A. Ingalls, 18, died May 23, 2010, at his home following a courageous battle with Juvenile Huntington's Disease.
He was born in Newburyport, Mass., Feb. 13, 1992, to Brenda R. (Lynch) and Scott A. Ingalls. He had resided in Londonderry for the past 12 years, formerly living in Lynnfield, Mass.
He loved life and his wonderful sense of humor helped make everything around him pleasant and joyful. He never allowed his disease to beat him.
He was an avid reader and enjoyed many books, including Pokemon and Dragon Ball-Z series books. He had a great love of flowers and animals.
IN HIS LIFE: Brian is survived by his mother, Brenda R. Ingalls of Londonderry; two aunts, Sarah Lynch of Londonderry and Shelley Lynch of Lynnfield, Mass.; four cousins, also many dear friends, including Marlene, Barbara, Cindy, Mary,and Theresa. It was also because of people like Dr. Alyssa Lebel of the Children's Hospital in Boston that Brian was given the opportunity to live the life that he had.
SERVICES: Calling hours will be Wednesday from 4 to 8 p.m. in Peabody Funeral Homes and Crematorium, 290 Mammoth Road, Londonderry. A funeral liturgy will be celebrated on Thursday at 10 a.m. in St. Mark Church, corner of South and Mammoth roads, Londonderry, with cremation to follow.
Donations may be made to St. Mark Charitable Fund, One South Road, Londonderry 03053 or to Complex Care Service, Childrens Hospital Boston, 330 Longwood Ave., Boston 02115.
To send a condolence or for more information, please visit www.peabodyfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Ingalls
Mentee
June 2, 2010
Wed., June 2, 2010
Dear Brian:
You are our sunshine and we think of you everyday.
You taught us how to adapt and live each day the best way you can. You told us you wanted to live with your communication board despite the effects of the disease on your body. You told us how you hated your disease and wanted to get better. You stayed strong and taught us how to be strong.
Dear Brenda:
You set an uncommon example that brings new meaning to the word mother and sacriface. So many professionals wanted you to place Brian and take the easy way out vs. offer appropriate assistance in your home. These individuals observed what you stood for: strength, committment and one very important driving purpose - to advocate and give Brian the best quality of life which he deserved and you did that 24 hours a day and sacrificed your job, your home, your own health.
You did that despite the obstacles thrown at you as a single parent. You observed and experienced first hand the standards others wanted to set when they entered your home or when Brian was cared for in the hospital. You stood up for Brian and set standards he deserved. Brian and you were exposed to unfortunate and countless service providers, insurance issues, and the list goes on. You dealt endlessly with these issues and took charge and continued to give Brian the life he deserved.
When we see that special Brian and Brenda out there, make sure to tell them, thank you.
Sincerely,
Mentee
Jane Kendall
June 2, 2010
I am so sorry Brenda for your loss - my thoughts and prayers go out to you. After several conversations and emails, I soon learned what a truely remarkable woman, mother and advocate you are and how great your love for Brian. You were such a blessing to him and he to you. Please email or call if there is anything I can do to help you. Blessings of comfort, love and support - Jane (Turgeon) Kendall
Heather Kyte
May 28, 2010
Brenda, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy.
Marion
May 27, 2010
I only know of Brian through friends that cared for him and about him. Though his suffering is over on this earth, he is now blessed with eternal health and happiness. For his Mom, Brenda,there are no words to describe the emptiness felt when you you lose your child. You were always strong for him. He is at peace now and he will be watching over you, like you watched over him for 18 years. Please accept my deepest sympathy. May God Bless You and keep you safe.
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May 26, 2010
my deepest condolences to Brian's family and friends. I didn't know Brian or his family, but I do know HD all too well. I feel his family's pain in losing someone so special to HD and I hope you all find peace knowing that Brian is off to a better place where he will be forever free of HD. You'll be in my prayers and the many prayers of everyone close to HD as we pray for a cure.
Ariana Carr
May 26, 2010
love you buddy. i will miss you dearly. keep on making those jokes about mom and we will catch up on them someday when i join you!! Brenda you will be in my prayers. Hes in a better place now.
Danielle Lucas
May 26, 2010
Brian touched all of our hearts at LHS. He was a joy to have in chorus and he had a true appreciation for music. My senior singers are sad to hear about his passing but find comfort in knowing that he is traveling to a better place. We'll miss you, Brian!
Joshua F.
May 26, 2010
Brian you always had a smile and made me happy to see you in class, RIP dear Buddy. Always thinking of you now free from the chair.
Joshua F. Londonderry High School
Karen
May 25, 2010
I did not know Brian. I was reading the obituaries and happened to see his picture. It looks to me like he was an angel on earth. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
Stefanie C MAS Homecare
May 25, 2010
May you rest in peace free of the pain you suffered.
J-
May 25, 2010
May you rest in peace buddy! Now you can live the life you always deserved!
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