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Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker

Benjamin Hacker Obituary

HACKER, REAR ADMIRAL BENJAMIN T.

Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker, USN (Ret.), age 68, of Norfolk, VA, passed away on December 28, 2003 at Sentara Norfolk General Hospital.

Born in Washington, DC, he was a graduate of Wittenburg University in Springfield, OH. After completing Aviation Officer Candidate School in Pensacola, FL, he was commissioned Ensign in 1958. He was selected for flag rank in the US Navy in 1980, and assumed duties as Commander U.S. Military Enlistment Processing Command with headquarters in Fort Sheridan, IL. In 1982, he became Commander Fleet Air Mediterranean; Commander Maritime Surveillance and Reconnaissance Forces, Sixth Fleet; and Commander Maritime Air Forces Mediterranean with headquarters in Naples, Italy.

After retiring from the United States Navy in 1988, he served as the director of the California Department of Veterans Affairs and also held posts as a Regional Senior Vice President/General Manager for United Services Automobile Association (USAA) in the company's Western Region headquartered in Sacramento, CA, and Mid-Atlantic Region, headquartered in Norfolk, VA. Rear Admiral Hacker retired from the USAA in 1998 and served on numerous local and national boards.

Rear Admiral Hacker was the first Naval Flight Officer in the US Navy to be selected for Flag Rank. He held ten commands over the course of his 30 year military career. Included among Rear Admiral Hacker's personal decorations are the Defense Superior Service Medal, the Legion of Merit with three Gold Stars, and the Meritorious Service Medal.

In his own life example, he symbolized what was right about the United States military, what was noblest and best. Throughout his military and professional careers he worked tirelessly in support of equal opportunity initiatives. His life touched countless people and his efforts paved the way for many to follow.

A memorial service will be held at 4 p.m, Saturday, January 3, 2004 at Bank Street Memorial Baptist Church, Norfolk, VA. Viewing will begin at 3 p.m., prior to the service. A funeral will be held at Arlington National Cemetery with full military honors at a date yet to be determined.

Admiral Hacker is survived by his wife, Jeanne; mother, Alzeda, and three children, Benjamin Jr., Bruce and Anne. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of American (http://www.leukemia-lymphoma.org), 1311 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains, NY 10605 in memory of Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 31, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Hacker

Sponsored by Bruce Hacker, Son.

91 Entries

Thomas M Savage

January 4, 2025

I completed my US Navy basic training at NTC Orlando, Oct 1 - Dec 1, 1978. I was fortunate to go through my basic training with Admiral Hacker's son, Benjamin T Hacker, Jr.
Benjamin Jr was an absolute great guy, and I'm sure he went on to be a great sailor. Upon graduation, as TU-004 Honor Man, I was presented with my certificate by Admiral Hacker. Fair Winds and Following Seas to Admiral Hacker, his Son Benjamin Jr, and his entire family. God Bless and keep you.

Rev. Dr. William D. Rowe

December 27, 2023

Rev. Dr. William D. Rowe remembering a.great Leader in 1982 to 1985 in Naples Italy I was a Sgt at the Marine Barracks

Ms2 harry h. Davis Jr 3rd

October 27, 2021

Met admiral while stat at nas Moffett field calif he & radm Jesse hernandez were giving hands on seminar on 'how to be staunch sailors they are buddies.

Jack Moulton

April 1, 2021

A great leader. I worked on his boat in Naples when he was COMFAIRMED. I was an E-2 when I got there and the other half of the boat crew was an E-6. We would take him out on the boat usually with his family and a few guests. I watched and learned a lot from the way he carried himself. Even though I was 19 years old and as new as one could be, I always felt like he respected me as much as I respected him. Truly one of the greats I was lucky to have met. Rest In Peace sir!

John Meyers

January 10, 2021

I never had the opportunity to meet RADM Hacker but I know of him and his legacy in the Sacramento area. RADM Hacker was a strong advocate and friend of the Navy League of the United States and the Sacramento Council. Prior to departing Sacramento the Council established an annual scholarship that is awarded to an outstanding Navy and Marine Corps Jr ROTC Cadet graduating from local High Schools. As the current President of the Navy League-Sacramento Council I'm honored and pleased that we continue to award the scholarship each Spring in his name. RADM Hacker continues to give back to the community long after passing over the bar to his reward. God Bless his memory and his family.

FREDERICK ESPY

December 27, 2020

My Mentor

William Rowe

October 9, 2020

I served under Him in Naples as a young Marine i met his son and let him work out i our Gym in the Barracks i have a picture of him and other Black Marines from our Marine Corps ball i gave one of the pictures framed he caught me sleeping on post and just woke me up and said you can't get promoted sleeping on post i went on to make Sgt in Naples a great Leader

Alan Wyche Sr.

