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ANDREW COOKE

1963 - 2021

ANDREW COOKE obituary, 1963-2021, Washington, DC

ANDREW COOKE Obituary

Andrew Robert Cooke November 11, 1963 - May 6, 2021 Andrew Robert Cooke "Andy", age 57, was born in Alexandria, VA at Alexandria Hospital. He died of pancreatic cancer on May 6, 2021, at his home. Maria, his beloved wife of 35 years, was by his side. He leaves behind a large, close family and countless friends, who will always cherish his generous spirit, sharp wit, and boundless love. In addition to Maria, Andy is survived by his children, Kyle Cooke, 26, and Morgan Tanner (Willie), 28; his mother Margaret Cooke; his siblings Jennifer Katt (Robert) and Linda Jordan (Robert); and numerous nieces and nephews who adored their Uncle Andy, as he adored them. He is preceded in death by his father, James David Cooke (2000).

A love story for the ages, Andy and Maria met in their early teens while attending Robert E. Lee (now John Lewis) High School in Springfield, VA, both graduating in 1982. Andy entered James Madison University the same year, graduating in 1986. Like generations of the Cooke family before him, Andy settled in the DC-metro area, where he lived his whole life, working for the Federal Government since 1990 and raising his family in Lake Ridge. There he served as baseball/softball coach, school volunteer, mentor to many, and best friend to all the dogs on the block (who regularly received treats from Andy in his driveway). He was the quintessential involved Dad, always there for his children, participating with and supporting them in whatever they did.

Andy gave back, in ways big and small, routinely distributing sandwiches to the homeless in Washington, DC whom he knew by name, purchasing a new bike for a needy child every Christmas, and faithfully supporting the many causes he believed in. A staunch advocate for biking and biking safety, Andy's passion was cycling long distances. He frequently conquered 100- and 200-mile courses, and once biked from Lake Ridge to Virginia Tech, a distance of 300 miles, in under 3 days. His passion was contagious and provided many shared happy memories for members of his extended family.

Andy was a career civil servant at the U.S. Department of Justice (1990-2015) and the Administrative Office of the U.S. Courts (2015-2021). It is fitting that he worked for so many years with the Justice Department, since he believed strongly in fairness and equity and always treated others-stranger and friend alike-with the utmost kindness. This quality is perhaps the one for which he is most remembered, along with his remarkable sense of humor. He loved to make others laugh and would light up any room he entered. He drew others to him, eliciting a rapt following at family gatherings, as no one wanted to be out of earshot.

No services are planned. In lieu of flowers, the family would like to honor Andy's request that people donate to the Washington Area Bicyclist Association (WABA) in his memory: https://waba.org/join-2020/Nohttps://waba.org/join-2020/

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post on May 11, 2021.

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Adairius Curry

May 18, 2021

I never saw Andy without a smile on his face. We will all miss him a great deal. I am sending my condolences to his family and friends, and praying that their wonderful memories of him will comfort them in the days to come.

Katherine Lira Clark

May 18, 2021

Andy and I were officemates at DOJ from 2012 to 2014. He was the kindest, most good humored, and humble person I have ever known. I really can’t remember a day he wasn’t in a cheerful mood. If you knew him at all, you knew how he adored his family. His beautiful wife and children, and cycling, were his favorite topics of conversation. I think we hit it off so well because, when we met, I was just starting my own family, at the time recently engaged, and he had a captive audience in me. I loved hearing his stories about his young family and the journey from being a young couple to having babies to kids leaving the nest. And he loved telling them. The last time I saw Andy in person was summer 2019. I ran into him by chance at Union Station. I was 8 months pregnant. We hadn’t seen each other for at least a year, but like no time had passed he gave me the biggest, warmest hug and, without a thought, plopped a hand on my belly and said “WOW”. I’ll never forget that smile. ...I will miss you, my friend. Thanks for always reminding the rest of us what’s really important -- cherishing the people you love.

Gayle Whitlock

May 14, 2021

Sending love and hugs to the family - I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Andy - what a special and beautiful family you are - energetic, positive -just always full of joy. Maria, Morgan & Kyle - you are in our prayers during this very sad time.

Ayaz

May 14, 2021

I miss Andy so much. When I took on a new role, Andy was always willing to help me. He loved to smile and joke at work and would bring joy in any meeting or encounter he was in. I am grateful that I got to know him. My deepest condolences to his family and friends during this time.

Karin O’Leary

May 14, 2021

Andy will always be remembered as the life of the party, the instigator of fun at work, and a dedicated and talented public servant. He was a capable analyst who his customers trusted and his supervisors relied upon to find a path out of any challenge. Andy was also my friend whom I will cherish forever. He was kind and supportive to everyone. God bless him and my condolences to Maria, Morgan, and Kyle.

