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Robert P. Jennings

1968 - 2011

BORN

1968

DIED

2011

FUNERAL HOME

Charles Carroll Funeral Home

15 Teloma Drive

Ventura, California

Robert Jennings Obituary

Robert Jennings was born Dec. 1, 1968, in Oxnard; he passed away Wednesday, June 29, 2011, in Ventura. He was 42.

Robert lived in Ventura County for most of his life with the exception of living in Brazil, his mother's birthplace, for several years as a child. He was an attorney having practiced since 2002 after passing the California State BAR on his first attempt. His hobbies and favorite activities included music, playing guitar, creative writing, camping, fishing and skiing. More than anything else Robert cherished time spent with his daughter, Madison, including going to the park, playing games and playing Barbies.

Robert is survived by his mother, Maria Tavares; father, Donald Jennings; daughter, Madison Marie Jennings; Madison's mother, Jennifer Hicks; and his special friend, Joan Collier; all residing in Ventura County. Robert was a caring and compassionate man loved by many. He will be greatly missed.

A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m., Friday,. July 8, in the Chapel at Charles Carroll Funeral Home, 15 Teloma Dr., Ventura, CA 93003. Arrangements were entrusted to the care of Charles Carroll Funeral Home. Please visit our website at www.charlescarrollfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Ventura County Star from Jul. 6 to Jul. 9, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Jennings

55 Entries

Will McEwen

August 16, 2011

Having accidentally stumbled across Bob's obituary, the first feeling I have is of disbelief. Re-reading it several times may have helped me understand that he has passed away, but I am left with the sadness of knowing that I will never see Bob again.

Bob and I first met in Jr. High School and shared home room together. As everyone knows, people gravitated to him and his fun personality. As others have mentioned, his laugh was his own. Somehow I was lucky enough to strike up a close friendship with Bob. I can still remember the hours spent on the phone watching Angel or Lakers games together. He was my first close friend outside of my neighborhood.

Fortunately for me, Bob and I also attended High School together. Bob was a talented athlete and joined the football team our freshman year. I was not, but the following year, I followed suit. I will never regret that decision. New friendships were formed and existing ones strengthened. Bob was a vital part of that team in which I was, again, lucky to be a part of. Fond memories.

Events occurred, things happened and a great time had passed since I had last seen or spoke with Bob. I can't fill in the blanks, but I hope that a majority of those times were happy ones for Bob.

Jennifer, I have been away so long and out of touch, I didn't realize you two had a daughter together. I was so happy to read that. And from what I have read, but to no surprise, Bob was a proud and loving father. I know Madison's mother is just as proud and loving. Please give my love to your family.

Lastly, Bob, I'm sorry that we will never have the opportunity to catch up and reminisce. I will always consider you to have been one of my closest friends and I've already begun missing you.
Sincerely and With Love,
Will

Shirley Hansen

August 2, 2011

I was deeply saddened to learn very late of Robert's passing. He was my professional neighbor for several years before he moved "uptown" to the Tower district.

Mine is a counseling practice and evening hours are sometimes late. Occasionally a call would ring through as I closed out the day. The greeting was always the same: "Good evening, Ms. Hansen; why is the light on in your office?"

Five minutes later I would hang up laughing at the latest Robert story with his unique giggle, scratching my head at a philosophical question, or having agreed to take a quick look at his newest piece of creative writing. (He knew I was a former English teacher). "Good night, Ms. Hansen; you know my brain never sleeps" was always the sign-off.

Robert sometimes made counseling referrals. They were never for the purpose of impressing the court. "He/she needs to talk to someone like you, Shirley." I came to know Robert well enough to understand that his intuition about the need for therapy came from a very personal place.

His keen wit, intelligence, charisma, sense of humor, compassion and standard of perfection cut both ways. The qualities that made him a great attorney and a fiercely loyal, generous friend made it difficult to accept himself as an imperfect person in an imperfect world.