October 8, 2020

It's been more than twenty years since Admiral Hacker touch the lives of the Alan Wyche Family at the Mid-Atlantic Regional Office of U.S.A.A in Norfolk Virginia.
My wife and I worked at the campus and both of our young children attended the U.S.A.A. child development center.
My wife began her career there first and I used to visit her for lunch. My wife introduced me to your Dad and with a firm handshake and a direct look at my face he insisted that I call him Ben.
Later, I became an employee of U.S.A.A. and would often by happenstance see your Dad and we would talk about life.
He truly had a significant and positive impact on my entire family and he was one of the kindest, most giving and brilliant people I have ever met.
From his story times at the Children's Hospital of the Kings Daughter's in Norfolk to his faith and believe in Family values, he was irreplaceable.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family.
Respectfully,
Alan & Mimi Wyche

-A "Big Sister" Forever, Marla Anderson

March 12, 2019

Dearest Anne and Bruce, I was heartbroken when I Googled your Dad, who most (including me way back in '79, a very young 19 year old military wife) affectionately called him "Cap'n Hacker" to sadly discover he'd passed away. NAS Brunswick, (Maine) was a long time ago. I was part of the "Big Brother/Sister" program and from there fun times and precious memories with you and your family we're born. I still have your pictures, "Annie" I still have memories of the letters we wrote when you were barely a teenager and of the tacos Mrs. Hacker prepared for us and we played with make- up for the first time. I've never forgotten any of you. God Bless you all and I am so proud of you. "Cap'n" Hacker will live on, in our hearts always.

Chuck Igo

September 19, 2015

To the family of RADM Hacker - "Cap'n Hacker" always crosses my mind, and I was saddened to have learned of his passing a few years back. My post-Navy days have been occupied by a 36-year (and counting) career in broadcasting which owes its simple beginnings to a most timely happenstance involving "the Skipper." As an enlisted man in the Comm Center at Brunswick Naval Air Station in late 1979, I had landed a part-time, on-air announcer position on a radio station in Portland, Maine. My department supervisor had said we could work out shifts and scheduling to allow me to do this, based on needs-of-the-Navy first, of course. Our division senior chief decided to drop the hammer on me about this one day, and no sooner had he done so, into the Comm Center walked (at the time), Captain Hacker. He caught my stenciled name on my uniform shirt and asked if I were the young man he'd heard on the radio the other night. At that moment, I'd wanted nothing more than to find a hole into which I could crawl. The Skipper's face lit up in a big smile and he looked at the senior chief and said to "make sure this young sailor continues with the radio thing as he presents a fine representation of the Navy." Cap'n Hacker left the Comm Center and the senior chief just glared at me, following on the skipper's heels. I'm forever grateful for that moment of timely occurrence and for RADM Hacker's solid guidance and leadership while at BNAS. Fair winds and following seas, Cap'n.
Chuck Igo (former RM2, BNAS Communications)

Warren S. Moore

February 12, 2015

To The Family of Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker...College Days Swiftly Pass...Your Father baptized
my mother at Second Baptist Church, Springfield, Ohio. ..she adviced, me how you use to babysit me when we lived on Clark St.above Mr Otto House's, home...it was a warm memory in her heart...I missed you at General Convention in Chicago back in the day..."06"

August 7, 2014

To his son, Benjamin, I had the pleasure of him coming to ASWOC, Rota, Spain. I just thought of looking up your father and learned of his death. Please accept my deepest regrets for the loss of your father. I hope that this finds you well.

Dorothy (Herbert) Mejia

February 13, 2014

I was a member of RADM Hacker's staff when I was stationed in Naples Italy (COMFAIRMED). He was an extremely honorable man with a kind heart. Very personable and caring and always took time out of his busy days to speak to me. I'm honored to have worked with him during my naval service and will always fondly remember him. RIP RADM Benjamin T. Hacker!

Dorothy (Herbert) Mejia

February 13, 2014

I was a member of RADM Hacker's staff when I was stationed in Naples Italy (arrived in Apr 1982). He was an extremely honorable man with a kind heart. Very personable and caring and always took time out of his busy days to speak to me. I'm honored to have worked with him during my naval service and will always fondly remember him. RIP RADM Benjamin T. Hacker! Most heartfelt condolences to his family!

