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Gerald R. Ireland

Norwich, VT - Jerry Ireland, 78, of Norwich, died on Saturday, July 6, 2024 at Kendal of Hanover thirteen years after his Alzheimer's diagnosis.

He was with his family, who loved him throughout his gradual decline. He is survived by his college sweetheart, Dana, his four children, Sarah, Peter, Tim, and Hannah; grandchildren, Owen, Louis, Eli, Elliot, and Nina, Milo, Colin, and Olivia and his sister, Betty, and brother, Bob.

Jerry and Dana were married in 1968, a month after graduating from Bates and both started teaching careers. Jerry quietly pioneered the new computer center at Northfield Mount Hermon School, uniquely including his expertise with local public schools. He then began his own company, Rightsizing, Inc., where he created custom databases, most notably, the genealogy database of the Mormon Tabernacle Church. He successfully became Oracle's volunteer of the year and continued to use his considerable mental mapping skills until he could not.

He was a quiet leader, captain of his teams, president of his classes in high school and college. He was steady and dependable.

Whether he was tossing grandchildren high over the ocean waves, sharpening skis until 2 a.m., baking his famous muffins, putting in the dam at the Norwich pool or beating a grandchild at chess, he was a behind-the-scenes guy. Ford Sayre, and Lightning Soccer, were among his favorites. He loved complex jigsaw puzzles, peppermint stick ice cream, and Ocean Park, Maine. His children remember that he never had designs on what they should become but a curiosity of what they might do next. He was the "gentle giant," truly one of the good guys.

The family will hold a private burial in Norwich. A memorial service and celebration will be held at a later date.

An on-line guestbook can be found at rand-wilson.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Valley News on Jul. 23, 2024.

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Carol Renaud Gaffney Bates `67

April 2, 2025

My condolences on Jerry´s passing. Although we did not stay in touch after graduation, I have fond memories of Jerry while at Bates. He leaves a wonderful of love and achievement. May your memories and stories provide solace during this time.

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Robert Higgins

July 23, 2024

Gerry was a classmate at Bates. I remember him well. His reserved, loving presence was always there. What a life he lived. There is so much love and goodness in the world that somehow never makes the headlines... but it is there and it is what makes life good and precious. What a precious and loving family ... you all gave the best you had to give to one another. It is compassion, empathy, and faithfulness that keeps us going amid tears and joy... May you know peace and may you continue to live the riches of life that you have given to one another and which can never be taken away... in this life and in the next. Bob Higgins

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