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Courtney
April 7, 2023
I still miss you. I wish you were here. I love you now and forever.
Judy
January 16, 2009
Phil,
I can't believe you have been gone almost a year. It really is crazy how fast time goes by. I think of you often(I smile a little bit more rather than cry) I guess time does heal but there still is an empty spot. My brother misses you terrible. He even had a dream about you the other night. He said he was so happy and excited...... But it was just a dream.
P.J did a great job on your grave. It's beautiful.
You got some company up there huh good old Jimmy McNick, Tried to warn him but I guess ultimatly people are going to do what they want.
God Bless you Buddy
Miss ya and Love you
Judy
Kelly Longo
October 13, 2008
Phil, I am thinking about you right now as I do every day. I know you're at peace with Lisa, Carl and my dad. Jimmy is with you too, now. I can only imagine... lol. I think of the good old times often. You will always be my favorite cousin and one of my closest friends. I miss you so much. I'll watch over Kim & Lexi like I promised. I miss you so much. All my love, Kelly XOXOXO
Judy MacLellan
July 2, 2008
Happy Birthday Philip!!!
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you today and hope you have a great big party up in heavan today!
God Bless you and your entire family today and everyday.
Miss you,
Love your friend,
Judy
Sandy McLellan
June 3, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
A friend
May 9, 2008
Phil,
I think of you daily and so wish that this tragedy never happened. Everytime I see a white van I think it might be you, but then I remember you are no longer with us. I pray that your daughter will never forget what a loving and kind person you are. I will see you on the other side buddy.
I will remember you for the rest of my life.
Miss you.
Love you.
Melissa Donovan
January 30, 2008
I am shocked and to sad to hear of your loss. I'll miss hearing stories of Lexi and his beloved past pooch.
Rhonda Bouchard-DiGiorgio
January 30, 2008
Kim,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go to you, your daughter, extended family and friends.
Amy Horsik
January 29, 2008
Dear Kim,
I am very saddened to hear of the loss of your husband, Philip.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amy Horsik
Bunny Tierney
January 28, 2008
Kim & Lexi...I just was told of Phil's passing. I am so shocked and saddened. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul Travers
January 27, 2008
Kim & Lexi,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I was very sad to hear of your loss. I'm glad to have known Phil and your family. I wish you all the best.
Kelly & Richie Longo
January 25, 2008
Kim, Lexi, Uncle Paul, Auntie Dolors, PJ, The services are over and we're supposed to go on. When will the hurt heal? We can't get Phil and your entire family off our minds. Just to let you know we are thinking of you. We miss him so much (pizza parties, funny stories, laughing together, the trips we took, so many good times). All our love, prayers and sympathy. Love, Kelly & Richie
Steven Patalano, MD
January 25, 2008
My heart goes out to the entire O'Keefe and Duffy families in this difficult time.
Ellen Cormier
January 24, 2008
Kim, Lexi and family: Our hearts go out to you at this time. We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers.
Love, Ellen and John Cormier and family
Guy & Simonne Girouard
January 24, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Canada Summer of 07
Robin Girouard
January 23, 2008
We will miss you so much Phil. You were such a great father and husband. We will all watch over Lexie for you as you will be always in her heart and ours forever.
MISS YOU :(
Jeanne Mogauro
January 23, 2008
Dear Kim & Lexi,
I am so sorry for your loss. We were just talking the other about the Disney cruise we all took and how much fun we had. I am thinking of you and Lexi at this difficult time. I hope the wonderful memories you have of Phil will bring you some comfort.
Love,
Jeanne & Dana Mogauro & family
Stacey Kerrigan
January 23, 2008
Kim and Lexi,
I'm so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your husband and your Dad. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank Cousineau
January 23, 2008
Kim and Lexi,
I'm very sorry. I will miss him showing up at the Busy B. I know he is with his brother and sister now. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.
January 23, 2008
To Kim and The O'Keefe Family
I am so sorry for your loss.
You are in my Prayer's and Thoughts.