Mark Smith

February 12, 2014

My God I was so shocked to hear of Admiral Hacker's passing. He was a true gentleman and I loved serving him under Operation Red Blanket in Naples. He was truly a "friend" to all who knew him. My condolences to all of you and please know how grateful I am as to how I was treated by Admiral Hacker and you, his family. Mrs. Hacker I hope you know how much I love you guys. Your friend always, Mark "Bubba" Smith (NCIS)

elizabeth baker

February 7, 2014

Today is Feb 7th 2014. Exactly 34 years ago, Feb 7th 1980 was the Prayer Breakfast on the Naval Station Brunswick, Maine. I was honored to lead the pledge and (then) Capt Hacker presided. I was also awarded sailor of the month for the base and had many opportunities to meet your dad. I can say without a moment's hesitation that he was one of the classiest men I've ever met. I was so young and from a small town in Maryland. I had limited exposure to anything, let alone people who could warrant "all rise" just by walking in a room. I was so intimidated. But as I hope you can see from these pictures, your dad made each moment so special for me and made me feel like I was the only person that mattered in that moment. Wherever this finds you and the friends and family of "Captain, my Captain" Hacker, please know not only is he not forgotten now, the memory of his grace and kindness will never, ever fade.

Seaman Arthur J. Mishler USN

Arthur Mishler

September 21, 2013

I met the Admiral twice in my early Navy career. The first time I was leading a cleaning crew at the Training pool at NTC San Diego while he was on an Inspection tour. The second time was when I was in Mess Management A school and I was selected to have dinner with him and another seaman. It was my pleasure and honor to serve with and under him.

william rowe

April 2, 2012

I was a Marine in Naples Italy a guard on post#4 to the admin building i saw the Admiral Hacker before he went up stairs to his office one morning i was sleep on post, he came in early that day and woke me up and saying you cant make Sgt that way we took a picture with him at the Marine Corps Ball all the Blacks in the unit. its on my wall now What a great Leader GySgt William D. Rowe retired Now Minister Rowe

Dave Brannon

January 18, 2012

I was stationed in Naples, Italy from 1983 to 1987 and assigned to COMARAIRMED. My best memory of RADM Hacker is that he sent a hand written birthday card to me every year. I believe that he did that for every member of his staff.

Kristen Birdine

January 3, 2011

In 1987 I was stationed at Naval Training Center in San Diego Ca where I had the pleasure of having a two hour conversation with Admiral Hacker. Our first and last. I was considering leaving the navy because of racial prejudices. Admiral Hacker learned of my plans of leaving the navy, personally came to my barracks and asked me to his office where we talked for over two hours. I was 17 years old then. 27 yrs later, I still remember and hold dear the encouragement given to me by Admiral Hacker. He was a Officer, a role model and I will never ever forget him. May God rest your soul. We needed you Admiral.
Kristen L. Birdine
Pastor
Body of Christ Christial Fellowship Center
OKC, Ok

Phelps Hobart

March 31, 2008

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Admiral Hacker left a lasting impression with the members of the Sacramento Council, Navy League of the United States.

As a tribute, the council established a scholarship fund that continues to receive contributions and distribute annual scholarships to the outstanding graduating cadets at Luther Burbank and John F. Kennedy High Schools in Sacramento.

If one should choose to donate in his name, nothing would be more appropriate (and gratefully received) than to the Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker Scholarship Fund care of the Sacramento Council, NLUS, PO Box 162987, Sacramento CA 95816-2987.
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CDR Eric "EJ" Hendrickson

November 21, 2007

Anne,
I was sorry to hear of your dad's passing. What a great man. I made a point to say hi to your dad every year at the VP reunion. I was always amazed at his ability to remember me and remember what I was doing from year to year. His ability to connect with people always left a lasting impression on me. There are many who miss your dad. He was a great leader and a role model for all of us. God bless you and your family.

Chauncey Spencer II

August 10, 2007

God Bless the Family, Ben and the Family will always be a part of the Chauncey E. Spencer and Anna M. Spencer Family.
Ben was always a kind and caring person.
I want you to know I will always keep the Legend alive as our History.

Chauncey E. Spencer II
Detroit, Michigan.

Photo of "Skipper in the Spotlight" on Benjamin Hacker - modified

July 28, 2007

Shahnaaz Mason

June 7, 2007

My parents, Hollis and Kulsum Davidson were mentored by Reverend Hacker and Mrs. Alzeda Hacker years ago in Pittsburgh, PA. I heard stories about the 'son Benjamin who was in the Navy' and I can say that Admiral Hacker made his parents proud. My prayers are with the entire Hacker-Crockett family.

