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Michael John Pasquarella Jr.

1936 - 2023

Michael John Pasquarella Jr. obituary, 1936-2023, Berlin, VT

BORN

1936

DIED

2023

Michael Pasquarella Obituary

Michael John Pasquarella Jr., formerly of Wilton, N.H., passed away quietly on Jan. 19, 2023, in Berlin, Vermont, of complications related to Alzheimer's disease. He was 86.

Michael was born to Michael Sr. and Thelma Pasquarella on Feb. 1, 1936, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, one of two sons. They lived in the city, then moved to Strafford, Pennsylvania, where he graduated from Treddyffrin-Easttown High School. He earned a forestry degree from Pennsylvania State University. He married Nancy Keene in Pennsylvania in 1959.

Shortly thereafter, he attended Officer Candidate School and joined the U.S. Navy, serving in the Mediterranean and the Caribbean during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Once released from service in 1963, he and Nancy moved to Maine, where Mike worked for Georgia Pacific for a short time. By the time they moved to New Hampshire in 1965, the family had grown to include two daughters, Laura and Lee, and a son, Tom.

Mike co-founded ERA Keene Elliott Realty in Nashua, N.H., in the late 1970s. Over the years, Mike mentored many of his employees. Many of those folks became lifelong friends.

He had a deep love of the mountains and the sea. He hiked throughout New England and for years insisted on regular family hikes, eager to share his love and knowledge of the outdoors with his children. He also explored the great Rocky Mountains and canyon lands of the West and sailed for many years off the coast of New England and in the Caribbean. Mike had a true passion for Morgan horses, , and spent countless hours riding and driving these magnificent beasts. He was also a huge sports fan, especially football and hockey.

Mike and Nancy parted ways in 1980 and he sold the realty business in 1992. He successfully invested in other business ventures before retiring.

He married Ellen Marston Hanson in 1998 and continued his life adventures with her. They moved to The Villages in central Florida in 2012 until her passing in 2016. Mike then returned to Vermont in 2019 to be closer to his children.

Mike adored his family and was loved by so many others. He lived by his values and made a lasting impact on everyone he met. He was a great storyteller, who loved political debates, and a voracious reader - of fiction, especially Westerns, and all genres of nonfiction - who shared his knowledge with all.

He is survived by his three children, Laura Pasquarella Swain (Mark), Lee Youngman (Dirk), and Thomas Pasquarella (Margaux); granddaughter Julia Lerner (Scott); and two stepdaughters, Aimee Harris and Erika Atkinson. He was preceded in death by his parents, his brother, Robert Pasquarella and his wife, Ellen Marston Hanson.

The family will hold a memorial in the summer of 2023. Friends and family will be contacted with details. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a small donation to the Alzheimer's Association (https://www.alz.org/get-involved-now/donate). Every bit helps to fight this terrible disease.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Feb. 5, 2023.

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Carolyn Helmich

August 12, 2023

Dear Laura, Lee and Tom,
I´m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Our family has felt his loss very strongly and I wish that all of us could be with you on Monday to share our love for him and support you through this painful time.
A big hug to the three of you.
My best to you, Carolyn Helmich

Dianne sikes

February 9, 2023

Sending condolences to all the family. Mike was such an amazing man. He will be missed.

emmett A coyne

February 5, 2023

Wow! Part of my evening ritual is reading obituaries in the UL as it alerts me to persons I've known while living in NH.
I had been wondering what happened to Mike!?
He lived nearby but hadn't had contact for about 3-4 years.
I certainly was an intimate part of his life as he shared many confidentialities over time.
I appreciated his hospitality through the years in his various homes and contact with his family members.
Certainly condolences, especially to his children of which he were his greatest assets.
Ironically, I had been planning to stop by his home in the The Villages but kept putting it off.
This notice provides some closure though I wish it had been in person.

Robert D Machain

February 5, 2023

Mr. Pasquarella Jr.Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

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