I saw Robert in the 'neighborhood' frequently the year that Jennifer carried Madison and during the first year of "Marvelous Madi's" life. A fond memory recalls the business suited
gentle giant lope into my office with a gorgeous nine month old in a PINK, very girly outfit. "Isn't she amazing?" I smiled when I read that he played Barbies with Madi. I can SO see that.

Jennifer, through the hard times ahead, I know that you will help Madison hold on tight to her love affair with her Dad. It is real, and their time together will always help define her.

Robert, may your spirit rest; may the important questions be answered and the others be gone; may your loved ones, including your Mom take comfort in the fact that you were YOU. You struggled, laughed and loved much.

You enriched my life as a colleague. You challenged my beliefs, professionally and spiritually, in a good way. "But why?" was always a legitimate question when it came from you. I will miss our talks, and, of course, will always wonder if I missed a conversation that could have made a difference. You will be missed by many, and you DID make a difference.

Eva Prince Weiss

July 29, 2011

Robert, I was just hardbroken to hear that you had passed. You were so full of compassion & integrity.

It was great attending class during law school with you three times each week for three years. It was even better watching you in your own law practice, while I worked as an associate attorney. I was so proud of you!

Madison, always know that your Dad loved you greatly! He was eager to share how perfect you were.

I miss you my friend and colleague!

Eva Prince Weiss

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Brian

July 29, 2011

I met Rob back in 2003 and unfortunately last spoke to him in 2005. I'm very saddened tohave heard about his passing away today.

Thanks for all of the great advice Rob. Sorry we never got to meet up for a pint in Ireland. I love how you always sounded so excited about Ireland.

Such a great man, I'm glad I crossed his path. My heart goes out to his family, too young to be taken away.

An Irish Blessing:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Ana Ortiz

July 18, 2011

I worked for Robert in 2002-2003 and again in 2006. He was a very kind to me and helped me out through difficult times. I can't believe he is gone. Last time we wrote to each other he shared pictures of Madison, he was "over the moon" with excitement the day he was born-loved her dearly. We'll miss you Robert.

AnnMarie McCarthy

July 14, 2011

My thoughts and prayers for your family, especially your daughter. Although you and I had our differences at first, I'm glad we worked passed them. I will always remember how your face would light up when I asked you about your daughter and how fast you would show me the lastest picture you had of her on your phone. You will be missed...

Bob's Sr. varsity football picture

Rob Wilson

July 10, 2011

I wanted to share this picture I have of Bob when we played HS football together.Great times!We miss you bro!

Marie Nelsen

July 10, 2011

Sad to hear the news of his passing. I hope you are at peace Bob. I will remember your great smile and fun spirit.

Christopher Coons

July 9, 2011

I met Robert via a referral from a mutual friend in Sept. of 08. We immediatelty hit it off and soon began to share our personal lives

Jeff Hays

July 8, 2011

Lost touch with Robert after High School and remember so much from Elementary school on up through High School. We were great friends in elementary and I remember us getting in trouble on the bus and I also remember he had this cool brazilian soccer jacket that no one had ever seen back then. I will miss him and sorry I had not touched base in the last 20 years.

July 8, 2011

I met Robert in the office floor that we shared about 2 years ago as co-tenants. As soon as I met him, it was his sense of humor and easy ability to speak with that made me realize what an amazing, kind, loving, and giving person he was. He was very passionate, kind, and loved his daughter Madison very much.
Both of my daughters are very active in dance, and we would exchange stories of what it is like to be the father of daughters - which were always entertaining. There are countless things that I will miss about Robert, but what I will miss most is the spontaneous conversations, usually both of us making fun of one another, about something ridiculous and pointless. He would always pass my open office door and say something funny that would always make me laugh. I always tried to do the same to him.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family on this very sad loss of a wonderful and kind person.
With sincerest regrets,
Brighton Bacchus

DeJon R. Lewis, Esq.