Kelly Matthews

May 13, 2021

Andy always had a smile on his face, and would brighten a room. He will be missed. I would like to wish many, many prayers and condolences to the family.

Erik McInerney

May 13, 2021

Andy always brought out the best in us. He left a huge impact on so many and will be missed immensely. I am very thankful to have known Andy and I am sending my deepest condolences to his family and friends during this time. Rest in Heaven Andy.

Teresa Fryer

May 13, 2021

Andy always knew how to make everyone laugh, he will be missed immensely. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

paula sellers

May 13, 2021

My deepest condolences to your family for the loss of Andy. Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Christine sims

May 13, 2021

Rest in Heaven Andy. I will miss you. Andy was a great supervisor and friend. He had a great sense of humor and wonderful sprit. Prayers and hugs to the family.

Kenneth Smith

May 12, 2021

Dear Cooke Family—

Deepest condolences from the Smiths. I have fond memories of Andy from WLL and the Legends Cardinals team and have always appreciated his general cheer and friendship. Although our paths diverged, you will always be cherished friends. All my best to you.

Olivia Wilmot

May 12, 2021

Andy was an amazing man and I am so grateful to have known him. I am sending prayers and hugs to the Cooke family. I am truly grateful for each of you.

Kyle Cooke

May 12, 2021

My dad was the best person I knew. Here are some of his favorite photos that he compiled before he passed away: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1xM2U_GvPUMIcSvs5TZW0DA5G5wgsSPI8?usp=sharing

Helen and Bill Hughes

May 12, 2021

Sending love and prayers to all of you. We both have fond memories of Andy in High school.

Patrick Drury

May 12, 2021

Maria, Linda, Jennifer - I was saddened beyond words to read of Andy's passing. He was a remarkable and very special person. The beautifully written obituary describes well the Andy I remember; and it, and the many memories and condolences, show what a profound mark he has left on all who knew him. My deepest condolences to you and your families.

Pat Drury

Mac Slover

May 11, 2021

Our condolences to Andy and his family from the (SLOVER) family - Mac, Lindsey and Justin.

We have fond memories of Working and volunteer coaching with and against Andy from Woodbridge Little League to the Prince William Girls Fastpitch Softball, Lake Ridge MS Softball, The Crushers Travel Softball to being one of Lindsey’s coaches at Woodbridge High Softball. She and Morgan were on teams together with Marie always supporting them. Andy Was always so willing, supportive and helpful with everyone. He will truly be missed.

Our thoughts and prayers are all with you in this tough time. God bless you all!

Mac SLOVER

Cheryl Mansfield (formerly Cheryl Upham)

May 11, 2021

I am so saddened to learn of Andy’s passing. I have many fond memories of school field trips and baseball games. He had the biggest smile in Lake Ridge.

My sincerest thoughts and prayers to the family.

Elena

May 11, 2021

I'm praying for God's comfort to Andy's loving family. Andy's love and light will continue to shine.

Wanda Hensley

May 11, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I worked with him at JMD Finance Staff many years ago. I remember him as a fun loving person who was always smiling. My condolences to the Cooke family.

Gregg Darr

May 11, 2021

Maria, Kyle and Morgan - my heart breaks for you. Andy was one of the first coach/volunteer I encountered at WLL and always enjoyed playing his teams. He had a great sense of humor and encouraged every player no matter what team. I really enjoyed the adult baseball we played together were we could act like kids for three hours a week. My his memories live on forever in your hearts. Rest peacefully my friend.

Magnus Holmberg

May 11, 2021

RIP Andy & I will surely meet you in the afterlife..
Magnus Holmberg Sweden

Morgan Tanner

May 11, 2021

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XFuxQSibnelK7R70M7oRTQljAOw0f1GR/view?usp=sharing

Here are some pictures that were special to my Dad that he wanted to share with everyone. Thank you to everyone for the kind words and thoughts.

Morgan Tanner

May 11, 2021

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XFuxQSibnelK7R70M7oRTQljAOw0f1GR/view?usp=sharing

Here are some of my Dad's favorite pictures that he wanted to share with everyone. Thank you for all of the kind words thoughts!

Linda C Jordan

May 11, 2021

Thao Phan

May 11, 2021

My sincere condolences to the family.
Andy, we have always missed you at JMD.

Linda Jordan

May 11, 2021

I love you and miss you, Andy.

Linda Jordan

May 11, 2021

I love you and miss you, Andy.

Frank Titus

May 11, 2021

RIP Andy.

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