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Kyle Swartz Obituary
On June 13, 2008, the life of Kyle Ryann Swartz, 18 of Oxnard/Port Hueneme, was suddenly ended.
He is survived by his father Glenn Swartz; mother, Kathryn Blanchard; stepfather, David Blanchard; stepmother, Lorraine Farmer; Kyle is also survived by his brothers Kevin and Zachary; sisters, Zoey, Hillary and Brittany; his great-grandmother, Wava Spykerman; grandparents Bob and Louise Swartz, David and Terry Hartsuck; and Betty Spykerman-Chancellor will truly miss his sunny smile. All of his aunts, uncles, cousins, girlfriend and his many friends adored him.
Kyle had a great sense of humor, and always made it a point to see the best in difficult situations. He was a light in the lives of all who knew and loved him.
He will be missed forever.
Memorial services and inurnment will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, June 20, at Conejo Mountain Funeral Home and Memorial Park in Camarillo. A condolence reception will be held in the community room , immediately following the services.
Assisting with the arrangements is Conejo Mountain Funeral Home and Memorial Park, 2052 Howard Rd., Camarillo, CA 93012; 805-482-1959.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kyle Swartz
Mom
March 24, 2025
17 years, I miss you so much. So much has happened, I wish you were here.
July 12, 2010
Kyle,
It has been two years now, it's so hard to believe. We miss you so very much. I'm sure you know that! There is a place in our hearts where you belong until we meet again.....
We love you!
Janice, Anyssa & Shayne
mom
June 17, 2010
Walking on 2nd street, thinking about you. xoxo
May 24, 2010
I miss you. Mom
April 29, 2010
i put your ooem up on facebook today. i dont realy know why other than it says alot as to the person you were hear on earth. i love you so much and think of you always... well you know kyle you know.
DAD
mom
November 16, 2009
Some days are harder than other days. When I want to hear your voice I listen to the last message you left. But I miss your smile. Last Friday was horrible. I feel even more lost since your brother moved. If you see the big man, could you tell him I need a little help holding it together.
mom
October 14, 2009
I miss you so much Kyle.
DAD
July 17, 2009
kyle my son. we talk multible times a day. every day. i think of the conversations we used to have and the laughing oh my god the laughing we used to do. its been a long time since ive laughed like that. I know your watching over me and all your family son, I truely feel you whith me every day and that helps me with my faith. kevin,zachary,hillary,britaney and zoey miss you very much. the little ones are asking questions i hope im answering in the proper way. kyle i never wrote on this before . i dont think i ever knew it existed, but i talk to you everyday multible times a day so you know everything I mean LOVE YOU SON.
lorriane and glenn
July 16, 2009
not a day goes by that you are not thought about. we will love and miss you forever kyle. until we meet again forever love.
melo
July 8, 2009
your birthday was beautiful. i enjoyed being around everyone with love for you.
can i ask you a favor? can you and melissa hang out where ever you may be now. rest in peace kyle and melissa. sing together. dance together. spread more love together. you both had hearts of gold! you both had the MOST gorgeous and brightest smiles ever. you both will be forever missed always and forever.
whyy must the good die young
bubba misses you. i helped him keep his head above water after we lost you and now hes being equally as great and being here to hold my head up for melissa.
we love you guys.
Mom
June 15, 2009
One year has passed. Butterflies came and we all gathered to let them go. We sat and talked, laughed and cried. One butterfly just sat on the flowers. An angel or a person sent from Heaven, stopped to give us a plant and told us Kyle was with us and happy we were all together. As sad as the day will always be, it was a beautiful day with love all around. Kyle still has a way of bringing people together.
I miss you every day, son.
We will gather again on your birthday.
June 27 at 4:00
Swift Family
June 13, 2009
In rememberance of Kyle. The first tragic anniversary. Peace and Love to the families.
mom
May 22, 2009
Saturday June 27th would be your 20th birthday. We are going to let butterflies go at 4:00 p.m. in Camarillo. Tell your friends.
We all miss you so much. life doesn't seem as sunny without you.
Rickey
May 16, 2009
I miss you juggalo... your in all are hearts...
mom
May 5, 2009
Life is sad w/o you. I miss you
mom
March 12, 2009
life is so sad w/o you, Kyle. I miss you everyday. 9 months sad months.
mom
January 14, 2009
I miss you everyday. 7 months, I will never understand why.