July 8, 2011

Robert, my friend, I will always cherish our evenings at the Ventura College of Law in the late 90s. Together with Paul, Joan, Eva, Angel and Tina, we each pushed eachother to reach for our dreams of first passing the California State Bar and to later become Attorney's in this great State. Later, once you passed the BAR, you immediately opened your office. I jumped at the chance to assist you with your first cases although I had yet to pass. But I did so happily as a friend should. I will always miss those days with you fishing and talking about women, the future, our dreams and yes our problems. I'm gonna miss seeing you my friend in court. It was always good to see a fellow classmate appearing in front of the very judges who instructed us all back at the law school. Now you walk with God. Look for me when I too come home to our Father's house. I look forward to seeing you again in the hereafter my buddy. Rest in Peace

Joe Kienle

July 8, 2011

I knew Bob while attending Buena High School and a for a few years after graduation. Bob and I played on the football team and it was a pleasure to have Bob as a teammate and as a friend. I remember Bob as being a very competitive person and a good athlete. Bob was a quick study in that he could pick up new hobbies and sports very quickly and become quite good at which ever hobby/sport he chose. After the game Bob was everybody’s buddy...well if he lost it would take a little longer, but he always a great person to be around.

Bob was the master greeter. When he saw you he always made it a point to give a special greeting. He either had nicknames for people or he would enunciate your name in such a way that was truly unique. His greetings always put smiles on people’s faces and his outgoing personality was contagious.

I also remember Bob as also being vey interested in people and trying to figure what made them tick or learn about their background. He was very inquisitive and was not afraid to ask the questions which people tended to shy away from.

I am sincerely saddened with Bob’s passing and Bob will be missed dearly. My heart goes out to Bob’s mother, whom Bob cherished and family and friends. God bless

Julie Hupp

July 8, 2011

I met Robert when he interviewed for his first legal job. He came into the office very nervous and asking his million questions as he always did. I remember telling him just be yourself and it will be fine. He got the job and I had the privilege to work with him for about four years. Robert was one stubborn man, and argue tooth and nail his point, but that was Robert. And yo know him was to love him. He had the biggest heart especially when it came to his mother, his daughter, and Joan. I remember running into him shortly after his beautiful daughter was born, he was such a proud papa. He loved to show me his most recent photo of her, and his eyes danced with pure joy whenever he talked about her. I will miss hearing him say "Jules" in his loud voice, no matter if I was across a parking lot or within 10 feet of him. My thoughts and prayers go out to Robert's family and to everyone who knew him, he was a special person, and will be missed. Rest in peace, friend.

ALEXIS ORTIZ

July 8, 2011

My condolences go out to his family. His is missed.

Ken "Diego" Rose

July 8, 2011

Bob, I’m going to miss you buddy. The memories from our year in Spain (almost 20 years ago) are as vivid as if they happened yesterday. It’s amazing that one single year can have such a profound impact, but I can honestly say that I owe a great deal of where I am today on that year. We had so many great times and memories together…definitely too many to list, but here are some of the highlights: Residencia Chaminade, Mini’s in Moncloa, taking the Circular, working out with Coqui at the gym, Aerosmith/Counting Crows/Mr. Big concerts, Spring Break in Benidorm, Trips to San Sebastian, Sevilla, Cadiz, Granada, Extremedura, Las Fallas. Then there was our month trekking around Europe (France, Germany, Italy, Czechia, UK, Holland…) so awesome! I will cherish these memories always.

Bob was a fun, outgoing and caring person. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, friends and his daughter.

Rest in peace, Bob, you will not be forgotten.

Mark Grcevich

July 7, 2011

Bob was a great friend. We grew up together and I am saddened by the fact I will no longer be able to run into him at the govt center. When I worked for Bob & life or the CJS got him down he said "Mark get the chess set out" sometimes the game lasted till it was time to go home. I feel a great loss. Every time I saw him lately Madison was the topic of our conversation. I miss U Bob...

