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Esther Pulido Obituary
Esther (Villalovos) Pulido passed away peacefully in the early morning hours on August 19, 2010 after being diagnosed just one month earlier with liver cancer.
Esther courageously accepted her diagnosis and placed her faith in her Lord's hands, knowing that He had prepared a place for her along with all those who preceded her arrival in Heaven.
Esther was born on February 16,1934 to Porfirio and Alejandra in Oxnard, CA. She attended Richard Haydock grammar school, Woodrow Wilson middle school, Oxnard High School for two years and Ventura High for two years, where she graduated in 1951. Throughout the years, she worked at McMahon's furniture store, the Ventura County Assessor's Office and Isensee's Floorcovering. Along the way, she made long-lasting friendships and touched many lives.
She often organized office potlucks and shared her faith in God by starting the first bible study group at the County. Esther's biggest delight and treasure was being a wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.
She was married to her husband of 56 years, Florentino "Moe" Pulido. They were blessed with three children; Yvette (Pulido) Power, Neil Pulido (and his wife, Laura); Monty Pulido (and his wife Annette) as well as seven grandchildren; Ashley Power, Michelle Pulido, Monica Pulido, Natalie Riso, Cosmo Riso, Maegan McLean, Cory Pulido and a great-granddaughter, Ava. Esther is also survived by her sister; Arlyne MacDonald and her beloved cousin, Sally Villasenor and her family.
Esther's passing leaves a void in the lives of many. "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure." This sentiment is the legacy Esther leaves to us. The memories we hold dear, will forever be treasured in our hearts and we can truly say we are better because of knowing Esther.
A memorial mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m., on Friday, August 27, 2010 at Our Lady of the Assumption Church, 3175 Telegraph Rd., Ventura, CA. In lieu of flowers, Esther's final wish is that you make a memorial contribution to your local food share banks so that the hungry may be nourished. The family would like to thank the many friends and family who called and visited and made Esther's final days as enjoyable as possible. They would also like to extend a heartfelt THANK YOU to the staff at VCMC and Buena Vista Hospice for the loving care and support they provided, especially Nurse Tina, Luz, Sharon, Alice and Reverend Sherrill. Joseph Reardon Funeral Home, 757 East Main St., Ventura, Ca, 93001. 805-643-8623
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Memories and Condolences
for Esther Pulido
Laura Olivera-Cervantez
September 4, 2010
Dear Moe and family
I am so sorry for your loss. Esther was one of my mom's (Emma Olivera) best friends. I will never forget how she called me when my mom was dying, her kind words helped me so much. She was such a good friend to my mom, she will be greatly missed.
Annette Pulido
September 2, 2010
Obviously, Esther was a special woman. I want to share the words I said at her graveside service:
"This is difficult, and yet it is so easy to talk about Esther. She was truly a wonderful person. I will miss her more than words can express. She was so wise and always provided me with sound counsel on many issues.
In the beginning, I was suspicious of her overt kindness toward me…but quickly I learned there was no reason to be wary. Hers was the friendly and loving face that greeted me as I arrived home in the early morning after losing my own mother suddenly to a heart attack 16 years ago. When Monty called her in the wee hours that morning, she quickly came over to stay with Cory and Maegan so Monty could be at the hospital with my brother and sister and me.
She wisely knew that someone’s mother can never be replaced, but…she quickly became my sounding board, my confidant and my friend. She always tried to make up for the void she knew I felt not having a mom to call on anymore. She even used to give me two birthday cards each and every year after losing my mom, one from her and Moe and another just from her…I will forever be grateful to Esther for her love and kindness.
Throughout my 20 years being in this family, I felt like I was one of Esther’s children. That was exactly what she wanted. She often told me she didn’t consider me a daughter-in-law, she considered me a daughter. I know she meant it because our relationship wasn’t always fluff…she told me when she thought I was wrong and I felt sufficiently scolded and humbled…but much more often, I felt loved and totally accepted as her daughter and her friend.
She took good care of my children, and helped to raise and mold them into who they are today. She was their number one fan no matter what the event or sport and was always delighted to see and hear from them. She spent so much time with my kids that she even became friends with their friends. Maegan and Cory’s friends have fond memories of the times they spent with her and already hold those memories close to their hearts.
She was the one who told me that at my grandmother’s memorial service, I just HAD to get up a tell everyone how special she was to me or I would forever regret not having my say…that advice still gives me strength today, to tell you all what a very special person Esther was to me.
She raised a good son to become my husband. She taught us all so much and I will forever hold a special place in my heart for the memories I hold so dear."
September 2, 2010
Mo - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rue
Dawn Maloney
August 30, 2010
Moe,
You and Esther made our transition to Ventura feel so warm and welcoming. At the time, your grandson Corey, spent a lot of time with her and she saw that Chris, our son, was about the same age as Corey, so she included him on many of their excursions around town. Chris still speaks of the many memorable events and incidents that took place with Esther!
