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Joel Nolan
Utica/Clinton
Joel B. Nolan, 50, formerly of Clinton and currently of Utica, died on Friday, March 18, 2011, unexpectedly, at his residence. He was born in New Hartford on August 8, 1960, the son of Joseph and Ellen Blake Nolan, and was a member of the graduating class of 1979 from Clinton High School. While attending Clinton Schools, he was active in Youth Hockey, playing in Bantams and the Midget League. On March 20, 1982, he was united in marriage to Kelly Boyce at the Stone Presbyterian Church in Clinton, a loving union which would have been shared for 29 years today. Joel was employed with the Utica School of Commerce for 30 years. He was also the Assistant Safety Director at the Adirondack International Speedway. Joel was a loving and devoted husband, father, son, brother and friend to many. He had many passions, including NASCAR racing and spending time at his camp in New Breman, and took great pride in his Native American heritage. He was also a lover of nature and animals, including his 16 year old cat, Scout. Joel was the primary caretaker of his large family and many more. He is survived by his beloved wife, Kelly Nolan, of Utica; three cherished sons, Blake and his wife of a week, Sarah Nolan, of Utica, and Dakota and Jo Jo Nolan, both of Utica; his loving little princess granddaughter, Miya Sioux Nolan; his mother, Ellen Nolan, of Clinton; his sisters, Donna Elizabeth and Teresa Nolan, both of Clinton; his brothers, Sean C. Nolan, Joseph and his wife, Marylisa Nolan, and Matthew and his wife, Carrie Nolan, all of Clinton; his father and mother-in-law, Joseph and Ronda Bogacz, of Clinton; a brother-in-law, Joseph and his wife, Josephine Bogacz, and their daughter, Rylea, of MA; a sister-in-law, Elizabeth and her husband, Mark Zyla, of Westmoreland; and a sister-in-law, Wendy Castleberry, of NH, and her children, Rachael, Rebkah and Robert Castleberry. He also leaves many aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends. He was predeceased by his father, "Indian Joe", and his brother, James Castleberry. Relatives and friends are invited to his Mass of Christian Burial which will be celebrated on Tuesday at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, Clinton. Visitation will be held on Monday from 4 until 8 p.m. at the Owens-Pavlot & Rogers Funeral Service, 35 College Street, Clinton. Arrangements are under the care of the Kowalczyk Funeral Home, Utica/New York Mills. Light a Candle at: www.kowalczykfuneralhomes.com
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Published by The Observer-Dispatch from Mar. 19 to Mar. 21, 2011.

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Natalie Massita (Scavo)

March 13, 2025

I still think of you and the laughs we shared at USC. I hope you're resting in peace, but on occasion still coming out with some of the funniest comments about this one and that one!!!

desiree rienzo

March 29, 2011

kelly we love you and always will be here for you we are right next door if you ever need us. i know how much you and joel loved each other, and i am truly sorry we will always be here for you no matter what time of day or night. joel was a great guy and me and wayne are both so happy that we got the honor of meeting and getting to know joel thank you guys for everything you've done and again i will always be here for you just knock. we love you guys so much.

Peg Masters

March 28, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to you Kelly and the boys. We so enjoyed working with Jodi at USC - he brightened every day with his marvelous, humorous observations. Our prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Peg Masters, visiting Ron Curtis in NC

March 24, 2011

TO KELLY & FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU FOR YOUR RECENT LOSS. JOEL WAS ALWAYS A GOOD FRIEND TO US AND HIS MEMORY WILL STAY IN OUR HEARTS AND MINDS FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES.
SINCERELY,
GARY & CAROL WILCOX
WATERTOWN, NEW YORK

Martine Hussey

March 23, 2011

We are heartbroken over you loss. Jody loved all of you so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Love, Martine, Tiernan and Olivia Hussey (Carlsbad, CA)

Mark & Kelly Rashford

March 23, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Many a good times were had while growing up with Jody. The memories will be cherished forever.

March 22, 2011

Dear Kelly and Family:
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Truly,
Colleen Fitzpatrick and Family

Jim Mahoney

March 22, 2011

We are so very sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time.
Love The Mahoney's
Jim, Kelly, Justin, Kelsey, Jamie

Joanne Nosewicz (Jewell)

March 22, 2011

Kelly, my heart goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time. Jody was one of the first friends we made when we moved to Clinton and remained close to our family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

March 22, 2011

Kelly, So sorry to hear about Jody. My thoughts are with you and your sweet boys. Lots of memories, great people. Take care of yourself.
Janet Scofield Mills

Eric Allanson

March 22, 2011

Dear Kelly,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Eric

kate goodson

March 22, 2011

Kelly so very sorry for your loss.

Heather Jurczak

March 21, 2011

LOVE AND PRAYERS TO KEL, MATT AND FAMILY

Diane Korzec

March 21, 2011

Kelly & family,
I was so sorry to hear about Joel. He always had a way to make people laugh... My thoughts & prayers are with you.