Love Kim Taylor (Taylor and Erin )
Kelly Longo
January 23, 2008
Kim, Lexi, Uncle Paul, Auntie Dolors, PJ: Words cannot express how much Phil will be missed. Phil was the most loving, giving person I know. I will cherish all the crazy times we had and the beautiful memories we made. Whatever any of you need, you know I'm there for you. Rest now, Phil -- I love you and miss you. Your cousin, Kelly xoxoxoxo
Susan Cormier
January 23, 2008
Dear Kim & Lexi,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear husband and father. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Colleen Mejia
January 23, 2008
Kim & Lexi,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Know you have a special angel in heaven. Love, Colleen, Jeff, Jeffrey & Isabella Mejia

Phil, lexi and Lisa on a boat ride this summer...
Lisa & Jim Bellanca
January 23, 2008
Kim, Lexi, Mr. & Mrs. O'Keefe, PJ and family/friends of Phil;
We will never understand why Phil was taken from us so suddenly...there was always a smile, laugh, offering of some type of help from Phil which truly made him such a special person...there will be such a void for all of us but we should try and remember the good times and laughs he gave to us; We both feel so blessed that we got to know him as well as we did...Jim & Jim
Kerry Kelley
January 22, 2008
Kim and Lexi,
You are both in our thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. Phil will always be remembered as a great husband, father and friend.
Love Michael and Kerry(Mitchell) Kelley
Stephanie Spinosa
January 22, 2008
Kim & Lexi,
Words cannot express our feelings for Phil. He has touched our lives for 10 years. So many lights and wiring are in our businesses & home. We will always remember him with love. We are so sorry for your loss. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call us. Love Richie & Stephanie
Judy MacLellan
January 22, 2008
Mr.& Mrs.O'Keefe,P.J,Kim & Lexi,
It is with a heavy heart that I make this entry. The only comfort I can find through this whole tragedy is that Philip is in heavan and he is no longer in pain. Although he never complained I believe each day was a struggle. The world would be a much better place with more Philips in it. Always with a smile and quick to laugh or help with anything you needed. I will miss you Philip and words just can't explain the emptiness that has been left in all the people you have left behind.
I pray that you are with your sister Lisa and brother Carl together again for eternity.
Rest peacefully my friend and may God bless all that loved you.
I love you and will never forget you.
Judy
Melissa LeBlanc
January 22, 2008
Kim & Lexi,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Morris
January 22, 2008
Kim and Lexi,
We are sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Love, Jen & Steve Morris
Dina Reeves
January 22, 2008
Kim & Lexi
We are so sorry for your loss. We love you and you are in our thoughts.
Dina, Todd, & George Reeves
Eric and Andrea
January 22, 2008
We will miss you on the boat, we will miss your pizza's,we will miss you on the Holidays, we will especially miss your laugh.You were a great Father,husband,son,friend,coworker,and brother.Slauncha Phil.
christen piscatelli
January 22, 2008
To our great friend and godfather to our son, we will sadly miss all our laughs and time spent with you. Our prayers are with you every minute of every day. We love you Kim and will be there for you forever.Our Warmest Sympathy
Your Good Friends,
The Piscatelli's
christopher trudeau
January 21, 2008
I was sadened to hear of the loss of Philip, your husdband,your father,your son and your brother.My deepest and sincerest sympathies and condolences at this time of great grief and sorrow.I will keep Philip in my thoughts and you in my prayers. A fine man and a great electrician who will be sorely missed.
christopher trudeau
January 21, 2008
I was sadened to hear of the loss of Philip, your husdband,your father,your son and your brother.My deepest and sincerest sympathies and condolences at this time of great grief and sorrow.I will keep Philip in my thoughts and you in my prayers. A fine man and a great electrician who will sorely missed.
The Marston Family
January 21, 2008
To The O'Keefe Family,
Our deepest condolences are extended to the entire O'Keefe Family over the loss of Phillip. Words can not express the pain, saddneess, and grief that you are all experiencing at this extremely difficult time. We will always cherish the fond memories of Phillip. He will forever be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Marston Family
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