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Martha Ashabranner Obituary

Martha Ashabranner, age 98, passed away on May 30, 2020 of congestive heart failure. She had been living in Washington DC for the past year at the homes of her daughters. Born in Roswell, NM on 11/19/1921, she was a true partner in her husband's overseas and writing careers, creating a warm home that welcomed people in all the countries in which they lived. Martha graduated from Oklahoma State University (OSU) with a BA in Home Economics. She met her future husband, Brent Ashabranner, as they were in line signing up for their freshman courses. A year later they were married at the age of 19. In August 2016, just a few months before Brent died, they celebrated their 76th wedding anniversary. In 1942, Brent joined the Navy to serve in World War II. He was assigned to Camp Peary in Williamsburg and Martha followed him there. She lived at Mrs. Mahone's boarding house with dozens of young wives who packed in on cots. Decades later they would retire in Williamsburg and live there for 35 years. Brent was deployed to the Pacific theater and wrote Martha every day, letters that described the days at sea, but that were also tender love letters of passion and longing for the day that they could be together. She kept the letters all her life. In 1955, Brent, Martha and their young daughters took off on an adventure that would take them all over the world, living in Ethiopia and Libya (USAID); Nigeria and India (Peace Corps); the Philippines and Indonesia (Ford Foundation). They embraced every culture they lived in. Martha became skilled at creating Indian and Middle Eastern cuisine. They travelled widely, collecting and writing about ethnographic arts. Martha was particularly interested Indonesian textiles and amassed an extraordinary collection which she donated to the OSU School of Interior Design in 2012. The exhibit "The Martha White Ashabranner Collection" is on display at the school. In 1983, they retired and moved to Williamsburg to be close to family in the DC area. Brent began a second career, writing over 30 non-fiction books on cross-cultural topics. Martha assisted him, helping research and interview people for the books. Again, they were a team in this venture. They loved Williamsburg and all its cultural opportunities. Their home was the center of family celebrations for many years and they were very close to their grandchildren Damian Fagon-Karraker (New York), Gabrielle Fagon (England), Olivia-Jené Fagon (New York), and great-grandson Neo Fagon (England). In addition to her daughters Jennifer Ashabranner (Alexandria) and Melissa Ashabranner (Washington DC), she is survived by her son-in-law Jean-Keith Fagon (Melissa) and her nephew James Thomas and great-niece Jennifer Thomas (Artesia, NM). She will be interred with Brent at Arlington National Cemetery at a time yet to be determined. Donations may be made in her name to the ACLU of which she and Brent were long-time supporters.

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Published by Virginia Gazette on Jun. 6, 2020.

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Hal Crow

May 31, 2024

Hi Martha,
I know that you are out there somewhere looking back at me and all your friends. Just know that you are missed for millions of reasons. So I send back an Internet Note of Love and rich, fond memories.
Hal

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Hal Crow

May 31, 2023

To Melissa and Jennifer,
We have so many memories together that it is impossible to select one; however, my love and friendship for Martha and all your family continues on and will not end even with my passing. Love you all. Hal

Spence Witten

July 10, 2020

It was with unique interest that I read about Martha W Ashabranner. Such a full life and she "lived at Mrs. Mahone's boarding house with dozens of young wives who packed in on cots."

I am Mrs. Mahone's grandson and The Beeches, the house built by my Great-grandfather in 1902 a mile south of the gate of Camp Peary and a mile north of The Capitol Building in Williamsburg, is still here. During the build up to WWII there was no housing to catch up with the number of military that came to the area for Camp Peary, then a new Navy Construction Battalion base; Cheatham Annex, a Navy Supply base; and The Naval Mine Depot, now the Naval Weapons Station. All new or enhanced facilities on the York River.

While I've never heard about "dozens of young wives who packed in on cots," my grandmother opened her home to these service member and wives, converting bedrooms into suites and the 10'x10' "Gas House," where canisters of gas were originally stored 100 yards away from the house, was a bunk room for three young women from Texas.

My condolences to Martha's family. I wish I could peruse the letters from Martha to her husband from those days. I lost my mother (96) on last New Years Eve. She was born in the house and her boy friend and then husband of 69 years was also a Navy man in the Pacific during that time. He was at the Naval Mine Depot and his best buddy and wife had a suite at The Beeches, that's how they met!

Spence Witten
The Beeches at Capitol Landing

Hal Crow

June 9, 2020

Dearest Martha,
You always surprise me with your impromptu decisions. Had I known that you were planning to go away I would have been there to see you off.
I know that you must be meeting fabulous new people and are charming them with your wonderful smile. Please be in touch at key points along your way so I can have stories to tell when I get together with mutual friends.
Until we are next in touch just enjoy and have a lovely time. When you see Brent be sure to give him a giant hug from me.
Love you,
Hal

Hal Crow

June 9, 2020

I can write forever about Martha (and her husband, Brent, and their loving family) as she was (nay, is) a special friend.
In 1964, I joined the Peace Corps to be a volunteer to West Bengal, India, and after a training program, our group (India VII) flew from New York to New Delhi on a Pan AM 1 flight arriving in India just about 3:00 AM as the yellow rays of Indian sunlight began to light the day. Then as we departed the airplane, at the bottom of the stairs, was a short man with a huge smile greeting us and to welcome us to India. He was Brent Ashabranner, the Peace Corps director for India, and he began to pay special attention to me. As we started to load into a bus to go into the city, Brent came over and said, 'hold back a bit, as I want you to ride with me to the hotel.'
It was as simple as that, Brent had chosen me to be his friend and I immediately chose him as my best friend. A day or so later, Brent invited me, the only volunteer, to join him and his family, Martha, and his two young daughters, Melissa and Jenny, to a picnic lunch at the Lodi Tombs in New Delhi. That was how I met Martha, and Melissa and Jenny.
From that day forward, I couldn't get rid of them, as they always included me in their lives and I rejoiced for having them as my new best friends. And our loving friendship endured and strengthened every day since, as Brent guided my career and Martha taught me how to buy antiquities at the shops in New Delhi, Manila, and Jakarta, and we found a way to get together by traveling and doing exciting things around the world.
Martha was always special. We could talk on the phone for hours, and we loved eating ethnic food wherever we could find it. Her departure is just a moment of transition in our long, loving lives and when Melissa called me to let me know that Martha had passed, we just hugged each other through the phone lines as we both felt and continue to feel that it is not life interrupted but life continuing by ethereal means.
But enough for now...Hal

Michael Bradshaw

June 7, 2020

My family lived across the road from the Ashabranners. Both Brent and Martha invited us into their home and delighted us with their artifacts collected throughout their travels; their stories and anecdotes from their amazing lives, and gifted us with signed copies of their published works. When my youngest daughter showed interest in art history, Brent and Martha offered her books to read...and she read and returned them all. We will never forget the lovely and incredible Ashabranners and the way they kindly and without hesitation, touched our lives forever.

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