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Arthella Louise "Artie" Phelps

1922 - 2008

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1922

DIED

2008

Arthella Phelps Obituary

Arthella "Artie" Louise Phelps of Camarillo departed from this earthly realm on Oct. 1, 2008.

She will be dearly missed by her husband, Newell "Ray" Phelps, her children and grandchildren, her Baha'i community, and all who knew her.

Artie was born in Harrison, Ohio, on Dec. 26, 1922, to Frederick and Fern Lust. One of six girls, she grew up in Mulberry, Ind., on her grandparents' farm.

Artie was a fine musician and met her husband, Ray, after her all-girl swing band finished their concert at the Indiana Roof Ballroom. She was lead trumpet and vocalist for Freddie Shaffer's wartime band the "Victory Sweethearts," and went by the stage name "Louise Lust." Her band was often featured on national radio broadcast, and Artie would dedicate songs on air to her then-fiance, Ray.

On Feb. 13, 1954, they eloped to Las Vegas to be married in the "Little Chapel of the West." They later moved to Santa Monica, Calif., and in 1965 moved to Camarillo.

Artie was a dedicated wife and homemaker. By conservative estimates, her family has calculated that Artie baked about 257,400 cookies, packed over 18,000 brown-bag lunches, and did over 20,000 sparkling loads of laundry in her lifetime, always with unwavering love and generosity of spirit. She was well loved by the many families she befriended and was an honorary "Mom," "Aunt" and "Grandma" to countless children.

Artie was a dedicated servant of the Baha'i Faith, and was a pillar in her local community. She travelled on Pilgrimage to the Holy Sites of the Baha'i faith in Haifa, Israel in 1986 and again in 2007. She was a longtime member of the local Baha'i governing body, the Local Spiritual Assembly. She was an inspiration and example of love, kindness, and generosity for all who knew her.

Artie lived with an admirable vitality and health. She was a devoted "golf-wife," and introduced the game to Ray, who quickly became addicted. She was an avid Los Angeles Lakers fan and loved to watch games "over-the-phone" with her friend from the band days. She and Ray loved to watch tennis and traveled to Switzerland to visit with their tennis friend and "honorary son" Steve and family. She and Ray were known for their marathon bridge games with friends and neighbors, often until early morning hours. She volunteered at Camarillo State Hospital, California Youth Authority and Adult Literacy classes. At the age of 85 she bowled her first-ever game and made a strike on her first ball. It was a common sight to see Artie running, climbing trees, playing hide-and-seek or otherwise frolicking with grandchildren, often well after all other adults had been exhausted. She never slowed down and was living comfortably in her home until the end.

She was preceded in death by her sisters, Catherine, Miriam and Evelyn.

She is survived by her husband, Newell "Ray" Phelps; son, Paul and his wife Meg and grandchildren Cole and Emily of Santa Paula; son Scott and his wife Lisa and grandchildren Aidan and Ariel of Pasadena; daughter Stacey Kimmerer and her husband Tom and grandchildren William, Gregory and Allison of Lexington, Ky.; sister, Welthea Rule of Crawfordsville, Ind.; and sister Guyneth Maines of Jacksonville, Fla.

Graveside services will be held at 1 p.m. Friday, Oct. 10, at Conejo Mountain Memorial Park, Camarillo. Following the interment, all are welcome to gather at the Phelps family home.

Friends are encouraged to visit a web site dedicated to her memory, where they can see pictures and share stories. Please go to http://arthella.phelps.muchloved.com.

Assisting the family with funeral arrangements is Conejo Mountain Funeral Home and Memorial Park, 2052 Howard Road, Camarillo; 482-1959.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ventura County Star from Oct. 7 to Oct. 10, 2008.

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Filomena Ornelas

October 8, 2008

Dear Ray,
I am praying for you, your family, & friends. I have known you since
the sixth grade because of the
Huffman family.
She's in Heaven watching over you!
Filomena Silva

lynnwin delmerico

October 8, 2008

to Ray and family..sitting here writing with tears in my eyes and thinking how much ill miss my friend (50?) years .remembering all the great times on the road and thru the years remaining friends ..she really was my idol.so honest upright thoughtful..caring for other people and I never heard complaints from her but she would put up with mine.She was truly my best friend and can never be replaced..Ray how can I ever forget riding in Johnny Mincemoyers car with no floor in the rear? were you and Artie back there or was I???Fun and laughs and so young..memories we'll never forget..Now Art is up there playing her horn with Gaberial and singing looking down keeping her family safe until we meet again. til then she will be thought of lovingly and who knows she may have an influence to get the Lakers to win this..ahhhhArtiestay as sweet as you are.All my love, your buddy, Lynn delmerico

Lance

October 7, 2008

I spoke with Artie a few weeks ago and was reminded that in all the years I've known her, she always had a smile. I'll miss it. My heart goes out to Ray, Paul, Scott, Stacy and all.

Mary O'Neil

October 7, 2008

Dear Paul: I was so saddened to hear about your Mom. I didn't meet her but a few times in my life, but she was always so lovely. Your lucky to have had such a special person. My best to your family.

Nancy King

October 7, 2008

I am so sad. She was fun, and a real kick! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Don Wells

October 7, 2008

Hi Ray

So sorry to read about Arties' passing. I know she will be greatly missed.

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