Melanie Kwong
November 28, 2008
kyle. i miss you every day i see dannielle with out you dude. and i can't help but cry when i wish you were here. im so glad you moved in. ill never forget meeting you at the same time in the kitchen and drinking our fav...MILK hahaha. always a memory. you'll never be forgetten. you'll always be missed. and for sure, you'll always be carried on each and every day. rest in peace kyle
k blanchard
November 7, 2008
Kyle,
I think of you everyday. I miss your smile and big hugs.
mom
MOM
October 4, 2008
I miss you every day. I wake up and get out of bed, life just goes on. I think of you every moment of every day. I will always love you.
Shirley Sust
June 24, 2008
Much love to you the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss.
Farrah Anderson
June 20, 2008
Kyle and Kevin used to attend my aunt's daycare and I would baby-sit when they came on weekends. Kathy, Glen, Kevin, and family I am so sorry about this tragedy and my deepest sympathies are with you. I am so sorry.
Pat & Barb Aquino
June 20, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kashia and Steve
June 20, 2008
Kathy, Kevin and family:
There are no adequate words to express the depth of our sympathies. Our heartfelt condolences to each of you.
Love outlasts all.
~Kashia and Steve
Veronica Robinson
June 20, 2008
Kathy and family,
God bless you and keep you in His comfort. All you can do is cherish the years you had with him, and keep his memory before you. My heart just aches for you. I remember you, Kathy, when you were a pretty teenager, and later, when your mom showed me the picture of you and your husband and Kyle, sitting your lap. All my thoughts and prayers are with you
Veronica (from Foresthill)
Norris Chesser
June 20, 2008
Kathy
We were so sorry to hear about Kyle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Norris, Lacey, Sam and Jon-Lise
Charmaine Thompson
June 19, 2008
My family and I are so sad to hear about your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today, tomorrow and forever.
Debbie Sullivan
June 19, 2008
As you danced in the light with Joy, Love lifted you. As you brushed against this world so Gently , you lifted us.
No words can help , only time. My thoughts and prayers are with the family,and loved ones. Debbie Sullivan - Dannielle's mom
Amy Acosta-Aguilar
June 19, 2008
Kathy and family,
My love and prayers are with you my friend.
I love you,
Mrs. Amy Acosta Aguilar
Wes Woodring
June 19, 2008
I really don't know what to say, I feel for you guys and if theres anything I can do ever don't hesitate. You are all in my thoughts.
Elizabeth Wilder
June 19, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Danika Reeves
June 18, 2008
Dear, Glenn..im soo sorry! kyle was soo awesome..he was funny and a great person..i like grew up with him and the rest of your family..i know ill never forget him...im so sorry!...i love him...and i love all of you guys...and ill miss him too...rest in peace kyle!
love,
danika
Joanne Kim
June 18, 2008
Aloha Kathy & Family,
My heart is so very sad for your family right now. I only met Kyle during my brief visit to Oxnard in February, he was so easy going & friendly to me. I know that you loved him so much! I hope you will be able to fill your mind with all the wonderful memories of your son during this time. Don't lose hope!
You & your family are all in my thoughts & prayers right now.
God bless!
Diana Hatcher
June 18, 2008
To the family: I feel your pain as I just lost my 18 year old daughter in April to a tragic car accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the tremendously hard time. I don't know you family, but please take comfort in knowing that I can relate to your situation. The pain will never go away which is what happens when we lose a child, but I can tell you that you learn to deal with your emotions. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Let the memories of your dear Kyle comfort you. You know that your son was a wonderful young man.
kim segovia
June 18, 2008
Kathy, David, Glenn and family,
I just found out about Kyle today and i am so shocked and so so very sorry.. My heart goes out to you and all of the family....I cant even imagine the heartache and pain....
Its been a long time but my thought and prayers are always with you.
luv & friends,
Kim Segovia (Chavira, Clifford)
Hilllary Blanchard
June 18, 2008
Everybody that had the opportunity to know Kyle was very lucky. I was especially lucky to have him as my brother. Kyle was kind, polite, funny and best of all he laughed at all of my lame jokes. He will never be forgotten and I look forward to seeing him again one day.
James, Connie and Anna Spykerman
June 17, 2008
Kathy, we are so,so sorry for your loss. We can not even begin to imagine the emptiness you must feel. Please know we are here for you if you need us.
Danielle Holt
June 17, 2008
I only met him once, briefly, at my cousin Bubba's house, where he was staying. I knew right away what a special guy he was. I wish I had gotten the chance to know him more. He will be missed greatly.
Betty Spykerman-Chancellor
June 17, 2008
He was a joy in my life, and precious to me from the instant I saw his tiny face and held him in my arms. Even when he grew to tower over me, I always saw that tiny baby...I see someone similar when I look at his mother..especially today. You know I love you, and ALWAYS will. XXOO Grandma B.