Frederick Beebe

March 15, 2007

Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker was a true professional and highly respected leader to all who served with him. Just shaking his hand and saying a few words made a positive impact on my self being. When he was COMFAIRMED in 1982 he toured NAVSTA Rota brig. I had the duty and honor to tour the facility with him. His hand shake was firm and his words were true.I just made Chief and he made it known to me by giving me a big smile and tight handshake and a true well done. We said a few words to each other.
What a man and a true american. May your soul rest in peace.
Frederick E Beebe

Robert Connelly

October 29, 2006

I graduated NTC San Diego in 1986.I was chosen Honor Man of company 032 and one of the honors was to shake the admirals hand. He knew I was from Puerto Rico and said something nice about the island to make me feel good. I was proud that the admiral whos hand I shook was of Adm. Hacker an African American. God keep him close to his heart.

William Rowe

August 4, 2006

I worked for Adm. Hacker in Naples Italy I enjoyed his leadership and kind words I'm at a lost I have a picture of him and the black marines at Marine Barracks Naples I meet one of the son that was in the Navy we use to work out in the Marine gym when he was in in Naples visiting. sorry for your family's lost he will be missed and we was a great man one morning when i was on duty he came in early and I was sleep standing striaght up he came in woke me up and said "you will never make Corproal like that Rowe" when every he saw me after that we would smile about it and, I made Sergeant in Naples, he was a great man.

William D. Rowe

GYSGT USMC retired

Victoria and Sydney, our future is in good hands.

Sylvester Holmes

October 1, 2004

Admiral Hacker's influence ran both far and wide. Yet his greatest impact was on those who knew him best - his family. The link below is to a picture of Victoria and Sydney Hicks, granddaughters of Elizabeth Hicks, Admiral Hacker's first cousin, and daughters of Charles George Hicks who passed in August 2004. Charles Hicks stepped into Admiral Hacker's footsteps serving as a Naval Officer, first as a lawyer and later as a judge. Both men shared a passion for flying and both leave a legacy for future generations to follow.

LCDR Jared Keys (APhiA)

March 31, 2004

The Admiral was an inspiration to all that knew him. His is sorely missed as a leader, mentor and Brother. Your Brother of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc mourn your loss and wish you fair winds sir.

Chuck Mills

March 29, 2004

Bruce,

I was deeply moved to hear of the passing of your dad. In life there are but a number of chance meetings with leaders that leave indelible marks on your like. RADM Hacker is one of those people. Whether you know it our not, your dad left such an impressive and powerful impression on many, many African-American USNA Midshipman. Many of us aspired to reach his heights and he became our arms length "role model". I don't believe RADM Hacker and I ever spent more that 1 hour together but he is a man that has shown me what it takes to be a "leader". Thank you Admiral Hacker and God bless you and your family.

Sincerely,

Perry Carter

February 26, 2004

To the Hacker Family:

Thank all of you for your selfless contributions to our nation's Sea Service communities.

Warmest Regards,

- Perry -

LtCol Julius L. Hargrove USAF (ret)

February 24, 2004

Your motivation and excellence was felt in the budding Air Force fighter pilot community of the '70s. Your impression will last through time.

Julie Barnes

February 21, 2004

Ben Hacker, my friend extraordinaire; taught, rescued, nudged, comforted and shared. His thought-provoking counsel inspired much of what I accomplished in my Navy career and choices I've made since retirement. He shared who as well as what he knew, offered insightful visions and encouraged creative thinking. I treasured his opinions and was honored when he asked mine. I miss and will miss RADM Benjamin T. Hacker, USN; my friend extraordinaire, an eternal point of light.

CAPT (NC) USN-Ret

Robert Toney

February 20, 2004

Admiral Ben HACKER WAS A TRULY EXEMPLARY "shipmate". He had a unique way of utilitizing his considerable talents to work in everyone's interest and everyone knew that. Thus, everyone that he interacted with entrusted him with their faith and his "credibility" was eternal. As a result of this splendid aura, We Ben's close associates were oft to say that "everything that Admiral Ben touched, turned to Gold". That is to say, everyone that worked with Ben, or were associated with him wanted to be/enjoyed being on his team because they knew that under his leadership, We were ALL going to be WINNERS. Thank God for Admiral Ben Hacker. He was indeed a "GOOD AND FAITFUL SERVANT". And, of course, He could not have accomplished much without his good and true and supportive life friend, Jeanne. God bless them both and their beautiful Children. We must not be sad, but joyous for Admiral Ben has gone on to be with our Lord and our Savior Jesus Christ in Heaven, where there is no pain. We all,who remain behind must carry-on in a "squared-away" manner in which Admiral Ben would wish for us to do and pray that we can all join him one day on high.

S. Frank Gallo

February 19, 2004

I was Ben's Executive Officer at VP-24. We had never met before I checked into the squadron. Our families became very close. We deployed to Keflavik, Iceland for the winter of 1974-1975 and we became very close friends. This friendship continued to the present day. Ben was one of those people who become a part of you. He was the quintessential professional - an honorable man who you always welcomed in your corner. He fought the good fights for all the right reasons and won most of them.

