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GRAY BRIAN CHRISTOPHER GRAY On December 10, 2007 of Bowie, MD. Cherished son of Mary Campbell Gray and the late Richard (Ricky) Gray; loving brother of Lauren Nicole Gray and Kevin Patrick Gray; beloved grandson of Lois Gray and Margaret Campbell; Crystal Brunner, devoted girl friend; nephew of Kathy (Billy) McGehee, Teresa (Dennis) Baldwin, Julie (Shawn) Stuckey, Vivian Hall, Betty Gray, Billy (Brenda) Gray, and Mary (Michael) Czan. Also survived by many cousins and loving friends. His grandfathers John Campbell and William Gray predeceased him. Family and friends may call at St. Jerome's Catholic Church, 5205 43rd Ave., Hyattsville, MD on Friday, December 14 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m., where Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday at 10 a.m. Interment Fort Lincoln Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jerome's School, 5205 43rd Ave., Hyattsville, MD 20781 or Dematha High School, 4313 Madison St., Hyattsville, MD 20781. Arrangements by GASCH'S FUNERAL HOME, P.A.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 12, 2007.

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Teresa Baldwin

February 14, 2008

Mary - I wanted to tell you how much I think of you, Kevin and Lauren - how my heart breaks everytime I think of what you are going through. I know Brian is missed by many especially his family - I will always be there for you - thanks for letting me - Love, Teresa

Annie Hart

January 19, 2008

Dear Mary,
My heart sinks, and I get a lump in my throat every time I have to pass that spot on belair drive. I think of you often and pray for you and your family. Jesus loves you all.

Julie Stuckey

January 17, 2008

Mary, Kevin & Lauren:
There isn't a day that goes by, or a minute in the day, that I don't think about Brian and you all. I wish I could take your pain away. You have been through so much in this lifetime. Mary, you are a wonderful mother, daughter, sister, friend. I pray for you all every day to get through this tragic time. If there is anything you need ever, please ask and I'll be there. I love you all so very much and Brian will be missed so much by so many people whose lives he has touched. I love you Brian! Aunt Julie.

Kathy McGehee

January 11, 2008

Mary, Kevin & Lauren ~
Please know that your family loves you more than words could ever express and that we'll be there for you always. Brian will never be forgotten by anyone whose life he touched and there will not be a day for the rest of our lives that we don't think about or miss him. Help him to live on through you.

FRIEDA SERGENT

January 5, 2008

HELLO, YOU DO NOT KNOW ME NOR DO I KNOW YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. BUT I WANTED TO SAY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I ALSO LOST MY 20 YEAR OLD SON ON SEPT.14 ,2007. HE WAS KILLED BY A AMBALANCE THAT DID NOT WANT TO WAIT FOR A RED LIGHT. HE WAS KILLED ON 198 IN LAUREL. I WAS NOT THERE TO WITNESS HIS DEATH BUT I DO KNOW YOUR PAIN FOR I AM STILL TRYING TO GO ON. I AM AGAIN SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WITH STRENGTH. REST IN PEACE BRIAN.MAY YOU MEET MY SON IN HEAVEN HIS NAME IS TONY.GOD BLESS.

Linda Trzybinski

January 3, 2008

My dear Mrs. Gray and Family,

I didn't know Brian but daily I feel sorrow for you all as I pass that horrible spot on Belair Drive. I missed the accident by mere minutes. This tragedy has gripped me. I was widowed at 41 and know the pain you already suffered, but my worst nightmares are the loss of my children and I simply cannot comprehend how you must feel. Please know that I pray for you many times a day and will continue to do so. Please contact me if I can do anything to help you, now or in the future. May God bless and keep you.

Tom Ponton

December 25, 2007

Rest in peace Brian and please know that you and your father will always be remembered fondly within the halls of DeMatha Catholic High School.

Dennis & Wanda Boucher

December 22, 2007

Mary, Kevin and Lauren,
Wanda has said many times Mary that you were appropriately named. May you find some comfort knowing Ricky was there to take Brian from you. You, Kevin and Lauren will stay in our prayers and in our lives forever. We love you.

Sandy Cox

December 16, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sandy Cox
Stephen (DeMatha 2011)

Wendy Tayman and Betty Beech

December 16, 2007

Dear Mary,

I wish there were adequate words to take away some of your sorrow and pain. Please accept our sympathies and know that our prayers are with you and your family.