Daren and Jennifer Smith

July 7, 2011

I was very shocked when I got a message from a long time friend of mine that Bob had passed. I met Bob in my Freshman year in High School and had the pleasure of being his friend through Buena High and on to CSU, Chico. Yes, we had a close "Family" nich of friends. I can honestly say that any high school or college memory is not without Bob.

It has been some time since Bob and I have spoke and I consider it to be a shame. I will miss his cackle laugh and his ear to ear grin. I wish the best for his family, his daughter and his Mom. God Speed Robert Jennings!!!

Love--Daren and Jennifer Smith

Michelle Deeks

July 7, 2011

My heart goes out to all his loved ones.

Valerie

July 7, 2011

Jennifer my heart goes out to you. Robert's love of his life was Madison,he adored her and would always say he was so lucky because she had the world's greatest mother. He would show pictures of the many trips you three would take together to Disneyland and said it was always perfect and he wished time would just stand still during those times. We all know how much you loved him, let your faith help you during this time.

Sharon Mora Espinoza

July 7, 2011

I was so saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I met Bob the end of our Junior year in High School. I'm so glad I did because that summer and Senior year just wouldn't have been the same. So many great memories with great friends dances, parties, football games and bonfires. I was fortunate to be able to work at two jobs with him Korb's and GNS. Although I have to say GNS was the most memorable as Rob and Charlotte said lots of great memories and laughs after hours was the best! He was caring, funny and could always put a smile on your face when you were down. He loved music I'll never forget seeing LL Cool J at Ventura College with all our friends and as Stacy said he loved the "ladies". I ran into him a few years back he was picking up groceries for his Mom Maria whom he loved so much. He couldn't believe I had five girls as we shared pictures. He was so proud and happy to show pictures of his daughter. He was beaming with happiness cause he had just spent time with his two favorite girls his Mom and Daughter.

My deepest sympathies to all of his loved ones.

Rest in peace Bob Jennings

Al Vargas

July 7, 2011

I have the same image of Robert from every encounter with him at the courthouse. -He always had a warm smile, a firm handshake at the ready and was always eager to explain, in the most animated of ways, why a client had been wronged. He was a truly passionate about his work and life. My sincerest condolences to Madison and family.

Donny Burrus

July 7, 2011

Rest in peace my good friend. I will always remember the good times and friendship we had.You will be missed by many

Carolyn Fenton

July 7, 2011

My sincere and heartfelt sympathy to the family and friends of Robert. He was just the nicest guy...I will always cherish my memories of him.

sigourney randall

July 7, 2011

He was a funny guy & great attorney.. you'll truly be missed robert!!!

Tiffany Froedge

July 7, 2011

I met Robert in law school. Years passed before we ran into each other again...him as the defense attorney and me as the judicial assistant. He always had a smile and a warm hello like no time had passed.
Court won't be the same without him popping in every few days with his list of cases, smile of hello and updates on his daughter Madison. He was so excited to speak of her. His face would light up. I am very sad he won't be here to watch her grow.
Rest in peace my friend.

Jack Herman

July 7, 2011

We were classmates together in law school and had good times during our studies and away from school. Bob was the most outgoing classmate guy and stood up for any position he decided to was the right one to take. All of us had a great deal of respect for Bob’s honesty, tenacity and dedication to his friends. We all hung out together and Bob is the guy who taught many of us how to lighten up during the stressful times of class years. Bob, all of your classmates will miss you and the “Back-Row-Boys” give you a toast for having known, respected and enjoyed off times together.
Peace brother!

Judi Pirkle

July 6, 2011

I met Robert while we were in law school. He was a year ahead of us, but I was in the class with his beloved Joan. I met Robert through Joan. What struck me most about Robert was his intelligence and his sense of humor. I mean who names their feral six claws on every paw cat "Dirty Bob"! And, who has a female cat who loves to wear her tiara for her daddy! What a hoot he was. He will be missed. I am so blessed to have known him. I am so pleased that he had Joan in his life. She truly was his rock and was ALWAYS there for him.

May you rest in peace, my friend. Thank you for being in my life.