My wife JoAnne and I will miss him.

Fair Winds and Following Seas Ben, my good friend and shipmate.

S. Frank Gallo

Rear Admiral, USN (Ret.)

Ned Lowery

February 18, 2004

It was my very distinct pleasure to serve under the command of Adm. Hacker when he was Commander Fleet Air Mediterranean (COMFAIRMED). The nature of my job there allowed me to see his style of leadership up-close and it quickly became obvious that he was a man of uncommon wisdom, insight, and resourcefulness. A visit to the Navy’s Mediterranean facilities today clearly reveals the tangible benefits derived from his strong leadership and planning. It was a true joy to work for such an outstanding leader.

Adm. Hacker was an absolutely captivating speaker with an uncanny ability to weave some amusing story into a presentation to emphasize an important point. At times I would wonder, “where is he going with this…” but he never failed to make this point crystal clear.

On a personal level our families established a bond of friendship that generated countless fond memories of our time together. If he knew you, he was your friend. He was a true gentleman of uncompromised integrity and charm. Joann and I will cherish that friendship forever. Our love and earnest prayers go out to comfort Jean and the family in this time of grief but let us never forget our good fortune of having known this extraordinary man.

Lee Womack

February 18, 2004

Ben Hacker was a true pioneer and brother of A Phi A. Ben will be sorely missed for his humor, graciousness, caring, and genuinely friendly demeanor.

Lee T. Womack, Jr., CAPT, USN (Ret.)

Alpha Phi Alpha (L-1235)

James and Barbara Austin

February 14, 2004

We have been truly blessed by having known Ben as our friend. The memories of his kindness,his great humor, the sincerity in his wonderful smile, and the contagion of his laughter, are precious memories for us. A man who honored God, and a man who was honored among men and women.

Grace and Peace, Love and Prayers to our friends, Jeanne, Mother Alzeda, and to all the Family.

Dr. Walter Wright

February 14, 2004

The legacy will not die, for even now tere are many attempting to emulate Admiral Hacker in their naval career field.

The Honorable Carlos C. Campbell

February 13, 2004

This tribute is written with a heavy heart encased in a capsule of joy. The heart is heavy because of the pain associated with the loss of a friend, fellow Naval Officer and brother in Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity. The joy exists because of his ability to set standards and leave a legacy of an outstanding family and wonderful friends.

Benjamin Thurman Hacker was the quintessential Alpha Man. And like the House of Alpha, his was indeed one where: "Goodwill was the monarch and where men unacquainted entered, shook hands and departed friends. Where cordiality existed among all who abided within. His was the eminent expression of friendship, character and temperament. Where lives once touched by him, became tuned and thereafter, amiable, kindly and fraternal."

But Ben was more than that. He gave measure to meaning, definition to dignity, substance to service and credibility to courage.

Forty years ago, we met as students at the U.S. Naval Post Graduate School in Monterey, California. It seemed like every time we met, he asked with an infectious smile: "How are you?" Several years later, I received orders to become the Executive Officer at Naval Station, Barbados, V.I. I declined the orders and decided to get out of the Navy. I received a telephone call from Ben whose was concerned about why I turned the assignment down. This was classic Hacker. He was always concerned about others.

When I visited Barbados, the home of my paternal grandmother, many years after he had served as the Commanding Officer of the Naval Station there, people were still talking about Ben Hacker who had established himself as a person more respected and revered that the U.S. Ambassador during his tenure.

The Honorable Carlos Cardozo Campbell

Assistant Secretary of Commerce for Economic Development,

U.S. Department of Commerce (1981-1984)

LCDR Tony Branch

February 11, 2004

Admiral I sincerely want to thank you for leading the way for so many. I know that God is carrying you home for a well deserved rest. You served with honor and distinction and your contributions to guys like myself will never be forgotten. My heartfelt prayers go out to your family.

Kirk E. Johnson, CDR, USN(Ret)

February 10, 2004

I offer my heartfelt condolences to the family, friends and fellow service members. We were blessed by Admiral Hacker's inspiring Legacy of Exceptional Leadership by example. I cherish every occasion he graciously shared his wit, wisdom and guidance. I'm especially appreciative for the welcome feeling of inclusion as part of his extended family. Admiral Hacker compassionately demonstrated that extraordinary dreams can become reality.