December 15, 2007

Mary, Lauren and Kevin,
Our prayers are with you all during these days. We ask God to grant you strength and courage to carry on as Brian would want you to. My daughter, Mary, attended St. Jerome's from the Child Center until the 8th grade and knew Brian, Kevin, Lauren and Brandon. She was deeply shocked by the news. Know that there are many people you do not know who were touched and have you all in their prayers. After I write this, I am sending a check to St. Jerome's in Brian's memory. God bless you all.

Barbara Quick
and Mary Quick (St. Jerome's, class of 2005)

Scott Foley

December 14, 2007

Mary,

You are a symbol of strength and courage. May God's moments of peace on this earth comfort your spirit, move you forward, and send you the light of a star that shines on your every tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Gray family.

Shawn Farrell

December 14, 2007

Mary,

I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your son Brian. I can still see him in my mind up at Whitemarsh for football practice all those years ago. My sincere condolences and I will keep him, you, and your family in my prayers.

God Bless,
Shawn

Gale and Mike Seaton

December 14, 2007

Mary,

Our thoughts are with you during this devastating time for both you and your family. As parents who also lost a child unexpectedly, we understand that each day can bring new challenges for you.
We pray that you are able to find some strength, and a measure of comfort, through knowing you have the support of your many friends.

Suzie & Bill Kircher

December 14, 2007

Mary, Lauren and Kevin,
and Campbell and Gray families,
We hope the memories you have of good times with Brian will help get you through this terrible, difficult time in your lives. Hold tight to those memories. We love you and have you in our thoughts.

Joe & Gerri Noble-Martocci

December 14, 2007

Words do not do justice to express the sense of sorrow that we both feel for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers in this time of unspeakable grief.

Betty (Marcellino) Halstead

December 14, 2007

Dear Mary...I have been thinking of you and your family since I heard about the accident and I am so sorry. Please know you all are in my prayers and if there is anything you need please let me know.

Michele DiGuiseppe

December 14, 2007

Mary,
I'm deeply sadden and my heart aches for you and your family. I have fond memories of Brian as a young boy while attending St. Jerome's and enjoyed watching him grow into a fine young man. His passing is a tremendous loss and I will miss his smiling face and the gleam he had in his eyes and the hugs we would give one another when I saw him at TJ's. May the Good Lord give you and your family all the strength and comfort you will need as you go on with your lives. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,
Michele DiGuiseppe

Ernie Strouse

December 14, 2007

Dear Mary,

I am so sorry for your loss of Brian. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Mary & Jim Cooksey

December 13, 2007

To my dearest Mary, The Gray family and The Campbell family,
We're so sorry to hear Brian passed away, but know he's an angel and he's with Ricky watching over you now. You're in our prayers and may God bless you & the family.

Jackie Ferruzza(Saunders)

December 13, 2007

Mary, I was deeply saddened to hear about your son Brian's passing. I lost my 6 year old nephew to a hit and run last summer and know the devastation that you are going through right now, I watched my baby brother go through it. My heart is with you and if you ever need anything, please contact me.

'Arch' Archambeault

December 13, 2007

My prayers are with your family. Brian, you are tossing a football around with your father now. I played softball with Ricky, Brian's dad in the late 70's when he would come home from Notre Dame. God Bless.

Susie Smith (Reidy)

December 13, 2007

Oh Mary,
I'm so so sorry. I can't even began to express the pain and sorrow that's in my heart. The loss of a child, oh my God please keep Mary close to you very very close. Mary, a freind of mine told me when Anthony died to pray to Mother Mary as she knew what it was like to loose a child. I will pray to Mother Mary for you as I did for my sister Mickie. Because pepole really don't know how you feel if they havn't lost a child. We can only imagine. I've said a prayer for Brian, now all my prayers go to you and the family. God Bless
all my love and prayers, Susie
xxx/ooo

Susie Smith (Reidy)

December 13, 2007

Oh Mary,
I'm so so sorry. I can't even begin to exspress my sorrow and pain. All my love and thoughts go out to you and the family. I've said a prayer for Brian. Will also keep all of the family in my prayers. May God continue to look over all of you and keep you close.
All my love and prayer, Susie
xxx/ooo

Maria Brenneman

December 13, 2007

Mary and family
No words can begin to console you as you grieve the tragic loss of Brian. Remembering his life and spirit will live on in all of you. Please know that the prayers, love and support of your extended DeMatha family are with you during this time.
Maria, Bob and
Nick Brenneman (Class of 2006)

Mark & Mary Piccirilli and family

December 13, 2007

Mary and family,

We were very saddened to hear of your son's passing. Know that you will be in our hearts and prayers. God Bless you all.

