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Jeffrey Ledbetter Obituary

Jeffrey Brian Ledbetter

Ventura, CA

On the morning of Friday, November 6, Jeffrey Brian Ledbetter passed away at 7am. It was a peaceful passing. His mother and fianc? were with him as he passed, from their loving arms into Gods. Jeffrey was born May 19, 1966 in Santa Barbara, California to his loving mother, Melanie J. Smith (Keaser) and William D. Ledbetter. Jeffrey had a very active and happy childhood with his mother, grandparents and other family members, who all loved him dearly. He loved the ocean and spent much of his time at the beach and enjoyed many boating and fishing trips. He was skilled at spear fishing at a young age, his love of the ocean stayed with him his whole life. He owned two boats, one of which he built, with the help of his friends. He also loved surfing, skiing and golf. Jeffrey was a hard worker, starting at a young age with a large paper route in the San Roque neighborhood of Sana Barbara. He held many jobs including Granite and Penhall. He also helped with construction on his mother's beautiful home in Northern California. Jeffrey was a very social and outgoing person who had countless friends that loved him. He was a kind and generous man who always helped others, in any way he could. Sometimes spending his last dollar to buy a meal for a homeless person he had never met before.

He was preceded in death by his loving grandparents, Charles R. and Shirley J. Keaser of Ventura, William and Lena Ledbetter of Lompoc.

He is survived by his mother, Melanie June (Elwood Smith) of Oakland, CA and his father, William D. (Cheri) Ledbetter; his uncles, Paul A. and Mark R. Keaser; aunt, Sandy Keaser, aunt Gail Oldenkamp; fianc?, Samantha Peretiako and her 4 children; plus many cousins.

Arrangements are under the direction of Charles Carroll Funeral Home, Ventura. Celebration of life for Jeffrey will be held on Monday, November 23 at 6pm in the chapel at Charles Carroll Funeral Home. Jeffery will be laid to rest at Ivy Lawn Memorial Park, Ventura, CA.

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Published by Ventura County Star from Nov. 19 to Nov. 22, 2015.

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Pamela Barajas

November 23, 2015

OMG MELANIE. I AM IN SHOCK. I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON WHO YOU HAVE ALWAYS LOVED. I NOTIFIED GINSEY. WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU. PAMELA WILSON BARAJAS

William Ledbetter

November 23, 2015

My Son..
You captured my heart the moment you were born and I held you close to me even in my absence. I am grateful for the days we spent together before you left and I will look forward to the day we unite again. I will love you always....Dad

Don McFarland

November 23, 2015

Melanie, and family, we send our prayers forward to you. We feel as though we have missed a great deal by never knowing Jeffrey. Bink and Sue

Bill Rogers

November 23, 2015

So sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. Although I haven't seem him in a few years I'll always remember him as being a super nice guy who'd do anything for you. I'll always remember sharing laughs with him while he worked on his boats! Love & hugs, Bill R.

Linda Kinniburgh Coffland

linda coffland

November 22, 2015

so sorry for your lost, I just found out from my sister, may peace be with you

November 22, 2015

Dear Melanie, Thinking of you at this time of sorrow. May you find comfort in your wonderful memories. Love,Tesa

Carol Miller

November 22, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss Melanie. You are in my prayers for comfort at this difficult time in your life. I am happy you were with him.
Sincerely,
Carol Miller

Dave McFarland

November 22, 2015

Dear Melanie, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I had never met Jeffrey, I do feel like I knew him. Hearing the kind words from his family and friends, I now feel his loss as well. I regret not having known him. It was my loss. Someday, with the ever presence of God, a cure for cancer will be found. I know the loss as I too lost a very close family member to stage 4 cancer. Brother Phil suffered as I know Jeffrey did. I will keep you and your family in prayer each day.

Carl & Linda Keaser

November 21, 2015

Melanie, Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.....prayers your way.....hold on to the memories and cherish them forever. God loves you and so do we....your Ohio family.

Samantha Peretiako

November 21, 2015

Jeff you are the love of my life and always will be. I will hold you in my heart until we're together again and forever after.

Pete Sproul

November 21, 2015

Jeffrey,
You were a great friend, son, companion, father and more. An all around good, solid guy, who meant a lot to many people. You will be greatly missed, Bro, but everyone's life you touched is better because of it. Rest in Peace, my Friend.

James and Patty Miller

November 20, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I found a couple of pics that were taken in August 2008. We all spent a lot of time together that summer. We had a lot of fun! It was a good summer for all of us. RIP Jeff. We will miss you.

JAN COLLINS

November 20, 2015

Rest in Peace sweet Jeffrey.

Emily Gorin

November 19, 2015

Melanie, what a lovely tribute to your dear Jeff. He will be greatly missed by all who's lives he touched. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. You have my deepest condolences.

Gail Oldenkamp

November 19, 2015

Melanie and Bill my heart breaks for you. Your strength through the last months of Jeff's life is truly remarkable. I hope he is having a swell time up there with his grandparents! I love you both, I loved Jeff, and I am so sorry for your loss.

Tracey Perkins

November 19, 2015

Melanie, we are so sorry for your loss. Lots of love, Tracey and Fred

Fran McBride

November 18, 2015

Melanie, Very meaningful to read this lovely written tribute to your son. Words cannot describe the loss you must be feeling. We can only hope that knowing how special you are to all who know you will be of some comfort. Loving thoughts from me. Fran

November 16, 2015

Melanie, so very sorry for your loss of Jeff. Donita and I want you to know we are thinking of you, praying for you and wish you Gods kindness and comfort that will bring you peace. The distance is great but if we can be of any help to you and Elwood we expect you to call on us. All our love, Mike & Donita McFarland

November 16, 2015

Melanie,
So sorry for your loss. My Condolences to you and your family. Jeff was always so kind and appreciative to all of us here @ Don's office, just an all around nice guy. May you somehow find strength and comfort at this difficult time. Toni Dow (Law Offices of Donald Cocquyt)

Linda Haley

November 16, 2015

So very sorry for your loss Melanie. I will keep your family in my prayers and hopefully one day we all can look forward to a cancer free world. Their are no words I can think of that would comfort you at this time so I will pray that you find strength and guidance in the days ahead.
Linda Haley (Groveport, Ohio)

Mr.&Mrs Muro

November 10, 2015

rest in peace bro. your gunna be missed. you were a good man much love always Big Eze wife Melinda and son John

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