Vern and Dixie Cargill
June 17, 2008
Dear Kathy, David, Kevin, Brittany and Hillary,
Words cannot express the sadness we felt when we learned of Kyle's death. Since we have not seen Kyle in some time he remains in our minds a ten or eleven-year-old boy with a sweet smile and gracious manners. We feel your hurt and your loss.
To the Swartz family, we also offer our condolences.
You all remain in our prayers at this time.
John & Gina Howard
June 17, 2008
Dear Kathy, David and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your son, Kyle. Having a teenager ourselves, we can only imagine the pain you both are going through at this time. God Bless your family, and we pray you can somehow find a way to deal with this tragic loss.
Sincerely,
John & Gina Howard
Gina Pisciotta
June 17, 2008
Dear Glen, Kathy, David, And Siblings. My prayers and thoughts are with you. If theres anything I can do to help, please let me know. I love you guys!! Gina
Brian and Carol(Swift) Hansen
June 17, 2008
Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We're saddened to hear of your loss.
Kathy Brummel
June 17, 2008
Kathy,also Grandma Betty Sue and all the family. The Hirst family sends you a big hug to let you know that you are in our prayers thru this difficult time. There are no words to say that can ease the grief. God Bless you always. Love, Kathy
Linda Reynolds
June 17, 2008
Its so very difficult for me to send this condolence thru the tears runing down my face. I'm so very sorry Kathy for the loss of your son. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Take one day at a time and if you need anything please contact us. We love you........
Linda Soto
June 17, 2008
Dear Glenn and Family
Sorry for the loss of your son Kyle. May god bless you and your family through this tragic time. I believe Kyle will be your Guardian Angel.
Kathryn Vrana
June 17, 2008
Glenn, Kathy, Lorraine, and all of Kyle's family, I remember Kyle when I lived on 2nd Street, watching Natalie, (my daughter) and her best friend at that time, Zachary, and sometimes playing with them, even though they were 4 years old and sometimes acted up, he played catch with them and XBOX sometimes. We just want to express our condolences to your family, and tell you how very sorry we are for your loss.
Kathy Vrana
and Natalie and Raul
Jena Fullerton
June 17, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers! May the memory of Kyle comfort you and the sympathy of friends and family sustain you in this time of sorrow!
Love,
Cassie DeBusschere
June 17, 2008
Dear Kathy & Family
Please know my heart, thoughts & prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May you find comfort in Kyles memory and peace in the days ahead.
Love & Sympathy,
Cassie DeBusschere
Jackie Battin
June 17, 2008
Dear Glen & family,
I am SO sorry to hear about your son, Kyle. My heart goes out to you & your family. You are all in my thoughts & prayers during this difficult time.
Michele, Vincent and Michael Hamilton
June 17, 2008
I came to know Kyle most recently through my sons, but I was instantly impressed with his sincere kindness and respect. Always a gentleman in my home and well liked by everyone. My heart reaches out to you for such a precious loss. I hold you all in my prayers.
Laurinda
June 17, 2008
Kathy and family,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Kyle's death. Please know you are in our prayers.
Laurinda & Family
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
The Chesser Family
June 17, 2008
Kathy, Glen, & David
We are so sorry to here about Kyle. Only time will help but he is in good hands.
bryant chesser
June 17, 2008
dear glen an kathy, im sry 2 hear about ur lose our thoughts and prayers are with you bryant and sheri chesser
Lesa Grovas
June 17, 2008
Though we are not able to be there in person,...please know you/your family are in our thoughts and prayers. With much love.
JoJo and Kim Allen
June 17, 2008
Kyle was a delight to have in our home. He was respect, polite, funny, caring, and very intelligent. We only knew him a short time but grew to love him as one of our own kids. We all miss him dearly but we know his is in a greater place. Kyle will always be in our hearts. Our prayers are with his family and friends.
Anyssa & Shayne Chesser
June 17, 2008
Dear Glenn and Kathy and Family of Kyle, we're sorry for your loss. Kyle was a great friend of ours, he was practically our brother as well as Kevin. We all loved him so much. The memories that we have of Kyle growing up are wonderful. He was an awesome person and will never be forgotten. Our heart and prayers are with you all. We love you.
Rest In Peace Kyle.
Stacy Ortiz
June 17, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. Kyle will be missed. Bubba, Raul, Stacy, Eric, and Julian Ortiz. You are in our prayers.
Mary & Jerry Jeffreys
June 17, 2008
It has been many years since Jerry and I have seen your beautiful boys, but I remember them well. My heart is broken over your loss. You and your famalies are in our thoughts during this most difficult time.