Karen and Terry Cook

December 13, 2007

Dear Mary and the Gray family,
Even though we have never met, we are all part of the DeMatha family, and so our thoughts and prayers go out to you in deepest sympathy. God Bless You!
Joseph (DeMatha '06)
Christopher (DeMatha Junior)

Jean Mahady

December 13, 2007

Mary and extended family;

My condolences on your loss. Brian was a very special young man and will be missed by all those whose life he touched.

Charlie&Terri&Charlie Basile

December 13, 2007

To Mary and the Gray family,
We are in shock of the news. We just saw Brian,Thursday nite at St.Jerome's for Mr. Heidenberg. My son Charlie went to school with Brian.We are deeply sadden by his death. He will always be here with us!! God must of had needed Brian for something very special for him to take him now. Your in our prayers!

Jennifer Aguino

December 13, 2007

Mary, Kevin and Lauren:

Words cannot express how sorry and sadden I was when I heard about Brian. My heart hurts for you. I know that your Dad, Brian's Dad and my Dad (Uncle Chuck) will take good care of him. You are in my prayers.

Angela Adams

December 13, 2007

Mary, Kevin, and Lauren,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Angela
Donald (DeMatha '06)
Christopher (DeMatha '10)

Monica Harrison

December 13, 2007

Dear Mary,

I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of Brian. My son is a sophmore at DeMatha and I feel that even though I do not know you personally, you are part of my family. May God give you strength during your time of sorrow until you and Brian can meet again. Be comforted in knowing that he is in a better place.

Michael Ritter

December 13, 2007

Mary:

I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We are here for you if you need anything at all. God has called Brian home to be with his Dad, may he rest in peace.
Love
The Ritter Family

Patrick Corbin

December 13, 2007

Mary, Nancy are I are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this very traggic loss. With Love. Patrick, Nancy Corbin

Lauren Small

December 13, 2007

Mary and Family,

Please except my sincere condolences on the loss of Brain. You are in my prayers.

Karl Spangler

December 13, 2007

Dear Mary, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Brian. This is a wake-up call to all of us, about how short life is...
May God and His holy Spirit comfort you and your family and friends during this time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Judy Villella

December 13, 2007

I did't know Brian but he graduated with my son Anthony Villella "05". My son too left us way to early. Tony passed away in February. I know the hurt and pain you are going through. If you would like to talk call me (301)704-0669.

My prayers go out to you and your family.

Judy Villella

December 13, 2007

Mary, Kevin, Lauren, & Tim,

At times like this, words cannot say the things we would like them to, but may it be a help to know our thoughts are here with you.

Mary, please remember that the ones we love will always remain a part of us, you will always remember Brian, he will always live in your heart, in your memories, and in the way you see the world. I know that so much has changed, but so much will always be... Brian is a part of who you are...of how you live and give. Those priceless gifts are yours forever. In the sad times of life, it's part of God's plan for friends to help friends any way that they can. May you find strength in your faith, comfort in God's love, and peace in knowing we are praying for you and your family!

Love,
Jennifer & Mike

December 13, 2007

Mary, I have learned of the tragic loss of your dear son and my heart aches for you and your children. I pray you each will find your peace and strength at your own pace. My deepest sympathy.
M'liss Hinton (McLean, VA)

Dolores Gentry

December 13, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a nice young man. I will always remember him as being polite, cheerful and friendly towards all.

Mr. & Mrs Michael Gentry & Kyle Gentry (class of 2005)

Pam Hall

December 13, 2007

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

All our prayers are with you and your family at this time,

Love your cousins....

Pat and Suzy Crawford

December 13, 2007

Dear Mary,Lauren,Kevin and Family,
We send our love to all of you. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since the moment we heard about Brian. We can only hope that you can find comfort in the love and support of your family and friends. So many people care!

Kathy Lardner

December 13, 2007

Mary, I wish I could offer something other than mere words of condolense. Words just don't do it. My heart goes out to you on the loss of your dear son.

Dawn, David, Dory & Dane Zimmerman

December 13, 2007

Mary,
My heart hurts for you, the kids, your family. You have had so much tragedy touch your lives. I can't imagine a greater loss. I can't help but feel that Brian was taken, but am consoled that you got to hold him and that he's now with his Dad. Brian's eyes will sparkle through another with the gift you've given. I wish you strength and courage. I know that you have a ton of friends and family to wrap their arms around you and love and support you. Let them. This is a time when there is only one set of footprints, let Him carry you. We are here for you, Lauren, and Kevin if there is anything we can do. We'll keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers and will share our condolences with a donation to church and school in his name. I believe he will always be with you, living on in your hearts.

Richard Lehan

December 13, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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