My deepest sympathies to your family and, especially, to Joanie.

Ashley Ponce

July 6, 2011

I am shocked at the news of Robert's passing. Through a very difficult time Robert was not just my lawyer, he became my friend and some one I consider very special to have came in to my life. My thoughts and prayer to Robert's family...especially his daughter. Forever in my heart!!!

Angela Curtis

July 6, 2011

Jennifer, I didn't know you but I know that Robert whipped out his phone every single time I ran into him so he could show me the latest pictures of Madison. His face lit up & he would giggle his funny giggle. He'd say, "Isn't she the most beautiful you've ever seen? She does have my genes & all!" He was so in love with his/your daughter. He said that she gave his life meaning, that he wishes he would've had her sooner. Robert always wanted to be a dad was elated to be able to feel that powerful love for his child that compares to none other. She was his light. She was his pride & his heart. I hope that she is able to read this one day and that someone downloads the thousands of photos that he has of her on his phone for her to keep. God be with you on your journey raising her and God be with her through life, as well. She will always have her own guardian angel now.

Oscar Gonzalez

July 6, 2011

I first met Robert as adversary counsel in a contentious matter, I noted that he was passionate about his advocacy. Years later, I got to know him well, I found him to be incredibly honest and vulnerable to life's foibles. He would often come to my office, unannounced, to think aloud about life. I took a great liking to him and enjoyed our discussions. His death saddens me, my condolences to his family. He spoke often of his daugther, Robert's face would light up as he spoke about her. I hope she will always know how much her father loved her.

Carmen Schornack

July 6, 2011

I met Robert in 1998 and remain good friends ever since.Robert enjoyed sharing so many stories about his daughter, Madison every since she came into the world.
There is people that we meet in our lives but only a very few will make a lasting impression.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Robert’s family.

Rob Wilson

July 6, 2011

I first met Robert “Bob” Jennings in 1981. He was part of a group of neighborhood kids that I played with. We would all get together and play football, baseball, basketball and anything else for fun. We went on to play football together at Buena High School and work at Golf n Stuff together as well. I have so many great childhood and high school memories of Bob that I will always cherish.
As we grew up I didn’t see him for many years but happened to connect with him again while serving on Jury Duty. We reminisced about the past and Bob was his usual happy go lucky self which was comforting to see. I will always remember Bob as a friend and teammate. He was a caring and helpful person to everyone he met. He was genuinely interested in helping people which is reflected in his chosen profession. He was very smart and had a great sense of humor with an infectious laugh.
I am saddened to hear of his passing and I wish all his family and friends my deepest condolences. Rest in peace my friend. We will all miss you.

rick casas

July 6, 2011

bro im going to miss you. i wish we could have talked. im heartbroken over this. rest in peace and say hello to mine and debbies dad.

Tina Coates

July 6, 2011

To write we lost a wonderful friend hardly seems adequate. But a light has been extinguished. However Robert"s radiance remains deep in my soul. I cannot count the times Robert and I went for beers after class - to complain, to unwind, to laugh. "How are you doing today Ms. Coates?" accompanied by that smile was his standard mo. He was so proud of his mom and the smell of her cooking wafted through the break room many an evening. I will miss his bear hugs, his smile, his laugh, but take solace in having him in my life, being able to call him friend.

Stacy Privett-Pederson

July 6, 2011

Chrisana Banana nailed her comments perfectly, I will simply try and add to it...I met Bob in High School, and we were part of SUCH a tight knit group of best friends, that even people at school called us "The Family" - and we were. In each others lives each second of every day. I don't have many teenage memories without Bob in them. He had a booming laugh and his face and cheeks crinkled all the way to his nose. Bob loved his mother. Whatever grand adventure we were on or party we were off to - Bob made sure we stopped and Maria had everything she needed. He adored her. Bob loved the ladies!!
My favorite memory is still so vivid I can almost feel it - I am a year younger than our "family" friend group. When they all graduated from HS, leaving me behind, I was distraught. My boyfriend was gone, they were gone...ah the teen torment! The first day of my Sr. year without them (remember, no cell phones, no pagers - you had to FIND people!) Bob and Donny showed up unannounced at my house with a rose to take me to dinner. They knew I'd be sad, and wanted to cheer me up. We sat at mexican food joking and laughing, and Bob leaned over, grabbed my hand, and very seriously said "Stacy, nothing will change. We will always be The Family". I never forgot it. We still are, Bob. Family.

