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Grady Shoemaker Obituary

Grady Brendan Shoemaker, 20, of Laconia, NH, passed away suddenly on Friday, November 14, 2025, following a car accident in Gilford.

Born on June 19, 2005, in Laconia, Grady grew up within both the Laconia and Gilford school communities. He participated in the HUOT Plumbing Program and was active in Laconia Youth Football, Silver Hawks Football, Lakes Region Lacrosse, and Lakes Region Lakers Hockey. Grady was passionate about the sports he played and the teams he and his family supported, including the Wolves hockey team and the Laconia Muskrats.

At the age of nine, Grady survived a severe lawnmower accident that required extensive surgery and years of physical therapy. He faced this challenge with determination, meeting pain and difficulty with gratitude for the support shown by the many communities he was involved with.

In the years that followed, Grady navigated significant challenges with mental health, including depression and substance abuse. He and his family were deeply grateful for the support of Lakes Region Mental Health, Navigating Recovery, and AA as Grady worked toward sobriety and healing.

Despite hardships, Grady found joy and purpose in his work. He held customer service positions at Walgreens and CVS before discovering a passion for serving others at Hector's and T-Bones, of Laconia. He also took pride in contributing to his family's restaurant, South End Pizza & Seafood, owned by his uncle, Micah Shoemaker.

Grady's dedication to service and love for authentic connection with people is seen in his volunteer work with Hands Across the Table (HATT) through the St. André Bessette Parish community. He was involved in the parish youth group and, throughout his life, attended New Covenant Church, Grace Capital Church, St. André Bessette Parish, and most recently, Living Hope Church in Lakeport.

Grady is survived by his parents, Buddy and Jess of Laconia; sister, Grace, of Franklin, NH; brother Drew (Molly), of Franklin; niece Josie, of Franklin; great-grandfather Raymond Winter, Sr., of South Park, PA; uncles Joe (Adrienne) Shoemaker, of Concord, NH, Aarim (Sabrina) Shoemaker of Skowhegan, ME, Micah (Kristen) Shoemaker of Laconia, and Tobey (Emily) Shoemaker of Sanbornton, NH; aunts Dana Cozzens, of Dalham, England, Shira (Chris) Lemire of Colorado Springs, CO, and Christa (Nate) Krakowski of Mishawaka, IN. He is the beloved grandson of Phyllis and Keith Shoemaker, of Laconia, Lyn (Dirk) Plummer, of Laconia, and Raymond (Janice) Winter, Jr., of Coconut Creek, FL. Grady is predeceased by his uncle Joshua Shoemaker.

Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, November 19, 2025 from 5:00pm-8:00pm in the Carriage House at Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, NH.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, November 20, 2025 at 10:00am at St. Andre Bessette Parish-Sacred Heart Church, 291 Union Avenue, Laconia, NH.

Burial will follow the Mass at Sacred Heart Cemetery, Garfield Street, Laconia, NH.

A reception will follow at the Sacred Heart Parish Gymnasium. Come pray, cry, hug, laugh, and eat.

In lieu of flowers, the Shoemaker family welcomes donations to Adult & Teen Challenge, 147 Laurel St., Manchester, NH, 03103, where Grady spent the majority of his last three months dedicated to recovery. Remember: they don't have to be sober for you to tell them you love them. To Donate online: tcnewengland.org, Donate > Donate Today > NH Men's Center > Tribute Gift> Memorial > Grady Shoemaker.

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services/603Cremations.com, Laconia, NH, is assisting the family with arrangements. For more information and to view an online memorial, please visit wilkinsonbeane.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Nov. 18, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Grady Shoemaker

Nov

19

Calling hours

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant St, Laconia, NH

Nov

20

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Andre Bessette Parish-Sacred Heart Church

291 Union Ave, Laconia, NH

Funeral services provided by:

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant Street P.O. Box 67, Laconia, NH 03246

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Pauline Latuch

Yesterday

Sincere condolences goes to you and the family at this difficult time my prayers and thoughts are with all of you.My heart was broken into pieces when I heard.The angles wil be watching him as well as the family.

Sherry

Yesterday

My sincerest and deepest sympathy and condolences to everyone during this extremely difficult time. I was heartbroken to read the obituary of such a young and handsome young man. Always cherish and hold the good memories close to your heart and remember the good times.

Anne

November 18, 2025

The love within this obituary is beautiful and at the same time the saddest I've ever read. Grady truly has a family which is the definition of love. I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope the memory of this wonderful young man fills you with peace and as much happiness as possible. Rest in peace Grady.

Greg Barrett

November 18, 2025

It is even more heartbreaking when a young person leaves us
seemingly before his life has even barely begun.
TY to the family for your honest and open tribute.
It helps to serve others in our communities to heal.
May the road rise to meet him...RIP

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