Debi Hughes

March 21, 2011

Kelly, My heart goes out to you and your family. I remember the 1st apt. you had in Utica, Blake was just a baby. You and Joel were truly soul mates and built a beautiful family together! There is a new BRIGHT star in the sky and it is your guardian angel. Stay strong………

Judy Schrader

March 21, 2011

Ellen and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May all the great memories you share with your sons and daughters keep Joel alive forever in your hearts and may the love he had for his family keep them strong.

Russell & Wendy Schreck

March 21, 2011

From the first time I met Joel I knew he would be a life long friend. He will be truly missed. Words can not express the loss. We have the memories of good times at his favorite place, AIS. We will miss you Joel!

Jeanne Dano

March 21, 2011

Kelly and Family,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I will pray for your continued strength through these very tough times.

Bryan Forrester

March 21, 2011

Joel will be deeply missed our thoughts and prayers are with allof you.

Beth and Dan (Melvin) Clark

March 21, 2011

Dear Kelly and Family: Our sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family at this time. We are very sorry for your loss.

Ceil Gibbster

March 21, 2011

Kelly and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sorrowful time. Joel will be greatly missed. He was a comedian at heart, a gentleman, a great cook, a dear friend, and an all around stand up man. He told it like it is and I admired his honesty. His love and devotion to his family was apparent to all that knew him. Joel, my friend, may you rest in peace. I will never forget you!

Susan Anderson/Suba

March 21, 2011

Teresa our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will keep your family in our prayers and I will stop in on our next trip home from Florida to give you my hug and kiss.
Susan Anderson Suba

Wally & Donna O'Neil

March 21, 2011

Kelly and family,
You all are in our thoughts, our hearts and our prayers. Wishing you and your family strength and peace and may happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time..
Love Wally, Donna and Arie

Tammy Huyck

March 21, 2011

There will never be another Joel. He was our very own "Norm" from Cheers. Someday a book could be written of all the phrases Joel made famous! We shared so much in my 16 years at USC. Through the good times and the bad times, we were like family at the college.

Kelly, my love and prayers go to you and all of your family. May God give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time.

kevin williamson

March 21, 2011

to the nolan family,we are very sorry for your loss ,words, can never sound right in your time of need but love is a peaceful word we can all use .so just know the williamson family offers all of our love .sorry for your loss..

Bobby Brown

March 21, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Tim Wheeler

March 21, 2011

Kelly-Thoughts and Prayers to you and yours.

March 21, 2011

Even though I have known Joel for several months I will miss him. He will always be part of my USC experience. He was a great help to all members of the student association. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobby Brown

March 21, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

March 21, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.- Michele and Bill

Natalie Massita

March 20, 2011

Joel: You left us too soon. I will miss your kindness, your helpful nature, and your bright, witty sense of humor. Lunchtime will never be the same; USC will never be the same, life in general will never be the same without you. I remember the compassion you showed me when one of my pets passed away. As I walked down the hall at work, you simply stopped me and gave me a hug; no words were said. You understood because of your love for animals. I always enjoyed the way you spoke of your family with such love and admiration – that of a proud father and husband. Kelly, Blake, Dakota, JoJo, and other family members—I am very sorry for your loss. Natalie Massita

Holli OLeary

March 20, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family.... You and Joel taught me that there really are soul mates in this world... so terribly sorry he will be missed... ?

Debbie Brown

March 20, 2011

Kelli & Family - My thoughts & prayers are with you! I can't think of words that express how sad I feel. Thanks Joel for "Cheese & Rice"! I will always remember you when I think of it. Love ya! Debbie

Russ and Debbie Handley

March 20, 2011

Kelly, There are no words to help you
or your family through this difficult journey. The pain you feel in you soul is as strong as the love you feel in your heart. The people left behind have the most difficult path to follow. Keep the memories that were built in a lifetime close to your heart. We send our love and will keep you all in our prayers.

Brad Dunda

March 20, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jerry & Dorothy Hajdasz (Flintstone)

March 20, 2011

We were so shocked to hear about Joel. He was a wonderful man. Had a lot of good times at the Adirondack speedway. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kelly & the family. Please give his little "princess" Miya a hug for us. She was the apple of his eye.
Please let us know if we can do anything. God Bless.

Krista and Brian Pritchard

March 20, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Tom Finch

March 20, 2011

Kel and family,

He was a wonderful man. I will miss him greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Trish K

March 20, 2011

sorry for your loss

Colleen Gozy

March 20, 2011

Kelly and Nolan family, I am so very sorry. He was the best and will always be the best, watching over all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love you and miss you, Colleen Gozy

Laurie and Ron Russell

March 20, 2011

Kelly and family, You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this truly difficult time.

Danielle Thompson

March 20, 2011

THINKING OF YOU TODAY KEL ON YOUR ANNIVERSARY. I LOVE YOU!!