Michele Shelton

July 6, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Ryan Wright

July 6, 2011

Jennifer, I am so sorry for Madison's loss. This is so sad for all of Robert's family and friends. My heart goes out to all of you.

Elizabeth Corona Ek

July 6, 2011

I was deeply sadden when I learned that my friend had passed away. I met Robert in 1998 and we remained friends until his passing. Robert would often call me to share his successes and even his troubles. He was also very supportive of my accomplishments and helped me through my rough times. I will miss Robert's caring personality, his sense of humor and his destinctive voice. God bless you Robert. I will miss you and your talks.
Rest in peace.

Carla Hartley

July 6, 2011

I only knew Robert as opposing counsel within the Ventura County legal community. He always played fair, and he was always a gentleman. He will be missed.

Jerry Ricardez

July 6, 2011

I introduced myself to Robert at the gym because I had seen him at the court house filing papers. Since that day our friendship grew. It didn't matter how busy Robert was he would always take the time to ask me how I was doing and he would give me advice if I needed it. Robert had a very big heart and cared so much. He often told me how much it effected him to handle cases that involved children. Robert was a great man and although he will be missed greatly I will cherish every moment that we shared and every laugh that we had. My sincere condolences and prayers are with his Family. Mr. Jennings you have touched my life forever, you will not be forgotten my friend.

Charlotte Aubert

July 6, 2011

Bob Jennings..... I don't even know what to say but what a great friend and person he was. I met Bob working at Golf N Stuff and let me just say what a great time we had at that place and what a great bond we formed over the years. Those of you out there who worked there with us know what I am talking about. What I remember most about Bob is laughing,laughing and more laughing. He was a caring friend and always there to give a smile. I still remember to this day how very much his mom meant to him. His eyes always lit up when he talked about her and you could just see the love in his expressions. I have a lot of fond memories of Bob and will cherish them forever.

My friend I hope you have found peace and if you come across Tanner tell him his mom misses him very much and no story telling of the GNS days!

Love you Bob!

Chrisana Andrus

July 6, 2011

I have many fond memories of Bob. I don't think I once called him Robert. Bob, Bob-boli, Bobalicious..but never Robert. Our friendship began at Buena High School. He was one of the jock guys that used to give me a firm slap on the back and call me "schhhhooollll girl" when he greeted me. Ofcourse that changed to Banan(Chrisana Banana) later.

Our group of friends found our way to Chico and shared many, many, many adventures and laughs while attending Chico State University.

The thing I'll always remember about Bob is his laugh. It still makes me laugh when I think of it. Bob had a great sense of humor.

Though I wasn't in close contact with Bob for the last few years, it's good to see how much he was loved and appreciated by those who were.

Rest in peace my friend. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Laura & Steve Powell

July 6, 2011

Condolences to Bob's family and friends. So sorry for your loss. RIP Bob.

Jerry Ricardez

July 6, 2011

I first met Robert at the gym but I recognized him as an attorney at Court. Since then our friendship grew. I would always give him a hard time because I'm a dodgers fan and he was a Giants fan. He cared very much about each case that he handled often telling me how much it effected him when children were involved in the case. He had a very big heart and I am grateful to have the pleasure of knowing him.

