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Tommy Graham Obituary
HARLINGEN, TX. -
Tommy L. Graham born August 15, 1943 in Harlingen, TX passed away peacefully at his home, 1 March 2010.
Tommy is survived by his wife of 41 years, Carole, son, Jack Graham, his wife, Cynthia of Brownsville, daughter, USAF Captain Sherry Graham, currently serving in Afghanistan, her husband, USAF Captain Blane Neufeld, stationed at Tinker AFB, OK, sister, Shirley Ann James of Harlingen, two grandchildren Taylor and Shelby; and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas and Margurite Graham.
Tommy was the proud owner of Tommy Graham's Paint and Body Shop, family owned and operated with his son, Jack, in Harlingen since 1978. He was a graduate of the 1961 class of Harlingen High School and began his career in the body shop business at Boggus Ford. He subsequently joined the Texas Army National Guard in 1965 where he served in a Recon Platoon. He loved his country and took pride in all who served. With his wife and children in tow, he was an avid hunter and fisherman where his favorite years were spent on the King Ranch as President of the Valley Hunting Club..... always in search of the ultimate B&C buck. He never missed an opportunity to laugh and share stories with his friends; and brag about his cooking, which was always suspect to his wife and kids (if your mouth wasn't on fire it wasn't ready yet).
Tommy was a husband first, a father second, and a friend always. He loved his family, his employees, and lastly he loved life...which he lived to fullest. He will be missed by all who knew him, but never forgotten.
Services will be held at Buck Ashcraft Funeral Home in Harlingen, 2 PM, Monday, 8 March 2010.
Burial will follow with full Military Honors at Mont Meta Memorial Park.
Serving as pallbearers: Forrest Jackson, Tommy Rupert, Mark Magouirk, Scott Hamby, Travis Helmricks, and Jay Dwiggins.
Honorary pallbearers include Tommy Graham's Paint and Body Shop employees.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent to Rio Grande Valley Children's Home, 3780 N. Benson, Mission, TX. 78572 or The Ronald McDonald House, 1720 Treasure Hills Blvd, Harlingen, TX 78550.
The family invites you to leave a memory or condolence at
www.buckashcraft.com.
Arrangements with Buck Ashcraft Funeral Home.
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Carrie Anna Roberts
March 9, 2010
Tommy always had a smile on his face and made you feel like you were the most important customer and friend he had. I went to Stuart Place School with Tommy and his sister, Shirley. It was an old and long friendship. He did love life and and embraced it with gusto! My deepest sympathy to his family.
March 8, 2010
Tommy was always gracious even if he didn't remember U.
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March 8, 2010
Tommy was liked by everyone who knew him & that was most people in Harlingen. He will be missed by all. Sally & Charles Manning, El Paso.
Bud Voorhes
March 8, 2010
Yes, he will be missed by all who knew him. My condolences, Bud Voorhes
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Earl Davis
March 8, 2010
Tommy, was a good friend to all who new him. Words cannot express who he was and what he represented. I will always remember and honor him always.
March 8, 2010
I didn't know him personally but being at his business I could feel the peace inside...all the workers inside were real nice...To his wife...Proverbs 12:28
John Danaher
March 8, 2010
March 8,2010,
Tommy and I went through grade school,junior high,and high school together.My prayers go out to his family.May the Lord bless and comfort the Graham family.
March 8, 2010
The world is a sadder place without Tommy in it. I have very fond memories of the time we spent together in our youth. He loved his family and always gave Carol credit for his successes in life. God rest his soul.
Gary Hennessee, Palestine, TX
Cindy & Bruce Medley
March 7, 2010
Graham family, we are sorry to hear about Tommy's passing. We will keep you in or prayer's.
LaRue/Tommy Riecks
March 7, 2010
May he rest in the Arms of our God. He will be missed by all
Charlie Mills
March 7, 2010
It was a real shock to hear of Tommy's passing. He lived life to the max. Tommy was a friend from our high school days continuing until his untimely death.
Tommy was a superb businessman. In addition to knowing his craft he kept the shop clean enough to almost eat off the floor.
He will be missed.
Jody Rowlen
March 7, 2010
Sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. He was a guy who once you met him, you couldn't forget him. I have fond memories of Tommy from high school. Jody Rowlen, class of 1961
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