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Darla OBrien Obituary

Darla S. OBrien
Waterville
Darla S. Toad OBrien, 56, of Brothertown Rd., passed away Thursday, January 10, 2013, at home surrounded by her loving family after a brief battle with cancer. She was born January 26, 1956, in Utica, NY, the daughter of Alice Way Budlong and the late Charles T. Budlong. She married her childhood sweetheart, Patrick J. OBrien on August 11, 1984. They shared a blessed union of 21 years until his passing in August 2005. She was a graduate of Waterville Central High School, and worked many years at Joseph & Feiss Co. She was currently employed by Dielectric Laboratories in Cazenovia, NY. Toad had a lifelong love of animals, especially horses, which began at an early age. She enjoyed spending weekends trail riding with her friends and family. Although the youngest of 3 children, it was always Toad who was the first one to be there to help any one of her family members in need. She was predeceased by her husband Patrick J. OBrien on August 22, 2005; her father, Charles T. Budlong on February 21, 2010; and her father-in-law, Francis Red OBrien. Surviving are her mother, Alice Budlong, Waterville, NY; sister and brother-in-law, Judy and Gary Kingsbury, Waterville, NY; sister and her partner, Jean Budlong and Ann Clark, Utica, NY; nephew, Charles T. Kingsbury, Waterville, NY; niece, Melissa S. Kingsbury and fianc, Jerry L. Ray and great-niece, Leeanne S. Ray, Waterville; mother-in-law, Mary Lue OBrien, Waterville, NY; brothers-in-law and their spouses, Robert and Joyce OBrien, Harrisburg, PA; Edward and Elizabeth OBrien, Sauquoit, NY; Daniel and Robin OBrien, Dillsburg, PA; Joseph OBrien, Waterville, NY; sisters-in-law, Susan Mulata, Oneida, NY; and Penny OBrien, Waterville, NY. Per Toads request, there will be no calling hours or funeral services. The family would like to extend a sincere thanks to Toads cousins, Bettyann Zyla, RN, and Kim Cook, for all of their love and support during this most difficult time. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to Stevens-Swan Humane Society. Arrangements have been entrusted to Kloster-Northrop & Bentz Funeral Home, 210 E. Main St., Waterville, NY. To send a condolence or sign the Book of Memories online go to www.kloster northropbentz.com

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Published by The Observer-Dispatch on Jan. 13, 2013.

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Mary Furness-Belfield

January 14, 2013

Alice, Judy, and Jean
I'm so very sorry to here of Toad's passing. What a good friend she was to me when we were young. Would take me horseback riding, even if I was the worst rider, ever. All the good times we had at Raymond's summer picnics. Dancing in the driveway to Judy and Jeannie's Nancy Sinatra's "These boots are made for walking".
You will miss her and so will I.
Mary

kelly baker

January 14, 2013

Our hearts goes out to all of you. She will be sadly missed.
With heart felt sympathy.
Corey and Kelly Baker

January 14, 2013

Toad,
may you rest in peace now and be with your Dad & hubby. although we didn't keep in touch often, you will certainly be missed! My regards to aunt alice, jean & Judy.
Lesle

Christina Buyea

January 13, 2013

I have so many fun & wonderful memories of you and Pat through the years. You are together again. You will be missed and loved always!!! My thoughts are with you all!!!

So sorry Jean

January 13, 2013

Toad,my heart is heavy...now you can rest you will be missed,you already are,my deapest simpathy to your family, memories are a wonderful thing think of her often, and speak her name freely,she'll be listening...

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