Leon Hill

January 28, 2004

Fair Winds and Following Seas, Admiral

V/R,

Leon Hill

Captain, U. S. Marines (Retired)

757-546-8948 (H)

CDR Adolph Keyes, USCG

January 28, 2004

Although I only had the privilege to meet RADM Hacker on a couple of occasions through my affiliation with the National Naval Officers Association, his words of encouragement were both powerful and inspiring. As a mentor, I owe much of my military success to RADM Hacker's leadership, career guidance, and vision. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hacker family.

Mr. Hodari B. Davis & Family

January 26, 2004

Thank you Uncle Ben, for showing us what manhood is, and teaching us to live beyond our selves. To be deliberate and conscious about the legacy we leave for our family. You are an extreme example of what we as your children, are meant to become. We were made to be great. I for one accept your charge Uncle. Advance yourself, Advance your family, Advance your country, and Advance the race. And most of all, smile while you're doing it.

We love you Aunt Jeanne, and Paticake.

Always Yours,

LCDR June Tillett

January 26, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hacker Family. May God bless and keep you.

Very Respectfully,

LCDR June Tillett, NSCC

Commanding Officer

FDR Squadron

US Naval Sea Cadet Corps

NAS Jacksonville FL

CAPT Eric Benson USN (ret)

January 24, 2004

Admiral Ben Hacker was my great and cherished friend, mentor and example. He bridged the wide gap in our ages and career stations better than any Naval Officer whom I have been blessed to encounter. Immediately embracive with his friendship, he made us all better men for having met him. Wide and reaching is his legacy, long and noble his memory.

There is a special place in Heaven for men like Ben Hacker.

SABRINA SMALLS

January 23, 2004

ADM.HACKER WAS MY PATIENT FOR THE LAST 8 YEARS,AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIS SMILE.NO MATTER HOW HE WAS FEELING,OR HOW DIFFICULT HIS BREATHING GOT,HE NEVER STOPPED SMILING.OF COURSE,WITH THE ROCK HE HAD COMING WITH HIM EVERY VISIT,WHO WOULD'NT SMILE(HA!) MS HACKER WAS NEVER FAR FROM HIS SIDE.THE FEW TIMES HE CAME BY HIMSELF WE JOKED THAT SHE ALLOWED HIM OUT ALONE!!!!

Tonya Gill

January 21, 2004

I met Ben when he first moved to Norfolk as head of USAA. He was a dedicated United Way volunteer, contributor and spokesman. I also had the opportunity to network with Ben through Rotary, which he loved. He was a great role model and mentor for me and others within Rotary. He will be greatly missed.

Wellington J. Williams Sr.

January 20, 2004

As a CHINFO PAO, Tuskegee Member, and NNOA member, I had the honor and the opportunity to meet, know & serve with RADM. Hacker. He will be missed. God Bless. Cdr. Wellington J. Williams Sr. USN-Ret

Elder Juan D. & Judy Shipp

January 19, 2004

God's purpose and plan is sometimes concealed, but someday His purpose will be revealed. Someday God's wisdom will make it very plain. We'll see the Lord's purpose from the Lord's point of view, and we'll know the answers in ways we never knew. Until we're home with God, some answers must wait until His plan unfolds, we'll live and walk by faith. (P. Tanksley)

Ben was and still is one of our best friends. We see him in each of you and as we fellowship with you, his children, we see Ben.

May God Bless and keep each of you.

Julius Becton

January 17, 2004

A true professional, through and through, and a friend.

LtGen, USA-Ret

CAPT C.A. Tzomes, USN (Ret)

January 17, 2004

I was a better naval officer and inspired to do more for persons of color in the Navy because of my exposure to RADM Ben Hacker. His wit, advice, counsel, and devotion to our nation helped me make good decisions. This country and Navy are blessed that he has been among us.

Leviticus A. Lewis CDR, USN Ret.

January 17, 2004

I had the honor of meeting Admiral Hacker many years ago as a junior officer. He was a positive influence in my career and I am thankful to have known him. My sincere condolences to his family.

William C. Manes, CDR, USN-Ret.

January 16, 2004

I served as Chairman of the Governor's Advisory Commission on the Southern California Veterans Homes in 1991-1992 with California Secretary of Veterans Affairs Ben T. Hacker. With his leadership, we were able to get this project started in record time, for a state construction project, and we now have two of the homes in operation.

William Johnson

January 15, 2004

I was unfortunate to have known Ben Hacker but for a relatively brief period of time. Yet, I was fortunate to have known him well. I shall be forever grateful to have had the privilege of the acquaintance of such a profoundly sincere, worthy and positive man.

Bill Johnson

Rev. Edward & Dr. Vanessa Johnson, Cdrs (Ret)

January 14, 2004

One of the greatest mentors any young person could have had. A great and articulate statesman whose passing is a great loss to humanity. He will be missed by my wife and I who he mentored as young naval officers. May God bless the family during your bereavement.