Joe, Jo and Rylea Bogacz

March 20, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Barbara Mascia

March 20, 2011

Kelly and The Nolan family, I am so sorry for your loss! A great man, husband, father and friend to many! Cheese and Rice Joel!!! Kel he is watching over you now! Love you and wish I lived closer. xoxo

scott coombs

March 20, 2011

Kelly and Family i am so sorry to hear Joel was great man father husband and friend he will be sadly missed

Kim (Kitchen) Curtis

March 20, 2011

To the Nolan family: please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Grey

March 20, 2011

Kelly & Family:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May cherished memories get you through this sad time in your life! Prayer and thoughts are with you all! Lisa

tom horning

March 19, 2011

MY heart goes out to the family

michele horner

March 19, 2011

You will be missed.

tom horning

March 19, 2011

My heart goes out to the family im so sorry for your lost

Tracy Wormwood

March 19, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

mike sierson

March 19, 2011

A GOOD MAN IS NEVER FORGOTTEN,AS MANY OF US HAVE MOVED AWAY AND TIME HAS PASSED BY ARE MEMMORIES OF FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES ARE STILL IN ARE MINDS AND THOUGHTS AND THERE IS WERE JODY WILL ALWAYS BE.

Debby Fleming

March 19, 2011

Truely a man in every sence of the word. I GREAT husband, father, brother, and grandfather. I presents that will be greatly missed but fondly remembered! Stay strong..........

Beth Martin

March 19, 2011

Kelly and Joel high school sweethearts! A great love! Godbless you Kelly and kids. Prayers for the entire family. It seems he left to early but I think God must have work now for him in heaven!

Rose Hartson

March 19, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Nolan family! I didn't know Joel very long but he was someone I will never forget. Great guy that always brought a smile to your face. You are sure to make God smile as well Joel.

Tracey Teesdale-Hepburn

March 19, 2011

What I will remember most is Joel (Jody's) infectious smile and laugh. He was always a great friend. So truly sorry for your loss.

Blake Nolan

March 19, 2011

Love You Dad May You Always Rest In Peace

Sara and Kerry

March 19, 2011

We offer out thoughts and prayers during this time. We were very fond of Joel, he always made us laugh. He was a very dear man with a lot of joy. Much love, Sara and Kerry

penny and doug and brandon cronk

March 19, 2011

kelly,blake,sara,dakota,jojo,miya souix and anyone I missed.Joel was wonderful husband,awesome dad and the best poppie in the world,,Will truly be missed,loved helping everyone,awesome cook,great sloppy joes,etc.Will miss your smiling face and your big heart full of kindness..Kelly your guardian angel is now watching you from above.take care,be strong hugs all around you.love doug & penny cronk

Lisa Bullet

March 19, 2011

Kel and your family,
My deepest sympathy to you all. Joel was a great guy and will be missed!

Carla Mascaro

March 19, 2011

God bless the Nolan family. We will miss our beloved classmate.

bryan yousey

March 19, 2011

kelly my hart goes out to you and the boys we will miss joel lots let god be with you and your family love yea!! bryan yousey
andrea marolf

Nick Bruno

March 19, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the Nolan family. Stay strong.

Dawn Noble

March 19, 2011

My heart goes out to you and your family Kel. Joel will ALWAYS be "The wind beneath your wings."

Mollie Mahoney

March 19, 2011

I'm very sorry for your loss... In memories and our hearts he will carry on with the way he has touched our lives.. R.I.P Joel ! <3

March 19, 2011

Out Prayers are with you & your family
Patrick / Kellie View & kids

Terrie Jewell/Palermo

March 19, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go to The Nolan family and everyone that was blessed to have him in there lives! So sorry for your loss.

Terrie Jewell/Palermo

March 19, 2011

My heart to goes out to The Nolan Family,and all who knew him! You are in my thoughts & Prayers!

Rick Clarke

March 19, 2011

Joel, we shared many a good times together. You are now doing it on another level. Take Care up there my frend and we will do it again someday. The world is a worse place without your smiling face.

Michelle Glod-Bach

March 19, 2011

May happy memories get you through this difficult time.

Mark Brannick

March 19, 2011

With my deepest sympathies

Nancy Rouillier

March 19, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to Kel and her whole family, I am so sorry for your loss, I wish I had the words to express how sad I am. Kel please know that we all love you, you were so Blessed to have Joel in your life and he will now be watching over you. God Bless all of you!

Linda Lewis

March 19, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Carrie and Matt. Linda Lewis

Robert Novak

March 19, 2011

Kelly god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.R.I.P. Joe

March 19, 2011

Kel I am so sorry to here about joel. He was such a wonderful father and husband and poppie. My thoughts and prayers are with you hunny, If ya need anything please get intouch with me. I miss you my friend. Love ya Kellie P

ROBBIE SEYMOUR

March 19, 2011

my prayers and thoughts go out to kelly and kids sorry for your lose joel was a great guy husband father and grandfather he will be truly missed by all that new him RIP MY COUSIN till we meet again

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