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David Shaffer Obituary

Suddenly, on Friday, February 28, 2025, DAVID J. SHAFFER of Kensington, MD. Beloved partner of Joyce Winston, loving father of Brynn Shaffer and Jed Shaffer and step-brother of James Matthews. A memorial service will be held on Thursday, March 6, 2025, 3 p.m. at TORCHINSKY HEBREW FUNERAL HOME, 254 Carroll St., NW, Washington, DC. Interment private. After the service, the family will receive friends at the home of Harold Dorfman and Gretchen Livingston. Memorial contributions may be made to the Columbia Lighthouse For the Blind, 8757 Georgia Ave., Silver Spring, MD, 20910.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 5, 2025.

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Dorothy Ames

June 25, 2025

Brynn and Jed, So very sorry for your loss. I just saw this when I popped onto David's page to see exactly which day his birthday was. I worked for your Dad and we were friends. He was so kind and always lifted and helped others. A brilliant attorney, too. I have so many fond memories of my years working for him. Deepest condolences to you, may he rest in peace. God Bless.

Allison Anderson

March 5, 2025

Extending condolences to David´s family. I knew David as a colleague at Metro. I was greatly sadden to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace.

Antonio Stephens

March 5, 2025

My deepest condolences to the children, partner and friends of David. I met David at Metro and we became good friends when he joined the Department of Access Services. I shall never forget his dedication and passion for the rights to transportation access by people with disabilities, specifically those who were blind or visually impaired. David was a brilliant attorney and was highly respected by the disability community he served at Metro, it was a pleasure to have known him. May your memories of David provide you comfort and ease the pain of your loss. Wishing you peace and blessings.

Anu

March 5, 2025

Please accept my deepest condolences. David´s sudden tragic demise is really shocking. I had the pleasure of working with David and got to know the brilliant and dedicated person that he was. David's tremendous efforts will continue to live beyond him. He touched so many people in his unique way, that is just beyond any words. May he rest in peace! My heart goes out to the family! May you get strength to deal with such a huge loss.

Phill Staub

March 5, 2025

Joyce, Brynn & Jed, My heartfelt condolences on David's tragic passing. I had the pleasure of knowing David when he worked in Metro's Legal Dept. I can therefore appreciate that this painful family loss is also a great loss to the community that he served with such dedication. His is a life to be proud of, which should not be diminished by how abruptly he was taken from us. Sincere sympathy, Phill Staub

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