Viola Jacobs

January 14, 2004

Anne,

I will keep you and your family in prayer.

Joseph Moore

January 14, 2004

I first met Adm. Hacker when I was stationed at Brunswick, ME. At the time, I was an enlisted air traffic controller. He encouraged me to apply for a program that ultimately allowed me to complete my bachelor's degree at Florida A&M (it's ironic that I was a Navy ROTC student at the same program he founded). Had it not been for Adm. Hacker, he support and encouragement, I will not be where I am today.

God Bless!

Clara Adams-Ender

January 14, 2004

I first met Admiral Ben when he was Commander, MEP Cmd, Fort Sheridan, IL. In 24 hours, he and his lovely bride, Jean, arranged and hosted a wedding reception for Heinz and me. That began a friendship that lasted over 20 years. We also had a wonderful tour of Africa in 1998. Rest in peace, Admiral Ben!!

Ed & Mary Dalrymple

January 14, 2004

Ben is a fine gentleman that left us all to early. I relieved Ben as XO in Barbados in 1969 and Ben moved up to CO. Ben and Jean were part of the Barbados Island community and included Mary and I in many events that we remember to this day (like lunch with HRH Princess Margaret). Ben was a mentor and a friend as was Jean to Mary. We will be forever appreciative.

Rev. Vianna L. Witcher, CDR, NC, Ret

January 13, 2004

A wonderful friend, mentor and leader who will be missed. I will always be thankful and cherish the video of my retirement ceremony whereby you honored me, by being my guest speaker. My condolences to the family and friends of this wonderful and kind man.

LCDR Jamel Weatherspoon, USN

January 13, 2004

I first meet RADM Hacker and his wife in 1991 when I was a student at the Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey, CA. In one short evening, he taught me about relationships, professionalism, and devotion to a cause. Admiral and Mrs. Hacker had a warm and loving relationship. Their unspoken love and friendship filled the room. Later that evening, I heard RADM Hacker (Ret) speak at the Monterey Chapter of the National Naval Officers Association’s Annual Scholarship banquet. RADM Hacker remained dedicated to service and the promotion of professionalism even in retirement. It is hard to express my sincere thanks for those encounters over the years, no matter how brief.

Lonnie Mitchell

January 13, 2004

To an inspirational and caring leader who greatly influenced the careers of many who followed him. I never worked for him during my naval career, but I was fortunate enough to have met him. He was a great role model.

Cynthia Hodge

January 13, 2004

To Anne,

Wishing you fond memories, continued strength, and a peace- filled spirit. You are blessed.

Cynthia Hodge

Roderick E. Walker, CDR, USCG

January 13, 2004

As a junior officer, meeting and speaking to senior black officers (including RADM Hacker in 1987) inspired me to work harder to succeed. I am still inspired from those days and I hope to instill that inspiration into those junior officers following me. It's our legacy as well as our responsibility.

Jerry Dawson

January 13, 2004

My God bless you and your family.

FREDERICK ESPY

January 12, 2004

To a great and passionate gentleman , a fun farewell. You made an impact on me and my generation of Naval Aviators.The Nation will miss you.

Robert Walters, CDR, USCG (Ret)

January 12, 2004

I'll simply say thank you for being the shoulders for many us to climb upon.

ADM J. Paul Reason, USN (Ret.)

January 12, 2004

No one can attest to being a casual acquaintance of Benjamin Thurman Hacker. When you met Ben, he burst into your life in a positive, energetic way. He was your friend for life. It is a shame that he left us so soon. Not only will he be missed by family and friends, but also by a grateful Navy and a thankful Nation.

Chateaur Shipp

January 12, 2004

I would like to say it was indeed a pleasure to have known Mr. Hacker. I would like to send my Condolences to the family and may God bless you.

Emele Culp, LCDR, Ret.

January 12, 2004

The first African American Admiral I met as young African American female Naval officer. I was most impressed when I met him, but his down-to-earth, humaness always made me feel like any junior officer could come to him for advise and consultation. I will never forget that meeting. It will last me the remainder of my days.

Arthur Billingsley, CDR, USN

January 12, 2004

Great Naval Officer. Great to have known him. His legacy of excellence is a standard for furture Naval Officers.

Winston Scott

January 12, 2004

Capt. Hacker represented many wonderful things. To me he, most of all, was a wonderful role model. He paved the way for my generation of naval officers and helped us see success. My most sincere condolences to the surviving family members.

