ANNE MUIR Obituary

ANNE MUIR
Anne Muir, of Bethesda, MD, died peacefully on July 12, 2018 surrounded by her loving family after a courageous 42-year battle against cancer. An accomplished equestrian in her youth, Anne had a great love of history and the arts. After graduation from the University of South Carolina, she began her lifelong teaching career in Charleston, where she met her future husband, Stephen Cassin Muir, whom she married 53 years ago. After living in London, Anne and Cassin moved to Bethesda, where they raised their family. For over four decades Anne was a beloved teacher at St Patrick's Episcopal Day School in Washington. In addition to teaching and her family, Anne's had a passion for gardening, serving as president of Hoe "N Hope Garden Club. Anne was also a member of the Executive Board for the Daffodils and Diamonds Accelerator Fund for Novel Therapies, raising funds for the National Foundation for Cancer Research. Anne was well-known and much-loved for her optimism in the face of challenges large and small. Her true joys in life were her children: Elizabeth, Stephen and Bradley, and her grandchildren Lexi Rose, Mimi, Sam, Jack, and Eve. Her beloved son, Stephen, predeceased her. A wonderful mother, friend, and teacher, Anne leaves behind a legacy of selflessness, love, friendship, and family. She will be missed greatly and thought of always. Services will be held Friday, July 20 at 11 a.m. at St. Patrick's Episcopal Church, 4700 Whitehaven Parkway, NW, Washington, DC 20007. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the National Foundation for Cancer Research.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 17, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
for ANNE MUIR

13 Entries

Page Smith

July 27, 2018

Im still reflecting on the perfection of the service last week. Every facet of Anns personality, those known well to me as a mother of her students, as well as those I had not glimpsed in her private life, was shared with awe and humility. My gratitude goes to those who planned and participated in sending her off to heaven so properly and allowing the rest of us to find closure and hope in her memory. As Elizabeth Allen remarked to me at the reception in the Great Hall, it really doesnt feel like shes left us. It feels like her spirit is still here and always will be. That is our hope and as I believe Peter reminded us, our responsibility to keep her memory alive so it may continue to strengthen the St. Patricks community and keep teachers and parents focused on what matters most to the life of each child. Ann was remembered by one of our children as probably my favorite teacher in the world. Indeed, she knew how to appreciate the ones who werent the early academic standouts, but rather find the spark and ignite it. Ann not only taught my children, she taught me how to be a better mother. She also stayed engaged with our family whenever and wherever she could. Blessings and peace to all the Muir family.

Kathleen Carpenter-Kester

July 20, 2018

Anne's service today was just like Anne-honest and uplifting. Immediately after learning of her passing, I wrote these words to a dear friend and fellow former St. Pat's parent:
"...I was co-room mother that year. Anne was without doubt one of the finest, most creative teachers Johnny ever had and she was simply always up forfun, fun, fun in the process of learning. She totally got little boys atthat age and how different they were developmentally from girls. Anne delighted in their antics. She understood and responded in the most creative ways to her students always keeping their emotional wellbeing and dignity in mind. Maybe she recognized herself in themshe definitely was impish.I remember her having to turn away from the kids more than once when they did or said something that needed correction before she could address the transgression because she had to recover from smiling. She disciplined with a unique blend of love and example; but, then that was true so often in St. Pat's nurturing environment. Anne had a particular knack for working on each child's individual needs without ever making the child feel singled-out! There was one boy who had great difficulty staying in his seat for extended periods without becoming disruptive. I arrived again the day after being in the classroom on a particularly challenging day for him. The kids were well aware of the boy's issues. They saw them regularly. Anne proceeded to tell the entire class that everyone gets antsy at times andwith atiny wiggle said that even she did. They alllaughed. She said when it was one of those times and any of them just couldn't stay quiet and concentrate after trying their very, very best, they could quietly get up and go to an area on the floor she had created overnight with a bunch of throw pillows. It was brilliant and just knowing it was there and "authorized" made it easier for all of them to develop self-control, respect each other's needs and allow the work of the day to progress.
Isimply loved and respected Anne. You know how much I loved practicing law; but, Anne actually made me realize in my next life I would love being a teacher. So much of what I learned from her made me a better mom and definitely played a part in my doing volunteer tutoring. She was a joy with whom to work on anything. I don't know if the statute of limitations has expired on some antics we got up to so I won't fess up yet. However, I do knowthose kids, each and every one of them, had a year of extraordinary educational and personal growth as a result of their teacher. The woman was born to teach not only from textbooks but by her example of dedication and living her life with joy. The decision she made toward the end of her life was so Anne."
My deepest sympathy and may God bless all who loved Anne.

Jessica Jenkins

July 20, 2018

Anne was such a bright light. She shined on me at a crucial time in my life and I am so grateful for her courageous example. I will remember her always. May her family find peace in all the lives she touched during her long life.

Lynn Lawson

July 20, 2018

Anne was one of the loveliest, kindest and most courageous women I've ever met. We enjoyed working together on the Daffodils and Diamonds Committee. Her friendship and quick wit will be missed. Prayers to her family and many friends.

July 19, 2018

Captain Cass, We will never forget your lovely bride, Anne.
Don Santamaria

Lynn Reynolds

July 19, 2018

Thinking of your family with love and prayers that each of you may be comforted by the knowledge of Anne's impact on and loving connection to so many friends. i treasure our many conversations about our children and so remember her joy at Christmas time working on her decorations at American Plant where I was working. Such a loving and warm presence

July 18, 2018

Sorry for your loss and grief; may the promise at John 6:40 give you comfort and peace.

Helen Epley

July 18, 2018

Mrs Muir had such a beautiful enthusiasm for life. I'm so sorry, Cassin. May she Rest In Peace.

Leez Law Garlock

July 17, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Cass, and all the Muir family. Anne lives on in the memories of all who knew and loved her.

Tal and Sarah Fletcher

July 17, 2018

Our hearts go out to the entire Muir family. Even though we lived on separate coasts, we always were able to pick up where we left off. May you rest in peace, lovely, courageous lady!

July 17, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the Muir family on the passing of your belove wife, mother and grandmother. Anne Muir was one of a kind. She will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her.

May she soar with the angels!
With love and respect,y

Maureen Bell,Asterbadi

Lindsay McBryan

July 17, 2018

I was so sad to hear of Mrs Muir's passing. She was one of my favourite people at St Patrick's and a wonderful friend to my mother, Jan Mucka. She will be missed. -Lindsay (Mucka) McBryan '96

July 17, 2018

Anne was beloved by hundreds of parents and children who attended St. Patrick's. She left a mark on all of us that will be cherished always. Terri Carr (Nick Phelps)

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