Lori (Collins) Perez

July 6, 2011

I met Robert when he was called Bobby in the neighborhood we would all run around in as kids. I met him thru my brother Ed. He was always one of the nicest boys.
After we moved I lost contact with him. I thought of him and wondered what he was up to. Then one day I heard someone call my name and I looked it was Robert. He looked the same and was still a really nice young man. We talked for awhile and he showed me pictures of his daughter. You could tell he loved her more than anything. We said goodbye and I thought that he grew up as a very good man. His mother raised a great kid. She should be very proud of him. I'm sure she was.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Steven Hintz

July 6, 2011

This is a sad loss for his family, friends, and the Ventura County legal community.

Angela Curtis

July 6, 2011

I met Robert back in 1995 when we worked at TGIFridays together and played on a co-ed softball team with our co-workers. His 1st or 2nd day at work, I was his Trainer & he mocked me, saying, "You know you're a nerd, right?!?! You don't really DO this stuff you're trying to teach me, do you?" (that's the short version) He was a truly compassionate person deep down but didn't want me to know it, until he helped take care of me when I hurt my back. He LOVED his mother & was happy that she made him her great Brazilian meals. I remember when he took my son fishing, which was so sweet of him. Shortly thereafter, we ended up at the same Law School & he said, "How did YOU get in here? You're not as smart as me!" When I got higher grades than him, he said a few choice words to me, then reminded me that I must be a nerd. ha ha. After graduation we both went into private practice, going our separate ways but maintaining our friendship less frequently due to life & work demands. Robert has been a part of my heart & life for 16 years & I will miss him calling me "Ms. Curtis" in his spunky way that he did, despite our personal friendship. I will miss his smart-alek, cocky, confident, challenging personality that made me laugh on so many occasions. We used to rile each other up & egg each other on. He'd call me to discuss legal issues & preface it with his usual disclaimer... "Don't think you're smarter than me just cuz I'm asking your advice now..." He was one of the greatest people I've ever cared for. Bob, my heart is broken right now & I will miss you in moments least expected, but I know that you're with God now. Remember all those times you & I debated Religion, only to have you end with, "Please pray for me then." Well, I did. Rest in Peace knowing that you're with the Lord my friend. You are loved, because you have loved & blessed so many others on this earth. God be with your daughter Madison & her mom, your mom Maria & Joan. Joan is a God-send for being your rock through all of this. Go in peace my friend. Angela Curtis

Andrea Arteaga

July 6, 2011

I had the pleasure of working for Robert for the past two years. Working as his Legal Assistant I learned a lot from him and saw what a caring and amazing man he was. He had a love for music and would always mention his hopes of one day starting a band. As he worked he would listen to music and randomly quiz me on Nirvana and Red Hot Chili Pepper songs he played.

Robert was a great friend, attorney and employer. He was an extremely thoughtful person and someone you could have a great laugh with. A cherished memory we had were our Chess games we played at the office. Robert taught me how to play and with time my skills improved and I actually won him a few times. There are so many memories we had together and he will be deeply missed.

Robert, may you rest in peace. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Barbara Lewis

July 5, 2011

I met Robert about 3 and a half years ago, while working at the courthouse. I learned that he had built his law practice, a thriving business with an office in the Tower, from the ground up. He had a lot of integrity in his work, and cared very much about his clients. One time, after losing a case that no defense attorney could win, he was very upset. When I asked why he was upset, as no one could have won that case, he responded, “I was the better attorney.” He cared very much about performing with excellence and expected a justice system that rewarded effort. I think he was a bit of an idealist.

I used to tease Robert for being such a romantic. More than anything, he wanted a wife and lots of children. I remember his telling me he wanted five! (Children, not wives.) He loved Disneyland and hated guns. He was taking voice lessons and learning to play the guitar so he could sing the sappy love songs he liked so much. (He made me an entire cd of them.) Robert was the kind of guy who would push the emergency stop in an elevator on a busy, crowded morning, just so he could have the opportunity to kiss the girl inside.

Robert was generous. He was generous with his time, his money, and his heart. He always insisted on paying. When we went for lunch or dinner, he would buy something extra for me to bring home to my kids, jokingly telling me he wasn’t sure I fed them right. He was a natural with kids, and loved his own daughter so much. I remember him saying he believed they would be really close when she got older. Now I can only pray that he is watching over her.