Capt. Winston E. Scott, USN-Ret Naval Aviator and

NASA Astronaut

RADM William L. Putnam

January 12, 2004

We at USAA's Mid Atlantic office shall miss our friend and mentor. Memories of his integrity, genuine caring and dedication shall remain with us.

RADM Benjamin T. Hacker

January 12, 2004

Christopher Burke

January 12, 2004

Bruce,

Your father was a great man who leaves a tremendous and historic legacy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you celebrate his life.

Sincerely,

Chris

USNA 1985

Alger Wilson

January 11, 2004

I considered Ben Hacker to be my very best friend. We shared much with each other of our lives, families and mutual friends. Ben was a gift from God to mankind and I am especially happy that God shared the gift of Ben's life with me as a friend.

Laroilyn Davis

January 5, 2004

I can truthfully say that my big brother, Ben Hacker, was the very best. He was extraordinary and unique in ways that others wish they could be. His light still burns brightly, and always will for those who recognize that that light is still a solid and comforting force for those who have sense enough to see and follow. I will always miss him, and love him, and honor him. I am so proud to have been allowed to be his only sister.

Anne Patterson

January 5, 2004

Thank you Lord for my Dad. What a neat spirit he has. Yes, I do miss him! Peace Be Still and Glory to God in the Highest. May we who are left step up to live life more abundantly. Anne Frances Patterson ("Annie" Hacker, daughter)

Catherine Robinson

January 3, 2004

With deepest sympathy. One only had to meet Admiral Hacker once to recognize that he was a gentleman to be admired and trusted.

Alphonzo Mance

January 1, 2004

Benjamin Hacker was a giant of a servant to his country and his family. The measure of his impact can be determined by the success of those whom he touched. His presence alone inspired many he did not know. His inspiration continues. I am honored to have known him.

Rev. Glenn L. Jones

January 1, 2004

Rear Admiral Benjamin T. Hacker (Ben, as I called him), was one of the most humble men I ever met. I met him and Jean through their cousin and my dear friend, Elizabeth Hicks, while they were stationed in San Diego, CA. I was pastoring Mt. Sinai Baptist Church at the time. Ben and Jean consideredd Mt. Sinai their "home church" while residing their. I was blessed to spend an afternoon with Ben and Jean about three years ago while attending the Hampton University Ministers' Conference. I shall hold on to fond memories of some wonderful times spent together.

"And I heard a voice from heaven saying, 'Write this down: Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from all their toils and trials; for their good deeds follow them!'" As the Bible records Jesus having done, so, too, did Ben go about doing good, and now he's resting from his labor.

George W Crockett III

January 1, 2004

Ben was a man of many "firsts"but most importantly he was my first cousin.He was always cheerful, thoughtful, courteous and

kind.

Wayne Hicks

January 1, 2004

He was my cousin. His mom was the sister of my grandfather. However, I've called him 'Uncle' Ben since I was a child. I didn't realize or recognize how powerful a figure Uncle Ben was until I was in my adult years. All that I knew as a kid was that it was always great fun to visit his house. He had a booming voice and he was always smiling. He had a tremendous sense of love for his family. In fact, he took to hosting the Hacker-Crockett family reunions in the past decade or so. He raised three outstanding children....my cousins Ben, Bruce and Annie. Uncle Ben was the type of person that you never thought would leave us. As we celebrate his passage to the other side...we should also reflect on others in our family. Uncle Ben was a testament to the importance of family.

Elizabeth Crockett Hicks

January 1, 2004

My SENIOR cousin, Ben, was one of the most likeable persons I have ever known. He met no strangers. And hospitality was just a natural part of him. His sense of humor, his wit were second to none. Ben was one about whom it could be said, "the same yesterday, today"...and I'm sure 'tomorrow'. I know when I see him in heaven, we will continue our running who - was - born - first "discussion". You watch! I will miss him. He will truly be a treasure stored up in heaven!!! And can't you imagine the pride with which Meme, Granddaddy and Uncle LeRoy have welcomed him. Hmmm, talk about "Well done..."!

Frances & Wayman Hacker

January 1, 2004

Ben Hacker,a courageous and loving man, embraced life and lived each day appreciating the gift of life. He consistently did much more than what was required or expected of him in his career and personal life. We will treasure memories of him--the unconditional love and devotion to his family and his focus on the priceless value of friendship. We will always love Uncle Ben.

Ethelene Jones MD

December 31, 2003

When I describe my cousin Ben to friends, they regard me with patient tolerance. I'm sure they think I exaggerate: Ben Hacker was the most gracious, best groomed, kindest man I've ever known. His manners were impeccable. He had a smile for everyone; he gave his full attention to each person who addressed him. Ben left you feeling good about yourself and fortunate to have known him. A beautiful man!!

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