Venus Stowe
June 17, 2008
Kyle will be missed. I remember him hanging out on my couch visiting with my son and his friends when I got home from work a few times. He was kind and respectful, and will be very missed by so many! My heart goes out to the family and I hope that you will find some comfort and peace in these difficult days. We'll miss you Kyle!
Sandra Vars
June 17, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with both families as you are experiencing this tragic loss in your lives. A ray of sunshine was dimmed as a new star was born. God bless and keep you all. God's love and your memories will bring you comforting peace - in time.
Aunt Barbara Spelzini
June 17, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Open Arms Daycare
June 17, 2008
Dear Glen, Cathy, Kevin, Zachery, Hillary, Brittany, Zoey, Grandparents and everyone who loves Kyle,
Were stunned and devastated over the loss of your wonderful son. You see he's not entirely yours, we feel he's ours also, we watched him for five or six years, five days a week at our daycare, Open Arms. His pictures grace the walls in our back room. On his first day Kyle brought the movie "Robin Hood Men in Tights" which Kyle completely loved and we watched repeatedly for months. I'd take Kyle with the other kids to Point Magu, the sand dune, the crab beach all the local parks and just let them loose. Kyle was a great kid at our daycare, he got along fine with the other kids, always had a smile, made plenty of friends and I personally don't ever remember him getting in trouble. While we haven't had much contact during the last seven or eight years, I'd would see Kyle walking home at times and he'd always wave or have a smile for me. Then about 6 weeks ago I was hanging daycare fliers at Oxnard college, I asked this tall blonde haired young man if that was a geology class he was standing in front of. He said "Bernie, it's me Kyle," I didn't even recognize him at first. He looked as if he'd grown six inches, his hair was much longer, very blonde like when he was younger and he had a white bead or shell necklace on and was nicely dressed for class. Kyle was transformed into a very handsome young man which is basically what I told him and we had a nice conversation for the first time in years. Mostly small talk but Kyle was genuine and had allot of questions. After about five minutes he had to go back to class and Kyle said goodbye to me. I feel so lucky to have had this chance meeting with Kyle, we shared feelings, laughed and enjoyed some good memories together. We all love and miss you Kyle! Glen, Cathy and Kevin we are hear for absolutely anything you might need, please impose.
*Open Arms Daycare*
"After attaining it's new condition the soul is grateful, for it has been released from the bondage of the limited to enjoy the liberties of the unlimited. It has been freed from a world of sorrow, grief and trials to live in a world of unending bliss and joy. The phenomenal and physical have been abandoned in order that it may attain the opportunities of the ideal and spiritual. Therefore, the souls of those who has passed away from earth and completed their span of mortal pilgrimage...have hastened to a world superior to this. They have soared away from these conditions of darkness and dim vision into the realm of light. These our the only considerations which can comfort and console those whom they leave behind". Bahia Faith: Abdul Baha
Cindy Swift/Gaertner
June 17, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jen Jannone
June 17, 2008
My thoughts are with the Swartz/Blanchard family at this time.
I never got the pleasure of meeting him but If he's anything at all like his mother, then this world was a better place with him here. God Bless this child and may he rest in peace..
Lori Nester (Crawford)
June 17, 2008
Glenn I'm so sorry for your loss...
E Ho'o Maha Meka Maluhia Kyle..
(Rest in Peace Kyle)..
jackie singler
June 17, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in are hearts.Thank you for your kind words.
Andrew Singler's mom and dad
Tom & Kellie Swift
June 17, 2008
Glenn,
We are heartbroken during this tragedy. We love you.
Swift Family
Janice Evans
June 17, 2008
No words can even begin to express the sadness in my heart. I remember the day Kyle was born, and now the day he was taken from all those who loved him so very much. Those days and years in between are filled with so many wonderful memories of a beautiful blue-eyed baby, a tossle haired young boy, and a wonderful young man. Kyle will be missed so very much. Kathy, Glenn, and Kevin, I will keep you in my prayers along with the rest of your families. I love you all! I'm so very sorry.
Kyle's Mom
June 17, 2008
Thank you to everyone that has been here for his family. He was a beautiful son, a great brother and friend. Life is darker now without his smile and sunshine. I will miss my boy. My little Bobby Hill.
BOB AND LOUISE SWARTZ
June 17, 2008
OUR DARLING KYLE,I KNOW THAT BY NOW YOU ARE DRAPED IN YOUR GRANDMOTHER PAULINE'S ARMS. SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ALL OF US. WE WILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY. WITH MUCH LOVE, GRANDMA AND GRANDPA SWARTZ
Capri Colella
June 16, 2008
Kyle was a really cool kid from what I know. I wasn't really close to him but we knew the same crowd for awhile. He WILL be missed and I'm sorry for your loss.
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