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BRIAN AMES Obituary
BRIAN WESLEY AMES (Age 60)
Beloved father, brother and son, passed away on Wednesday, December 21, 2017, at his home in Bethesda, MD surrounded by his loving family. Brian worked as an economist at the International Monetary Fund (IMF) from 1986 until 2008 and then as an independent development consultant. He loved his travels far and wide and was profoundly committed to making a difference wherever he went. His optimism was eternal, his enthusiasm for life infectious and his sense of humor sublime. He was hard to resist when he turned on the charm and put on "the Brian Ames show," as he called it. He brought humor even to the halls of the IMF! He was a trusted colleague and friend, a loving son and brother, and an absolutely devoted father. Brian was born in La Mesa, CA on April 2, 1957, attended Claremont Men's College (1979), and HBS and the Kennedy School (1985). He succumbed to brain cancer after a 17-month battle, without ever losing hope that he would beat the odds. He is survived by his children Julian (27), Andre (24) and Angela (19); his father, Harold P. Ames; his sister, Susann McMahon and his brother, Alan Ames. Relatives and friends are invited to a memorial service to celebrate Brian's life on January 5 from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 6301 River Rd., Bethesda. The family requests that contributions be sent to the National Brain Tumor Society, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or V Foundation in lieu of flowers.
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Laura Chaided
August 9, 2020
My deepest and most sincere condolences to Brians wife and children, his father, sister and brother. I am deeply heartbroken to have just learned of his passing. I will forever hold close to my heart and cherish the time I spent with Brian. Just knowing him changed my life.
Tamar Manuelyan Atinc
April 15, 2018
Thanks to everyone who posted their memories and thoughts about Brian. I did not know that this page existed. The memories are still very fresh and the pain still sharp. Our children and I remember Brian every day through teary eyes which are invariably followed by smiles thinking about something goofy he did or said. Miss you Brian
Ron Sege
January 9, 2018
I was really sad to hear this shocking news. I was Brian's room mate first year at Harvard Business School. Very fond memories of long talks and good humor. My deepest condolences to the family.
January 8, 2018
To the family,I send my condolences.May you find comfort in each other and strength in Gods word. Psalm 91:2
Mohan Ramalingam
January 8, 2018
We are really sad to here this news . Please accept our heartfelt condolences . Brian was a friend from way back in Boston . Among many things , Brian made a difference to the world . Hildegard & Mohan
Bev Ross
January 4, 2018
Andre - my heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. If you ever need to just talk about your dad, I am hear to listen. Prayers and love to you and the family. Sincerely,
David Williams
January 1, 2018
I too am saddened by Brian's passing and very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Brian's humor and presence lit up every room he entered. I was fortunate to have known him and and share Jim as. Co-cub scout leader
Sincerely, DAVID Williams
December 31, 2017
Brian was a great person and a super nice colleague, enthusiastic, dedicated, always ready to share and support, and to speak truth to power when needed, a truly rare quality. Our thoughts are with you in this so difficult moment.
Mauro
December 24, 2017
There was something bright about Brian.
He will always be in my prayers. Sincere condolences.
Marie-Jose B.
Argery Cooke
December 23, 2017
I am saddened by Brian's passing and very sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. Brian was an amazing person and colleague who inspired me - I was fortunate to have had the chance to know him. May his memory be eternal. Sincerely, Argery Cooke
Romans 15:33
December 23, 2017
You have my deepest sympathy. May God give you peace and strength to keep you going during your time of sorrow.
Jonsie
December 23, 2017
My condolences to your family. May god give you the strength to endure your sorrow. My thoughts are with you
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