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1939
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2020
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John Tarleton Obituary
John was born in Queens, New York, on November 6, 1939, to the late Nelson and Emily (Kopp) Tarleton. He was a graduate of Wantagh, New York High School and a proud veteran of the United States Navy. After an honorable discharge, John went on to a long career as a manufacturing manager for Kollsman from 1960 until his retirement in 2001.
In his free time, John enjoyed being outdoors, hunting, fishing, and working in his garden, but most of all, he enjoyed spending time with his family. John's wife, children, and grandchildren meant the world to him and brought him great joy. He will forever be remembered as a kind soul and a friend to all who knew him. John will also be remembered for his sense of humor, contagious laugh, and ever-present smile.
John is survived by his loving wife of 60 years, Julie (Horenburger) Tarleton; three children and their spouses: daughter and son-in-law, Deborah and Patrick Cleary of Hondo, Texas; daughter and son-in-law, Susan and James Colburn of Merrimack, New Hampshire; son and daughter-in-law, Matthew and Kerry Tarleton of Merrimack, New Hampshire; and grandchildren, Patrick Colburn, Gabrielle Cleary, and John "Jack" Tarleton. Additionally, he is survived by his cousin to whom he was so close, Wesley Dirks and his wife, Judy, of Fort Myers, Florida. Along with his parents, John was predeceased by his siblings, Robert Tarleton and Virginia Tarleton.
A private graveside service for immediate family will be held at the New Hampshire State Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen, New Hampshire, at a later date.
For those who wish, memorial contributions may be made in John's memory to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675 or online at woundedwarriorproject.org.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Tarleton
Deborah Henderson
July 6, 2020
So sad to hear about John's passing, John & Julie were wonderful neighbors at Cold Stream Pond in Lowell, Maine. Always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. We experienced wonderful times on the lake, even the morning I woke them to seeing a moose swim ashore and come up behind their garage to rest for hours before moving along. My heartfelt sympathy Julie to you and your family, John will be missed.
Jacqueline Hamilton
July 4, 2020
I was privileged to work with John as his assistant in the Kollsman MCTNS project. I am so sorry to learn of his passing and very much wish I'd known of his proximity to "my place".
John had a wonderful commitment to excellence for the program we were assigned. His enthusiasm and sense of humor were the leaven to some frequent 'trying' days and situations. A good friend in or out of the office.
My deepest regrets to you, Julie and all of your family.
Mark Bailey
June 29, 2020
Julie, Matt, Susie and family,
Just wanted to express my deepest sympathy and condolences to you and John's entire family. It is a sad day to lose such a GREAT man, wonderful husband, Father and Grandfather. John was my mentor, but most of all my friend, for many years at Kollsman. We had so many great times in Israel together. Additionally, he was a father figure. I always think of John and how he would handle situations at work. He had the knack, He was a great manager and made me what I am today. Keep John's memories close to heart and this will eventually lead to comfort knowing he is now at peace. John's passing is only a temporary separation, as some day, we will be together again.
Jan Heath
June 27, 2020
We will miss Johns friendship. Loved swapping books with John , talking politics, gardening and watching war movies. We will miss meeting him on the road as we took our daily walks.
Gail Pinet
June 26, 2020
John will be surly missed. I worked for John at Kollsman MCTNS program for 3 years. John was a wonderful boss, with a great personality. My prayers will be with John and his family.
Michael Duhaime
June 24, 2020
Sue & Matt, We're so sorry to hear about your fathers passing. What a wonderful man to have as your father. We spent many a great time sitting with him watching Pat's hockey games and discussing all sorts of things. I was never able to talk him out of his UMaine Bears support but had lots of fun in the process. He was a great man and we were lucky to know him for a short while.
We hope you're doing well in this difficult time.
Mike & Kathy Duhaime
Catherine Barritt
June 24, 2020
Sending love and blessings of peace to John's family. I will always treasure his warmth, kindness and good nature. What a pleasure to have known him! Dudley Road neighbors have lost a dear friend.
Diane Kent
June 24, 2020
My sincere condolences to all. I was fortunate enough to have worked with Johe at Kollsmans from 1978 until I relocated to a AZ in 1998. I have very fond memories of John and always had the upmost respect for him. He was a wonderful man and Im sure will be missed greatly.
Jean Griffin
June 23, 2020
Sue and Family, so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. He was such a nice man. I am sure he will be missed by many. God Bless You All
Arlene Stinson
June 23, 2020
To Julie: Sending sincere condolences to you and your family. Our time goes back so many years, but you are not forgotten. I enjoyed having you on my team and always valued and appreciated your in input. May you find peace in the many memories over so many years. Arlene Stinson
Danita Marshall
June 23, 2020
Julie and family my condolences to you all. Sending you lots of love.
Steven Dembow
June 22, 2020
To Matt, Kerry, Jack and the rest of the family: Please accept our sincerest condolences on your loss. May the memories you all shared with John bring you comfort and joy in the years to come. The Dembow Family
Peggy Grill (Toms)
June 22, 2020
Im very sorry to hear of your dads passing Susan. May he Rest In Peace!
The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home
June 28, 2020
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
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