Robert was funny. The hallmark of the time we spent together was how much he made me laugh. He was always kind and always a gentleman, with an incredible capacity for love. Robert was warm, sensitive, and he saw the best in people. People felt good around him, with his wit, humor, and laughter. I will miss him.

Paul Rauch

July 5, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to Robert’s family and friends, as well as all who had the pleasure to know Robert. Robert and I met in our first days of law school and quickly developed a great bond and friendship.

Robert was a very compassionate person, and many times I witnessed him helping others less fortunate, which was one of the reasons he wanted to be an attorney, and had previously taught school.

Though we were both only average law school students, somehow we both managed to pass the bar exam. I remember the stressful months leading up to the bar exam, as well as those afterward, waiting for our results. When we finally found out that not just one of us had passed, but both, we just knew there had to have been some type of mistake. We quickly learned not to question it, and allowed ourselves to experience the thrill of passing!

Several years later, Robert was even more elated when his daughter Madison was born. Though we saw less of each other over the years, we kept in touch by phone, and he was always telling me stories of his time with Madison, and how he treasured them, and loved her.

Robert was his own person, and could be stubborn and relentless when he believed he was right about something. Yet, that is precisely what made him a great attorney, because he would fight like a bulldog for his clients. At the same time, Robert had a soft side to him, and he cared deeply about everyone he came to know.

Despite his sometimes “bulldog” persona, I also remember how great it was that Robert had such a fondness for his Mom. Many times during our classroom breaks, he would warm up a meal his Mom had prepared for him. Robert was always there for her, taking care of her, and visiting her often. He always spoke highly of her, and it was very obvious how much he loved her.

Robert also cherished his friendship with Joan, which also dated back to our law school days. Whenever I spoke to Robert, it was obvious how much he cared about her. Through both good and difficult times, both always seemed to exhibit a mutual love and fondness for the other. They always seemed to be there for one another.

I am so saddened by Robert’s passing, and will miss him very much, but I am comforted by the many memories and good times we shared. While our law school days were filled with many stressful times, we still managed to find time for fun, laughter and great conversation.

Robert, my friend, may you rest in peace. I will miss you, but will never forget you.

My sincere condolences.

Bryan Leiser

July 5, 2011

I met Robert "Bobby" about 35 years ago. I grew up across the street from Robert and shared so many great memories with him. Growing up, Robert loved sports. All the kids in the neighborhood would always get together to play football, soccer, baseball or basketball. Robert was always out there with us. I'll never forget those days. Robert went on to play football for Buena High.

I was lucky enough to continue my friendship with Robert into our adult years. Before I moved away, I would often spend time with Robert shooting pool, bbq'ing or just hanging out. One thing is for certain, during the times we hung out we were always sharing laughs. Those laughs continued after I moved during our telephone conversations. I will miss those calls.

I would just like to say that Robert was a great friend and was often there for me. When I moved away 8 years ago Robert was there to help me. When I passed the Bar, Robert was the first to congratulate me. When I needed a good laugh, Robert was the one I would call. His friendship will be remembered and missed!

I pray for strength for his mother, daughter, and loved ones to help them through this time.

Julie Young

July 5, 2011

I am so deeply sorry for all of you whom Robert has left behind. Robert has been a friend of mine for more than 10 years. I met him at the gym where I would often find him working out while drinking a soda...I used to give him such a hard time about that, so he would try to hide them when he saw me coming, I always knew he had it! Robert also loved 2 things that I love as well, good music and good comedy. He was trying to learn how to play the guitar and he asked me if I would sing if he ever got a band together, of course I said I would. There are many more memories I could share, Robert was great guy, always would help out if he could. I know I will miss him terribly. You, his family, are in my prayers and thoughts often. I pray that God will grant you strenghth and peace with each passing day. Robert, may you rest in peace.....God Bless

Lots of love and compassion,

Julie A Young

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