We'll miss her love for life.
Herb Courtney
August 29, 2010
Although we didn't know Esther, Amber and I are deeply saddened by Moe's tragic loss. We hope it is some comfort that your many friends are there for you during a very sad period.
Carl Melhorn
August 28, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss...I just remember your mom as being so much fun and very vibrant as she touched so many people's lives...
Darlene Mosser
August 28, 2010
Esther was a delight to encounter at the County of Ventura Assessor's Office potlucks and office meetings. I last spoke with Esther at the memorial for Marjie Porras. At that time Esther spoke of how gratifying it was to have worked for Jack Waterman and then Jerry Sanford. May the love of God surround you in Esther's physical absence. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Chuck Ballensky
August 27, 2010
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
August 27, 2010
Moe, Sorry I'm so late in expressing my condolences. I talked to Pal this morning and he told me of Esther's passing. Our deepest sympathys. You two were together for a lot of years so you are left with a lot of good memories, I'm sure. Take care buddy and Semper Fidelis.
Charlie & Dolores Marquez
Lake Havasu City, Arizona
Jason Howery
August 27, 2010
"Moe, we are sorry to hear of Esthers passing, she was a great women, loving, kind and tender"
Love Jason,Jessica Howery
Gary Amar
August 27, 2010
Moe and family,
Your saddness and tears at this time will soon be replaced by smiles, joy and laughter as you remember the great times you and Esther enjoyed for 56 years.
Jack Cantrell
August 27, 2010
Moe, wishing you my deepest condolences.
Jeanne Romo Cartier
August 27, 2010
Pio was a very special person and will be missed. My prayers are with your entire family at this most difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
August 25, 2010
Moe, We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with
you and your family.
Hank and Ruth Gonzalez
August 25, 2010
Dear Moe and Family,
We were so sorry to learn of Esther's
passing but so happy to have seen and
talked with her this past Januray at my
Brother's gathering. She was always a
pleasure to be with and now she will be
starting a greater life and making new
people smile. Take care and God Bless.
Goozy and Lucio Ramirez
Santa Barbara,Ca.
Renee Richards
August 25, 2010
Moe ~ The world lost an amazing woman, we are so sad to hear of Esther's passing... Esther was like a mom to us all, and we deeply enjoyed her friendship. Rest in peace Esther, you will be missed... Love, The Richards Family, Jack, Renee, Janee, Lauren, and Jacki
August 25, 2010
Dear Pulido Family, I was sadden about the news of our beloved Esther passing away. She was loved by my family the Thurman"s. She touched our lives in many ways,it was always a pleasure to see and talk to her. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. Pat Thurman Francis & Bea's daughter....
John and Donna Strobel
August 25, 2010
Dear Moe; Donna and I send you our prayers in your time of need. Although we didn't know Esther well we felt a kinship with her as she was the wife of our classmate. Our deepest condolences Moe on your loss.
John and Donna Strobel
Terri Dunckel
August 25, 2010
Dearest Nino and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Nina. I just spoke to her not long ago. She was worried about Dad. She was a very loving godmother and I will miss her. We only wish we were closer so that we could attend the services and give our support. This is very difficult for my mother, as she can't leave Texas with my dad still in the hospital. My entire family is praying and thinking of you at this time.
I love you Nino, and please send my best to the rest of the family.
Terri Thurman Dunckel
John & DeeDee Olivares
August 24, 2010
Dear Moe and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to all of you. I am so sorry to hear of Esther's passing. She was a beautiful lady. Hopefully, the pain of your loss will be eased by all the wonderful memories of her. God bless you all.
Norm & Joan George
August 24, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
August 24, 2010
I have known Esther for a very long time and always found her to be a kind and loving person. She loved her family very much and loved talking about her grandchildren. She founded a monthly get together of 6 of her friends and for the past 4 years we met for lunch and had a great time eating, talking and spending time together. Our little group won't be the same without her, we are really going to miss her. Moe and family, may the Lord bless and comfort you in the days to come.
Esther, rest in peace. Long time friend, Ruth Parry
Paul Staton
August 24, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Moe and the family
Judi Basso
August 24, 2010
Moe & family,
When I think of Esther, I'm reminded of how I could call the house looking for Moe, but end up talking to Esther for the longest time, just as if we were life-long friends, when I had actually never met her in person. I thought, what a wonderfully warm, giving lady, and of how lucky Moe was to have found her.
She certainly will be welcomed at Heaven's gate and, Yes, memories of her will become "treasures" to all who had the pleasure of knowing such a beautiful person.
You'll be missed Esther...
August 24, 2010
I worked with Esther at the Assessor's Office many years ago. I remember her as a warm, friendly person who was a lot of fun.
My condolences to the family.
Mary Babcock
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