Macil Blessing, of Thousand Oaks, who passed away on Wednesday, Nov. 24, was indeed a blessing to her family and all who knew her. Wife to Robert (Bob) Blessing and mother to Paige Moser and Darcee Rogers, Macil was the radiant warmth at the core of her family. At 75, she still had a smile that lit up the room and a deep-throated laugh that was infectious. Despite declining from illness in her last year, she maintained a delightful sense of humor that reflected her positive outlook on life.
Macil Blessing was born July 6, 1935, attended Hamilton High School in West Los Angeles, and went on to give birth to her two daughters from a marriage that ended in divorce. Back on her own, Macil became a saleswoman in the electronics industry, eventually opening her own company, ICX in Westlake Village, CA, marketing computer components.
Macil lived in Thousand Oaks for more than 50 years, where she built a large circle of loyal friends, eventually marrying Bob Blessing in 1988. The two of them traveled around the world on cruises and with their recreational vehicle. According to her husband, Macil's favorite locations were Yellowstone National Park Maui, Hawaii, and Italy. But they also enjoyed RV trips to Branson, MO; Colorado and Kentucky, where Macil's father was born. The Blessings cruised Alaska, Mexico and the Caribbean. Macil was an animal lover who had many pets through the years, a passion she passed on to her daughters who collectively have four dogs and four cats.
A memorial service will be held for Macil Blessing at Conejo Valley Mountain Memorial Park Mortuary, 2056 Howard Rd. Camarillo, CA 93010 on Monday, December 6 at 11 a.m..
Memorial donations may be made to: City of Hope, 1055 Wilshire Blvd. #1200 Los Angeles, CA 90017, (866) 683-HOPE (4673) or go to www.cityofhope.org.
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Karen Winborne
December 5, 2010
I met Macil when I was about 12, but to me she was always "Paige and Darcee's mom." Not only was she the prettiest mom I knew, she had a gentle nature and was very thoughtful, kind, and always welcoming. Every time I eat fudge and drink iced tea (a favorite pairing), I will fondly remember many years ago sitting at their family kitchen table and Paige's mom serving us her delicious creamy fudge and iced tea ... and I will smile. My condolences to all who love and miss her.
December 1, 2010
Our sincere condolences and love to Bob and family.
Shirley & Frank Wilkie
Susie Johnson
November 30, 2010
I remember working with Macil at Tymshare. She was so pretty with a great personality. My sympathy to the family. You will be in my prayers. Macil was a treasure. God Bless,
Susie Johnson
Shirley Cool
November 30, 2010
Macil was a very dear friend of mine when I needed one most! I will remember her kindness always!
Richard Camacho
November 30, 2010
It was my pleasure to work with Macil both at Tymshare and ICX. We had a great time working together, I will miss Macil very much.
Macil at Valcomp - 1973
Roy Sapp
November 30, 2010
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Steve Baker
November 30, 2010
My sincerest condolences Bob. My kids to this day still fondly recall how they loved "trick or treating" at the Blessing house.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do to be of help now or in the future.
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